What if I often say the wrong thing and regret it?

Since there is nothing we can do about the past, we should not spend so much time recalling the painful past at this time. If our time and energy are entangled in the past, it is tantamount to adding pain to ourselves. At this time, I might as well let go and think of something happy to make myself feel better.

2. Don't panic.

Everyone may make some mistakes, which are inevitable, and different attitudes and solutions to mistakes determine our personal growth. So, when you regret doing something wrong, don't panic, try to solve the problem. This is what we should learn.

3. Find the crux.

Now that the mistake has been made, it should be corrected as soon as possible. What we need to do before correcting is to find the crux of the problem. After all, if we don't know how to sum up experience and lessons, we may continue to make the same mistake next time. Therefore, we must find a way to find the crux.

4. find a way to remedy it.

If you have done something wrong, it is useless to regret it at this time. The best solution is to remedy. So, spend your limited time and energy on how to regret doing something wrong. You know, not everyone has the opportunity to remedy, minimize the loss and alleviate the inner pain.

5. Do more right things.

No matter when you do something wrong, no matter how bitter you are, you should learn to let go of the past and try your best to spend your energy on what you should do now. If we don't want to make mistakes, we'd better find ways to do the right thing and make ourselves feel better.

6. Pay less attention to gains and losses.

If a person takes gains and losses seriously, he is a person who cannot let go of himself. If you can't forgive your mistakes, it's hard for such people to achieve anything again. Therefore, Bian Xiao suggested that you underestimate your personal gains and losses and try not to let yourself fall into endless pain.