Dad is becoming more and more stubborn and difficult to get along with. How to solve it?

It is you who need to change, not your father. If his stubbornness doesn't violate any bottom line and laws, then pamper him, just as he would tolerate you unconditionally when he was a child. Nowadays, many young people complain that their parents are stubborn and difficult to get along with, as if it is always their parents who make mistakes. Don't you have a problem? In the face of dark and insidious society, we can all face it calmly. How can you be so impatient and tolerant in front of your biological parents?

Besides my dad, he is an old fogey. He obviously has stomach trouble, and he is not allowed to eat leftovers overnight. He insisted on eating them and scolded me for not cherishing and wasting food. At this time, even if I am peaceful and reasonable, my father will think that I am disobedient and argue with him. That can only be done in another way. Eat more the night before, and strive for no leftovers, otherwise I will eat leftovers the next day. What is the reason? Yesterday's leftovers are all my favorite, so can't you take them from me? . Several times, I deliberately made a noise in the middle of the night for my father to hear, and then said that I was hungry and secretly dumped the leftovers. The older a person is, the more like a child, and it is easy to be opinionated. What we can do is to adopt circuitous tactics and not have any direct conflict with him, thus intensifying contradictions.

In fact, put yourself in others' shoes. Sometimes we think that the old man is stubborn for reasons he can't say. Eating leftovers is that they cherish food and don't go to the hospital for physical examination, but they are reluctant to spend money. Even those old people who have to go out for a walk in the epidemic are not ignorant, but they are too lonely at home. Children always play with their mobile phones, but no one is with them. If children can care more about their parents and interact more, most of their differences can be effectively solved.

Therefore, as a child, your mature pace must keep up with the aging speed of your parents, and you should try your best to accommodate them instead of letting your parents try to cooperate with you. Stop complaining. No matter how difficult my dad is to get along with, can he be worse than Zhou Pipi's boss? Don't ignore him, stay away from him, he will be sad, and you will regret it later.