Short Speech Notes for Fourth Grade Parents’ Meeting 2021

The school will hold a parent-teacher meeting every semester to communicate well with parents, successfully hold a parent-teacher meeting, and establish a harmonious home-school relationship, which is of great help to daily education and teaching. The following is from me The "Short Speech Draft for Fourth Grade Parents' Meeting 2021" compiled for everyone is for reference only, and everyone is welcome to read it. A brief speech for the fourth grade parent-teacher meeting 2021-1

Dear teachers and parents:

Hello everyone!

I am the parent of xx in Class 4 (1). First of all, I would like to thank all the teachers for their careful cultivation and care for xx and all the children. At the same time, I would also like to thank all the parents for giving me such an opportunity. Let me discuss with you *** the issue of children's education here. As a young parent, I have little experience in educating my children. The following are some suggestions and methods that I have accumulated in educating my children. I hope to share with all the parents and friends here!

1. Let the child look at your level.

When a child looks up at his parents, he will have a strong sense of inferiority. Therefore, we should squat down and become equal friends with our children. At this time, you will find how much the child longs for his parents to look at him at eye level, and how much he hopes that he can communicate with his parents on an equal footing. Parents' respect for their children is not just reflected in their gaze. It should also be reflected in the attitude towards children. A gentle tone, attentive listening, and a harmonious atmosphere will cultivate children's self-confidence and affection for their parents. Now that I have only one child, I feel lonely at home. Therefore, I always try to take time to communicate with my children and treat them as my own friends. I read, play games, watch TV, listen to music with them, and sometimes take them out to visit bookstores. Sometimes when I was worried, I would chat with him, talk about my work, and the students in the class. He was quite interested, and sometimes he would give me some suggestions. Although it was ridiculous, he learned to comfort me. people. I want him to know that adults are also unhappy sometimes, and it is not easy for adults.

2. Let the children throw away the "crutch" and learn to take responsibility

Many parents simply interpret their love for their children as doting. Many children live a life of "clothes to stretch out their hands and food to open their mouths". Maybe the parents' subjective intention is to let their children have more time to learn knowledge, but this has the opposite effect invisibly, making the children develop a dependence mentality and use their parents as crutches on the long road of life. , when a child encounters a setback, he may fall down heavily. Although the child is young, the cultivation of his sense of responsibility cannot be ignored. I will pay attention to cultivating him from the details of life. For example, when I am doing hygiene, I will ask him to help me wipe my desk and the glass of doors and windows. I will also pay attention to my tone when speaking, and start to say: "Son, please... "Help me..." After finishing, always say: "Thank you!" "Although he can't do it well, and I even have to do it all over again, as long as he does it, I actively encourage him and let him develop the habit of doing some things by himself. For example, pouring water and delivering garbage to the best of his ability. I usually lack some things at home. When he needs necessities, I will try to ask him to go to a nearby store to buy them. If I send him to school, I will try to let him carry his own schoolbag. After finishing his homework, he can pack the schoolbag independently and prepare it for the next day. You should put the clothes, shoes and socks you need to wear by yourself, put the books you have read back to their original places as much as possible, put the dirty clothes in the washing machine by yourself, wash your face, brush your teeth, and wash your feet by yourself, take a bath by yourself in summer, and don’t throw away the garbage (no matter what) Whether at home or outside), be sure to look at the traffic lights when crossing the road, put the bowl in the sink when eating by yourself, and serve it yourself if you still want to eat... Let the children develop the character and habit of doing things by themselves and loving labor from an early age, for They will lay a good foundation for being independent in society. This is truly responsible for children and true love for children.

3. Let children learn happily and do not let them get tired on the journey of learning.

Learning is a lifelong lesson. Don’t let your children feel that learning is a burden or a pressure. Instead, let them accept it with happiness, experience it with a smile, and learn actively. Wanting me to learn and wanting to learn are two different concepts. Parents often want to cram all kinds of knowledge into their children's brains. Especially during the holidays, all kinds of after-school tutoring that exceeds the child's ability to accept come one after another. What parents don't expect is that doing so will only be counterproductive. After a heavy load and a long period of various studies, the child's mental and physical strength will be "overdrawn" to varying degrees. Therefore, parents must selectively provide tutoring for their children based on their actual situation, and never let their children collapse from exhaustion on their journey to academic peaks.

Fourth, communicate more with your children, love our children wholeheartedly, make friends with them, and grow with them while educating them. I will take some time to chat with my child every day, even if it is just ten minutes, I will ask him how he was at school today. In this way, over time, the children have enhanced their ability to communicate with others, their courage has also improved, and they have become good friends with me, which provides me with prerequisites for educating my children in the future.

Children are our hope and the future of our motherland. Believe in our children, today they are just small bonsai trees at home; tomorrow, in the vast world, they will grow into towering trees.

I hope that we, as parents, will communicate frequently and frequently with teachers, and actively assist teachers and co-educators to educate our children well, so that they can grow up healthily, freely, and have a happy life. A happy and unforgettable childhood! Let us start now and pay more attention to our children, because educating children well is our unshirkable responsibility and obligation!

Thank you everyone! A brief speech for the fourth grade parent-teacher meeting 2021 2

Dear parents:

Hello everyone!

Thank you very much for participating in the parent-teacher meeting. For the sake of our children, we hope that parents and teachers will work together for a better present and future for our children! Teacher xx, an education expert, said: "The goal of education is to cultivate a healthy personality, and the method of education is to cultivate habits." The child is already in the fourth grade, which has changed significantly from the previous three years. Both teachers and parents should be aware of these situations. Only by teaching students in accordance with their aptitude can children grow up healthily. Let's first get to know the fourth grade.

The third and fourth grades are a critical grade in the primary school stage. We call it the turning point, and the fourth grade is in the late stage of the turning point. At this stage, students' physical, mental and learning content will undergo major changes. If this stage of learning is ignored, it will have a serious impact on students' future learning.

1. Learning content

Starting from the fourth grade, children’s learning content has changed. The lower grades are mainly about some very basic knowledge. As long as the children are willing to work hard, it is generally not a problem. In the middle grade, the knowledge learned changes from simple to complex, and from the image thinking in the lower grades to the abstract thinking in the upper grades. This puts higher demands on students. Basic knowledge must be mastered in a solid way, and you must read what you should read. , What should be copied must be copied, and what should be practiced must be practiced. But at the same time, children must expand their thinking and consider problems from different perspectives.

2. Psychological aspects

When children grow up, they also learn to think, and they also learn to observe your words and emotions. People you like will be willing to communicate with you, and people you don’t like will talk to you. You go against it. Moreover, he will keep some things in his heart and does not like to communicate with teachers and parents. If you care about him and value him, maybe he will tell you what is on his mind when he is happy. If he is unhappy, he will bury it in his heart. It makes you unable to understand his thoughts, so that you cannot guide his learning. In addition, parents also need to grasp the scale of criticism. At this stage, children's self-esteem is gradually increasing, which means that the children we usually talk about know that they are "embarrassed" and are afraid of "losing face", so parents When educating children, we must grasp the scale.

Next, I would like to make some suggestions for today’s parent-teacher meeting, for reference only:

1. Pay attention to school education, but also pay more attention to family education

Someone once Asking the question: What is the most important educational institution in the world? Some people say famous schools, some people say it is the primary and secondary schools that lay the foundation, and some people say it is the melting pot of society. And one educator's answer is - family. The family is the main battlefield of education. Especially when there are many adults in today's classes, the education model is to face the whole class, and the education and teaching are mostly gender-based content, making it difficult to achieve one-on-one teaching in accordance with aptitude. It is the unshirkable responsibility of parents to guide their children's personality development.

However, many parents believe that the key to whether their children can receive a good education is whether they can send their children to a good school and whether they can meet a brilliant teacher. However, they have neglected the importance of the family to their children. The influence of growth. The result is an education result of 5 2 less than 7. In fact, if we think about it for a while, we will find that the same school and the same teacher produce very different students. Where does this difference come from? Mainly from family of course. In a family with a rich collection of books and parents with good reading habits, children will be immersed in it and gradually make friends with books. If parents don't like reading, it will be difficult for their children to like reading. Parents themselves and their methods of educating their children directly affect their children's development.

Sharing Story 1: "The Story of Dividing Apples"

In order to study the impact of mothers on people's lives, an American psychologist selected 50 successful people and 50 successful people in the United States. For those with criminal records, write to them individually and ask them to talk about their mother's influence on them. Two of the letters were about the same thing: dividing apples.

A letter was written by a prisoner from prison: When I was a child, one day my mother brought some apples of different sizes. I really wanted the red and big apple. Unexpectedly, my brother said what I wanted to say first. After hearing this, his mother glared at him and scolded him: "Good children must learn to give good things to others and not always think about themselves." Seeing that my brother was criticized, I had an idea and said, "Mom, I want the smallest apple, and leave the biggest one to my brother." My mother was very happy after hearing this, and rewarded the big red apple to Got me. From then on, I learned to lie.

Another letter was written by a famous person from the White House: When I was a child, one day my mother took out several apples of different sizes. My brothers and I were all vying for the bigger one. Mom held up the reddest and largest apple in her hand and said to us: "This apple is the reddest, largest and most delicious. Everyone wants it. So, let's have a competition. I will divide the lawn in front of the door into three pieces. You guys One person is responsible for pruning it, and whoever does it the fastest and best has the right to get it. "The three of us competed in weeding, and as a result, I won the biggest apple. I am very grateful to my mother, she made me understand the simplest and most important truth. ——Exchange everything for yourself through labor!

It can be seen that no one can replace the careful care and guidance of parents for their children! Therefore, at any time, do not exaggerate the educational function of the school and ignore the education of the family.

2. Pay more attention to test scores, but also to good habits

Scores are important because they reflect children’s learning status in a certain period; but I think good habits are even more beneficial. lifelong. It’s never too late to learn knowledge, but it’s important to develop habits when you’re young. As the saying goes: You look old at the age of three. If a child develops the habit of loving reading, the habit of doing things seriously, the habit of learning to listen to others, the habit of doing things in a planned and organized manner, and the habit of thinking about others, his score will definitely not be that bad. The winner must belong to him!

When it comes to scores, I want to talk about the issue of treating children’s scores correctly.

First, do not judge children’s progress or backwardness based on their scores. Measure the difficulty of the test paper, compare the class as a whole, and evaluate the child’s learning attitude.

Second, don’t compare your current scores with those in first grade.

As the grade level increases, the content of the exam is getting deeper and deeper, with more and more knowledge outside of books, more and more question types for practical learning, more and more emphasis on thinking training, and more and more content to examine children's comprehensive application ability. More and more children are likely to make mistakes no matter where they are weak in the test.

The third is to shift the focus from scores to exam summaries. The purpose of the exam is not to determine who is higher or lower. The purpose is to discover problems, discover weak links, and check for leaks and fill them in a timely manner. Therefore, after each test, don’t just look at the scores. You must patiently analyze the gains and losses with your child, and make targeted next-step learning plans based on your child’s weaknesses. Only by learning from each other’s strengths will you continue to make progress.

When it comes to cultivating children’s habits, many parents will say: My children don’t listen to me. But think about it, aren’t children’s good habits developed little by little from childhood? Now that children are still young, it is the best stage to develop good habits. You are your child's parent, and your child depends on you for food, clothing, and clothing. It doesn't make sense for you to say that your child doesn't listen to you. In order for our children to have good habits, we must use our brains and be willing to put in the effort. If we believe in "trees and nature grows straight" and let it develop and let it go, it will be even less likely that we will develop habits when we grow up.

Nowadays, everything comes too easily for children, so they have no extravagant demands. Without extravagant demands, there is no pursuit. Without pursuit, there is no sense of competition. If you want your child to develop a good habit or get rid of a bad habit, you might as well find a way to implement certain incentives. Don't easily meet his requirements and let him work hard in exchange for the realization of his wishes. For example, if your child wants to buy roller skates, you might as well make an agreement with him: If you can insist on reading extracurricular books for 30 minutes every day, when you persist for a month, I will fulfill your wish; that is, let the child dance for a while. You can only pick peaches by jumping, and you can be motivated only by pressure. At the same time, find ways to let beneficial behaviors occupy his space. Good habits will slowly develop and bad habits will disappear naturally.

Share Story 2: "Crops and Weeds"

A philosopher took his disciples to study the world. After traveling to many countries and visiting many famous universities, they all returned to their starting point with full knowledge. Before entering the city, the philosopher and his disciples sat down on a grassy field in the suburbs. The philosopher said: "As you finish your studies, today we have the last lesson. You see, the wilderness around us is covered with weeds. Now what I want to know is how to eradicate these weeds?" In response to the teacher's question , the disciples were very surprised. None of them expected that the philosopher who had been exploring the mysteries of life would ask such a simple question in the last lesson.

A disciple spoke first: "Teacher, just a shovel is enough." "Burning with fire is also a good way."

"Sprinkle lime and shovel it off All weeds."

"To remove the weeds, just dig out the roots."

When the disciples finished speaking, the philosopher stood up and said, "That's it for the class. After you go back, you all remove the weeds according to your own ideas. If you haven't removed the weeds, we will meet again one year later."

A year later, they all came. However, they found that the place where they originally met was no longer overgrown with weeds, but a field full of grains. They came to the place where they had been sitting last year. They did not see the philosopher, but they found a note that read: "The best way to eradicate weeds in the fields is to let the crops grow well." Similarly, think If you want your child to get rid of bad habits, you can only find ways to cultivate good habits to occupy his mind.

There is not much difference in children’s IQ. The reason why the difference in performance is getting bigger and bigger is ultimately due to the difference in habits. Children with good habits are getting better and better, and children with poor habits are getting better. It will get worse.

3. Pay attention to book knowledge and extracurricular reading.

Basic knowledge in books is like the bricks and tiles used to build a building, it is indispensable; but I think reading is like the foundation that must be dug deeply to build a tall building. Only when the foundation is deep can the building be strong and solid.

Share Story 3: "Spiky Grass"

There is a kind of sharp grass in the African grasslands. It is one of the tallest growing grasses in Africa and is known as the "King of Grassland". It has a good name, but its growth process is very strange. in the first half year. It is almost the shortest grass on the prairie, only an inch high, and people can't even see it growing. During that period of time, any kind of wild grass on the grassland grew more vigorously than it. No one could predict that the sharp-haired grass would be the "King of Grassland" in the future! But half a year later, when the rain comes, the sharp grass grows upward at a rate of one and a half feet per day, as if by magic. In three to five days, it will grow to one meter six to two meters. height.

Scientist research shows that the hairy grass is actually growing all the time, but it is not growing its body, but its roots. Over a period of six months, the roots of the acrophysalis grew more than 28 meters, silently preparing for their future. A piece of grass has roots over 28 meters long. This is such a rare phenomenon. When sufficient nutrients and energy are accumulated, the hairy grass will grow out of control and grow into the "King of Grass" in just a few days.

In fact, the same principle applies when we guide our children to read extracurricular books. Maybe we can’t see any difference from children who don’t read at the moment, let alone the scores, but please believe that “the more you accumulate, the more you gain” The truth is that it won’t take long for you to see the difference. Children who love reading have active thinking and strong comprehension. Their reading comprehension, writing skills, and ability to learn and apply in real life can all be well performed! Even if those children who don't study can achieve temporary good results by studying books, they have no potential after all! A child who loves reading will become more and more intelligent and civilized!

The most famous educator Suhomlinsky said: The only way to make children smart is to read, read and read again! Therefore, it is imperative to pay attention to extracurricular reading! If your child has not fallen in love with reading yet, please find out why. Do you regard extracurricular reading as a necessary nutrition for your child's healthy growth? If not, act quickly! Reading with your child for half an hour every day, you will feel that this is a very beautiful thing!

Thank you everyone! A brief speech for the fourth-grade parent-teacher meeting 2021 III

Dear teachers and parents:

Hello everyone!

I am the mother of Class 1 (1) xx. First of all, I am very grateful to the head teacher for giving me such a good opportunity to discuss the issue of educating children with you. I am also very grateful to all the teachers for their careful training of Zhang Jianan. Every bit of progress a child makes in school reflects the hard work of the teacher. Here, on behalf of the parents here, please allow me to say to the hard-working teachers: "Thank you, you have worked hard."

In fact, when it comes to family education experience, with all the parents here, In comparison, I haven't done enough. As the saying goes: "Parents are their children's first teachers." The development of many good qualities and habits of children requires correct guidance and supervision by parents at home. I will briefly introduce my approach:

1. Praise and encourage children more

Some people say: "Good children are praised." I very much agree with this point of view. As long as the child makes a little progress, he should be praised in time to give her a sense of accomplishment and encourage him to keep up his efforts. When he regresses, try not to criticize her in person. Don't compare your children with other people's children. Now when I come home, my daughter can always hand me the slippers. Always let me eat first when eating. I always say: "Hey, our daughter is here now, and she understands how much she loves her mother." After hearing this, my daughter will always feel happy and will work harder next time. Each of our children has many shining points. If parents often praise and encourage their children, the children will definitely perform well.

2. Cultivate children’s consciousness and develop good habits

Educator Sun Yunxiao once said: “Habits determine the destiny of children.

"It can be seen how important good habits are to children. The primary school stage is the stage where children's consciousness and good habits are formed. Parents should let their children understand what is right and what is wrong. When should they do homework and when should they play. Usually, I always encourage Zhang Jianan to go to bed early and get up early, and tell her that the most beautiful sunrise can only be seen by children who get up early. Therefore, she will get up early every day and read a book after reading. After spending time in school, the school has a strong learning atmosphere. The children know what to do, but when they get home from school, they don’t know. Therefore, I always ask Jianan to finish her homework first, and our parents are not allowed to disturb the children while doing homework. . First of all, you must develop the habit of reading. If you hold a book, your children will follow suit. I bought a lot of story books for my daughter, and if she still wants to read a story, she will read it by herself. . Then I read my book, and she reads hers with great interest. But good habits are not formed overnight and must be accumulated over time.

3. Cultivate children's independence. p>

In the past, I was micromanaging everything. As a result, my child developed a dependence mentality. Now, I no longer remind her and let her check her schoolbag by herself. The teacher just criticized me and asked her. Now that he understands that these things in life and study are his own business, he should be responsible for his own actions in the future.

Watching the changes in his child day by day, he will become a responsible person. Parents, I see it in my eyes and feel happy in my heart. I understand that every bit of progress he has made is inseparable from the teachings of his teachers, the selfless help of his classmates, and the hard work of his parents. There is reason to believe that with our company and the scientific guidance of teachers, the children will grow up healthily, and they will be our pride.

Thank you everyone! Short speech for parents at the fourth grade parent meeting 2021. Four

Dear teachers and respected parents:

Good afternoon everyone!

I am the mother of xx child in Class 4 (Four). The teacher asked me to speak as a parent representative at today's parent-teacher meeting. To be honest, I feel very guilty because our family's performance in class and academic performance can only be considered above average. . Compared with other parents of more outstanding children, I still have a gap. However, I still cherish this rare opportunity to communicate and communicate with teachers and parents.

Today I am really honored to be able to sit here and share with parents and teachers so closely some of the things that I and -- have experienced in learning. Maybe what I say can only represent me. Personal views and opinions, but I am very eager to have the opportunity to learn good educational experiences and methods from all outstanding parents and friends. I also sincerely hope that my sharing can inspire more recognition and *** from you. Ming.

As a parent, I have always hoped that I can fully cooperate with the teacher’s work and arrangements, and maintain good communication and exchanges with the teacher in a timely manner, so that I can respond as soon as possible. Understand - your performance in school and your learning trends. All along, --- has been a timid and introverted child. He doesn't dare to show himself boldly in crowded situations. He is always not confident enough and is afraid that he will not be able to complete the tasks and arrangements assigned by the teacher well. He is very strong and has a strong personality at a young age. He is so eager to be recognized and liked by his classmates and teachers.

As a parent, I will also be confused and conflicted.

I am fully aware of my lack of knowledge, and I am also afraid that I cannot educate my children well. Sometimes I am so timid and unconfident, all because I am afraid that I will not be able to keep up with the rapid growth of my children! Faced with the doubts and difficulties encountered in the study, in addition to analyzing and searching for information with him, more often, I will ask him to listen carefully in school and strive to learn more in class. The key points and difficulties of the newly learned knowledge must be fully understood under the patient explanation of the teacher. Never pretend to understand or deal with it with only a half-knowledge. I also firmly believe that we responsible teachers will welcome children who have not learned and mastered new knowledge to come for consultation and advice.

As the difficulty of knowledge gradually increases, we will worry that children’s understanding may sometimes deviate or fail to keep up, but these are not reasons or excuses. Children can correct and modify their mistakes in time, and we parents should also adopt a normal mentality and strive to forgive and tolerate our children in a timely manner. In order to make our children more active and motivated in learning, I think what we parents should strive to do is to give our children more understanding and encouragement. After all, the mastery and accumulation of knowledge also requires a step-by-step process. , right. We shouldn't act so utilitarian and impatient!

Regarding writing, I still advocate children’s free play. Although their vocabulary and extracurricular knowledge are still very limited, no one can replace the unconstrained thinking and happy innocence in children’s hearts. Yes, even parents cannot replace their children’s thinking and creativity. Even if their writing is not ideal, we don’t have to be too impatient. We should read more, watch more, share more, and learn more excellent exercises with our children as much as possible. I believe that rich extracurricular knowledge will not only make their lives full of joy and fun, but more often, the accumulation of this knowledge will also play an invisible help and role in his future writing. Of course, there are not no geniuses in learning, but they are still very few. Most children are like mine - so ordinary and ordinary. But what does it matter? We can still teach them to be themselves; to be the most diligent and hard-working version of themselves; to be a version of themselves that is liked and appreciated by teachers and classmates, right?

Thank you everyone, my speech is over!