My mother-in-law forced us to divorce after two years of marriage. One year later, I ran into my ex-husband in the hospital and my mother-in-law and her family asked me to remarry. What should I do?

At any time and under any circumstances, people who go back on their word will be very offensive. Especially on some very important matters, such as marriage, people who go back on their word will definitely offend others.

I know a man who offended his ex-girlfriend because he went back on his word about getting married. So when he got married to someone else, he was made a big fuss at the wedding, and the marriage didn't take place, and he was left with a lot of problems. Bad reputation:

"If I hadn't listened to my mother's advice and broken up with my ex-girlfriend, I wouldn't have made my marriage unhappy. Originally, we had been in love for several years and had decided to get married. However, my mother temporarily arranged a marriage for me, and then brainwashed me in various ways, encouraging me to break up with my ex and let me marry the woman she arranged for me.

I muddle-headedly followed her request, but as a result, I offended my ex-girlfriend by going back on my word. She was very quiet when we first broke up, but when I got married to that woman, she took someone with her. Making a scene at my wedding.

Other people have their ex-girlfriends make a big fuss about their weddings, and most of the people who suffer are the ex-girlfriends. But my ex-girlfriend made a big fuss about my wedding, and I was the one who suffered the loss, because I was in the wrong, because I failed my ex-girlfriend, and because I felt sorry for my ex-girlfriend. What's more important is that she knew everything about me. She broke up with me and said everything at the wedding, which directly led to my being repented of the marriage.

After she achieved her goal, she disappeared directly from my world, and I had to bear all the remaining mess. Obviously this was a tragedy caused by my mother, but she didn't care about me. If I had known this, I might as well just marry my ex-girlfriend.

The most profound lesson this tragedy of marriage has left me is: You should not go back on your word as a person, and you should not change your mind about things that have been agreed upon. Otherwise, once you offend others or be retaliated against, you will only regret it. and. 』

The lesson the man above learned in the end was very realistic. Sadly, he only understood these truths after experiencing a tragedy, and the price seemed too high.

In reality, there are many people like him who regret it after a tragedy. The ex-mother-in-law of the divorced woman below also made a similar mistake. Let’s take a look.

I want to complain about my ex-husband and my mother-in-law. Both of them, mother and son, one has no opinion and the other makes decisions blindly. When they forced me to divorce, they didn’t care about my life or death, whether I was a tragedy or not, but they reaped the consequences. He himself became a tragedy.

Originally, without the interference of my mother-in-law, my ex-husband has no independent opinion, but as long as he listens to my arrangements, our life will be very happy. But this kind of thing is impossible. Not only does my mother-in-law exist, she also messes with our marriage.

Perhaps in her own opinion, she got involved in her son's marriage for his own good and wanted to help her son run a good marriage. But the problem is that marriage is not her son's business alone. I am a living person and I am also a party to the marriage. She does not consider my feelings when she manages the marriage for her son. Of course I will not accept her random arrangements.

It can be said that she completely deprived her son of his rights as a party to the marriage, making it as if I was married to her. She would have a hand in everything and make decisions for her son indiscriminately. She deliberately went against me. No matter what I did, she objected and said it was wrong. Then she made random demands and asked me to do what she asked.

I am not as opinionated as her son. For me, I have my own understanding of what is right and what is wrong. When there is a conflict between my understanding and my mother-in-law's understanding, we can only quarrel.

I did not get divorced because of conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but she preemptively encouraged her son to divorce me, and secretly arranged a blind date and marriage for her son, hoping to find a remarriage partner. Then drive me away.

Her conspiracy was successful for the time being. Yes, she determined her son’s remarriage partner. Yes, she did get her son to divorce me as she wished. Unfortunately, she only took a fancy to her. Got the beginning, but didn't guess the ending.

After my ex-husband and I divorced, my mother-in-law immediately posted this on WeChat: "My son is finally divorced, I'm so happy!"

After seeing this post on WeChat I was stung, and secretly cursed in my heart that their family would not die well, and would suffer retribution sooner or later.

I don’t know if God heard my voice, but things developed exactly as I expected: Just when my ex-husband and the woman arranged by my mother-in-law were about to get married, she suddenly regretted the marriage, and then Married directly to someone else.

My mother-in-law became so angry that she went to the woman’s house to make a fuss. However, she was exposed and blamed her for breaking up my ex-husband. She was silenced and had to Leave in despair.

Her plot failed and there was no other alternative, so she thought of me and wanted me to remarry her son. She acted as if I was easy to bully and pretended. Zuo said to me in a very generous manner, "Daughter-in-law, as long as you remarry my son, I will agree to whatever conditions you put forward!"

Of course it was impossible for me to remarry her son, but I didn't say it directly. Instead of remarrying, I made a request according to her wishes, "Give me 10 million, and we can remarry at any time!"

After hearing this, she was dumbfounded and began to negotiate terms with me. I did not continue to pester her. When I had the chance, I closed the door and let the dogs off to see off the guests.

This kind of person deserves to end up like this, this kind of person deserves to be punished, this kind of person deserves to be beaten back to his original form, deserves to be betrayed by everyone, deserves to be criticized. She thought she could plot against everyone by being clever, but in fact, no one would be willing to be plotted against.

Emotional advice:

People who go back on their word not only always offend others, but also always encounter similar people.

This phenomenon is easy to understand: people who go back on their word are almost always out of selfishness and calculation. Such people always look at the mountains and think that they can climb higher by going back on their word. Good people don't pay attention to whether they are good enough. As a result, they will fail because they are rejected by people with good conditions, and they will be "betrayed" by others.

This is the case with the mother-in-law in the above case. She agreed to her son’s daughter-in-law’s marriage and then forced her daughter-in-law to divorce. She wanted to compete with a better woman, but she was “betrayed” by others. Then she played the trick of going back on her word. If you ask your daughter-in-law to remarry, this kind of person will end up with nothing in the end.

People who have been hurt by such people certainly do not need to be polite to them. If they hurt you and then pretend to be good people and want to reconcile with you, just reject them directly and attack them, because if this kind of person does not want to use you or plot against you, it is impossible for them to come back to you.

Putting it to marriage, if you are like the woman above who was forced to divorce by your mother-in-law, and after the divorce she goes against her promise and asks you to remarry, you cannot accept the remarriage under any circumstances. The reason is very simple: she forced her to remarry. The reason why you divorced is that you are worthless. The reason for remarrying you later is because after you left, her son couldn't even marry a worthless person. She wants to continue to plot against you. If you agree to remarry, it must be Jump into the fire pit again.