Why do people grow bolder and bolder?

When we watch some costume dramas or novels, we often have such plots.

The bad guy knelt in front of the protagonist, crying with a snot and tears:

"Young Xia, I have eighty mothers in the world, and there are starving children in the world. Please spare my life. "

Although it is an ordinary line, it really shows the hardships and difficulties of middle-aged life.

The older you get, the more you experience, the more you take on, the more things you have to take care of, and the less courageous you are.

Reading at night | The older you get, the smaller your courage becomes.

The older you get, the more afraid you are of death.

An old friend came to see me a few days ago. After work, I hurriedly called a taxi to go to the appointment.

The master was driving a tepid car along the way, so I urged him to say, "Master, can you find a friend quickly?"

The master smiled and said, "You can call your friends in advance to say hello. After all, safety comes first. "

While I was still lamenting Master's fear of death, Master told me his story.

When I was young, I always had fearless courage.

For driving, in places where people and cars are scarce, you often step on the accelerator to the end and become a famous mountain car god in autumn, enjoying the feeling of flying.

But once, something happened by accident.

When he woke up, his old father came from his hometown in a panic. At that time, his hometown was a mountain road. The old man had to drive all night to explore the county hospital. When he arrived, he looked haggard and frightened.

However, the 7-year-old daughter was scared to death when she saw blood in the corner. She cried and said to him, in the future, she will listen to her father. ...

Master felt lucky, but it was just a small car accident. It was okay to have a plaster cast on his thigh for a month, but he always remembered the feeling of passing death.

Only by watching life and death can we know the fragility and preciousness of life. About life, some people are sent to hospital, and they can come back from the gate of hell in the first half of their lives, and some even have no chance to regret it.

Finally, he said: "When I was young, I always thought that death was a distant thing, but at this age, I felt my life was fragile and I couldn't control myself."

Now, he goes to bed early and gets up early, keeps exercising, carries a kettle with him, and keeps Chinese wolfberry and red dates.

Reading at night | The older you get, the smaller your courage becomes.

The older you get, the less life you have. Living well is not only responsible for yourself, but also for your family.

The older you get, the less courageous you become. Will gradually lose the momentum of "newborn calves are not afraid of tigers", and will also know how to fear life and know how to be courteous in front of life.

Reading at night | The older you get, the smaller your courage becomes.

The older you get, the more afraid you are of poverty.

Long Gu once said with a smile:

"The older you get, the more greedy you get, just because you see through everything and know that nothing is more real than money."

The older you get, the harder it is to open money; I will be more cautious about challenges and more cautious in the face of fate.

Like my father.

When he was young, he broke away from the system and started a business in the south regardless of everyone's obstruction.

I work as an assembly line worker in an assembly line of a factory. After working for half a year, I was confused about the future and began to go to Shenzhen to do sales. After running for a year, I became a mobile phone agent ...

Later, I met my mother. After marriage, my job is stable and my heart is stable. Slowly stop running around and spend more energy on running a family.

A few years ago, some relatives at home wanted to invest with him. They went back and forth several times, describing the grand development plan to him and trying to convince him.

My parents wavered, but in the end they didn't agree.

That day, after refusing the guests, he said to me:

"At what age should do what age. When you are in your twenties, you can't be timid or shrink back.

But when you are old, don't be so reckless as you were in your twenties. That's irresponsible to you and your family. "

I didn't understand this until I went out to work and met more people.

Older people finish everything in life step by step, not because their blood is cold and they are afraid of making changes, but because they know that at their age, the price of choice has become higher and the fault tolerance rate has become smaller, so they should be careful every step in the future, because they are responsible for the happiness of the whole family.

Once old, life is tied to the whole family, and they become the backbone and armor of the family.

They are more afraid of poverty and failure. At first glance, they are short-sighted, but in fact, they are just carrying a simple wish, that is, to let their families eat and wear warm clothes.

Children need care, wives need care, and parents need support. They shoulder the responsibility of making their loved ones happy, and they carefully move towards the path with the least risk. This timidity is great.

Because the greater the burden, the less courage.

Reading at night | The older you get, the smaller your courage becomes.

The older you get, the more you realize "cowardice"

The older you get, the more you love to lie, and you learn to report good news to your family instead of bad news.

I heard a story the other day.

A cleaning aunt was bullied by a group of passing young people when she was on duty outside.

They drank and had fun. Smashed her garbage truck, smashed her broom, gave her a push, pushed her down, and left a big hole on her elbow by the glass.

She went to the nearby clinic to dress the wound, wrapped it, and then came back to finish the work silently.

When I got home, I washed and cooked as if nothing had happened and smiled as if nothing had happened.

Later, it was her colleague who mentioned it to her husband, and the family knew about it.

"Why don't you say, don't cry, don't shout pain? Why not resist, call the police and argue? "

Everyone said a little angrily, "The older you get, the more timid you become. Too timid. "

She just gave a wry smile.

Later, I talked about this in private with others. She said, "I just don't want my child's husband to be frightened."

When I was young, I was full of blood and courage. I feel wronged and have to fight for a sigh of relief.

Cry when it hurts, shout when it hurts, and scold when it gets angry.

However, how old are you? You should be able to stretch and bend. A lot of things, afraid of trouble, afraid of offending people, after thinking about it, they waved their hands and said, "Forget it."

I am even more afraid because my life is entangled, I am involved with my family, and I am afraid with myself.

You worked so hard outside that you forgot to eat. Your parents called and promised that you were full.

When you are wronged in the workplace, you will try to consume your grievances before entering the house and convince yourself repeatedly that "don't bring bad emotions to your family."

You have been cheated by the wicked, and you are helpless. In front of your family, you will stand up straight and tell yourself not to fall in front of them. ...

Reading at night | The older you get, the smaller your courage becomes.

The older you get, the more timid you will become. It is not incompetence and cowardice, but maturity in another way.

I'm scared, but I love you so much.

Reading at night | The older you get, the smaller your courage becomes.

Some people say that the more mature people are, the more they will slowly wrap themselves up and live alone.

The older you get, the more superstitious you become about fate.

The older you get, the more you will yearn for a stable life.

Because of children and family, life has given us a special liking, indestructible armor and untouchable softness.

Yi Ze, a scholar, said in Xia Meng's Crazy Poetry: "People are like this. The older they get, the heavier the burden of life. Any blow can crush yourself as small as an ant. "

We are no longer the boy and girl who said we would kill dragons with knives, nor do we want to be a prodigal son who travels around the world with knives, but we want to be a good mother, father, daughter and son. ...

We no longer want to save the world, but want to spend more time helping our mother wash dishes and telling our daughter fairy tales. ...

It's not that I'm timid, but that I understand that everything should be measured, that life is precious, that I can't unload my baggage lightly, and that my loved ones should try to protect it.

Because we want to love everything we love for the rest of our lives. The love behind this is deep and great, gentle and subtle.

This is not cowardice, cowardice or cowardice, but:

Give, realize, and love.