Try to meet the children's requirements.

Parenting has always been a difficult problem for all parents, especially when faced with many unreasonable demands, which makes parents feel at a loss.

"Mothers who don't do homework are kind and filial, and when they do homework, chickens fly and dogs jump." This is a summary of online comments on children who talk nonsense continuously, especially those who have children at home.

Children's homework is a part of parenting classics, and whether children's nonsense requirements should be met is also a big knot for parents.

Our family likes to buy toys. There are almost mountains of toys at home, such as robots, transformers, remote-controlled racing cars, Altman and so on. When you see a toy you like, you have to buy it. If you don't like it for a while, you have to change it. Even Altman has many differences, and sometimes I really can't figure out what these similar toys are for.

Because there are many toys at home, when I see similar toys outside, I always find various reasons to shirk them, or entice them to change them through snacks. In short, my choice view is very simple, not to give children what they want, but to judge whether they need to buy according to the actual situation.

Although it is said that children can't suffer no matter how hard they are, everything can't be decided by their nature. Overindulgence will only be counterproductive. Perhaps most parents have this idea, and then comprehensively evaluate whether the child's requirements are reasonable according to their own conditions.

Whether it is reasonable for parents to meet their children's requirements selectively may have their own advantages and disadvantages, but occasionally when listening to the teacher's own views, the teacher said: If possible, try to meet the children's requirements until the children grow up, which is meaningless.

Indeed, it is difficult for parents to understand their children's unreasonable demands. Why do they still need to buy toys they already have? Why didn't they want them for a long time? Children's toys have a shelf life, and it is meaningless to buy them after the shelf life.

For preschool children, they are obsessed with toys. If parents don't buy it, children will always think about it, and even feel that their parents are stingy. These regrets will remain in their children's minds forever. When children go to primary school, they may not be so obsessed with toys. When the children go to junior high school, you may buy those toys for them. Even if children grow up, they will think that their parents have not satisfied their regrets.

In the process of children's growth, toys are indispensable key items. Parents think buying toys is a waste, but children's excitement may be more important than eating. Although they don't have toys that they abandon after playing for a long time, their children's satisfaction and sense of accomplishment are always there. Meeting children's requirements can increase their self-confidence in life.

Finally, in childhood, if you can satisfy your child, you should try your best to satisfy it. If you miss it, there is no point in going back to meet it. Give children a sunny, confident and energetic childhood.