Children are mediocre, how should parents adjust their mentality?

Let's talk about "mediocrity" first. Mediocrity is a comparative concept. A person who can be called XX family seems to be mediocre compared with an ordinary farmer. According to this logic, most people in society are mediocre. Isn't that fair? If mediocrity refers to a person's average IQ and ability, or refers to a person's achievements and contributions, then most people are also mediocre. Therefore, mediocre people are not inferior, nor should they be discriminated against, despised or treated unfairly.

Society is made up of people at different levels. They live at different levels and do different things, but their status, identity and contribution are different. This is like nature, with big trees and grass; There are rivers, seas and streams; There are huge rocks and sand grains; There are flowers and green leaves, which are interrelated and form a colorful world. The same is true of human beings. So as far as each individual is concerned, they are not mediocre. Moreover, even if a person is mediocre, he has his own unique side and development potential and space, and he will also become a social person who is beneficial to society, can exist independently and has personal dignity.

Understand the above truth, as parents, how to treat children's mediocrity should be very clear. Give some suggestions for reference. Parents should abandon the feelings of comparison and inferiority, correctly understand mediocrity, treat children correctly, don't put pressure on children, and don't hurt their self-esteem. Let children grow up happily. Guide children correctly, be good at discovering their strengths and unique potential, and fully create conditions for children to work hard in that direction and develop freely. Give children selfless care and love, encourage and praise more, and let them build up confidence and be optimistic. Cultivate children's ability to deal with people and social viability, cultivate children's sound personality and learn to be a man. Personality is often more important than knowledge and plays a vital role in children's development. Educate children to establish a correct world outlook, values and outlook on life from childhood, and lay the foundation for their lifelong growth. Since God has given talents, let them be used! Why talk about equality and mediocrity?