How to write the tombstone inscription for couples with the same surname?

This question is very interesting. Husband and wife have the same surname, and they don't feel anything at ordinary times, but it's really embarrassing to meet a wedding, funeral and wedding. They don't know how to sign their names, and erecting a monument after death also brings problems to future generations.

(Ancient Tombstone Map)

In the old society, there were marriages with the same surname, but traditional folk ideas thought it was not a glorious thing. As a marriage, it is inevitable that the man and the woman have contacts, but normal communication is nothing. When it comes to weddings, funerals and weddings, it will be in trouble. For example, in the old days, son-in-law had to make couplets and plaques to show respect for his father-in-law and the scenery at home. My parents-in-law died, and now I send flowers and rings, instead of sacrificial cloth. Like a wreath, the sacrificial cloth should be unfolded, raised like a national flag, displayed in front of people, and signed with a note. Because of the same surname, when signing, the front part and the back part will have the same government name, which will make a joke. Similarly, after the death of husband and wife, a monument should be erected and inscribed. If it is not buried together, the husband's handwriting is still good, and the wife's inscription becomes a problem.

(picture of women's tombstone)

In the past, some people used Zongfu and Zongshi instead of surnames to avoid this embarrassment, but later it was found that this was wrong. The woman is ok, but the man has changed his surname. That's not betraying his ancestors. Because clan surname is one of hundreds of surnames, although few people have surnames, it is an ancient surname. Later, the man's signature did not need to be called the father, and a word was added, called the father, which means the in-laws with the same surname. The woman's surname doesn't matter, so the inscription still uses the name of the master. That is, "the tomb of an old man and a woman" is buried with a monument in two columns, with the man's real surname and the woman's clan.

Some places are different, because families live in groups. In order to avoid some unnecessary troubles, when the same surname is married, the daughter-in-law changes her surname immediately after marriage. Generally, it is changed to the same surname as the mother-in-law, and some are changed to the same surname as the mother-in-law, thus cleverly avoiding the husband and wife sharing the same surname. Others change homophones into surnames, such as Yang's surname changed to Yang's surname, Chen's surname changed to surname, Liu's surname changed to surname, and so on. Postmortem inscriptions are not a problem.

(rural tombstone map)

It is more interesting to get married with the same surname now, especially at the peak of the only child's marriage. It is considered a very lucky thing to get married with the same surname. Today, couples who are married with the same surname will not argue over their children's surnames, nor will they be wrong because of their surnames. Husband and wife have only one surname. As for how these only-child couples with the same surname will erect a monument a hundred years later, that is later. I believe their children will have the wisdom to solve such problems.

This is not a big problem, because our surname Chen is the fifth largest in the country, and the phenomenon of husband and wife sharing the same surname often occurs. According to our custom, the way to deal with it is: Gong and Master Ma, while China's writing is profound, because Master Ma is actually our surname. In order to avoid the inconvenience caused by the same surname, the word "zong" is used, which is both reasonable and taboo.

By the way, there is another situation: some people die prematurely for some reason, and they don't get married or don't get married at all. After death, it's a bit bleak to be alone on the ancestral temple motherboard, and later generations can also arrange it on the immortal motherboard. This is written, for example, Gong and Fu Ma, Fu Ma is meaningless, just beautifying the appearance.

In our country, it is generally understood by looking at the tablet or inscription of God. The people are of the same clan and surname, and Fu's words are that there is no wife at all.

In fact, in addition to the clan law mentioned above, there is another method for other surnames. For example, people will add a little king to become jade, and their rules for jade are actually variants of king, and there are other variants that will not be listed here.

Sometimes, I really admire the wisdom of our ancestors and the profoundness of China culture. Often, a word difference makes us all happy!

In the past, the inscription on the tombstone was X Gong△, and the feudal patriarchal clan system required that the deceased couple should not have the same surname. However, the times are advancing. In real life, many couples are married with the same surname, so when writing inscriptions, men use surnames and women use "Tong's" or "Zong's" instead, which not only avoids the similarity of surnames, but also implies that they are married with the same surname. According to legend, the Wang clan in Nanjing has been married for tens of kilometers with the same surname, and the words "Wanggong" and "Yujia" were used on the tombstone ... The title and format of the main card are basically the same as those of the tombstone, but the difference is that the main card respects the ancestors and can be called "Fujun". Zhu Zi's family said, "Those who don't have official titles are called Fujun, also called Chu Shi Fujun." . Fujun is the word that the son of man respects his ancestors.

Such as Li Longxi and Zhang Qinghe.

Husband and wife are two people! Two people are just two souls! What does it have to do with the same surname? It is up to their descendants to erect a monument and write! If you don't know how to write, you don't know how to write. Ask more questions!

Male: He died in the tomb of X Shou in A.D. and was publicly forbidden by X..

Female: the tomb of X's mother, X's mother, died in AD.

This is not right! But there is a rule in writing this tomb, commonly known as ecliptic ruler! Otherwise, it's chicken.