Talk about turning over

Life has ups and downs, high-light moments and deep valleys appear alternately.

Wang Han once confided in a book, telling how he first realized the dream of the host step by step from the bottom.

1996 After graduating from Hunan Radio and Television School, Wang Han went to work in Shi Jing, Hunan. At that time, he had a dream of being a host in his heart. He said he was willing to use 10 years or even 20 years to realize this dream.

When he first entered the TV station, his job was to sit in the audience, that is, "handyman".

Small gifts should be given to the audience at the scene, or lunch boxes should be bought for the program group. Anyway, as long as you need his help, you will find him.

Even so, Wang Han's mental state is still very good. He feels that he sometimes buys too many small gifts and can get one more. He is very happy inside.

Later, Wang Han became a live director before recording the program to enliven the atmosphere. When he tells some jokes to the audience, he will take the lead in applauding, and he applauds the most every time.

Later, there was a party in Taiwan Province, just short of a host. It was suggested that Wang Han try it, saying that he studied radio host and liked it very much. I didn't expect that he really started his own host road by trying.

Wang Han said that looking back on what he had done before, he was convinced and happy. Every time you encounter a problem, don't complain first, but "clap for yourself first". If you want to accept the imperfection at the moment, you must stick to it.

He said that when you are in a trough, especially when you are heavily in debt, remember to treat difficulties with three attitudes and turn over quickly.

(1) You have the wisdom to overcome difficulties;

Writer Zou Taofen said: "I think setbacks and hardships are good opportunities to exercise my will and enhance my ability."

A person's intelligence and wisdom, in fact, is not obtained smoothly, but in adversity to solve problems again and again, overcome difficulties, and become more and more powerful again and again.

Breaking the cocoon into a butterfly, reborn from the fire, is to let yourself bid farewell to yesterday and welcome yourself who is getting better and better after going through hardships again and again.

In fact, crossing difficulties means that we can accumulate more and more experience in difficulties, avoid repeating the same mistakes in the next stage of life, and make ourselves less hurt in another encounter.

I feel that everyone's progress has evolved and upgraded after crossing difficulties again and again. When crossing difficulties, temper your heart, make yourself stronger and stronger, and gain experience in specific events, which will make you better and better.

(2) In the face of difficulties, you have the courage to face difficulties;

The poet Baudelaire said: "A hero is a person who goes all out for everything and has no distractions from beginning to end."

To tell the truth, no one is born with courage. It's not that he didn't choose to retreat and escape in the face of difficulties, but that he insisted again and again and gave himself the courage to face difficulties.

In my opinion, the most mature place for a person is to face the unknown ahead, and despite the inner fear, he still has the courage to go on the road bravely.

Each of us is an ordinary person living in reality, not an invincible hero living on the screen. Their setting has always been fearless, and they are not timid no matter what difficulties they encounter. They are born to represent the brave.

However, after a series of setbacks and hardships, each of us gradually gained the courage not to be afraid of difficulties, and sincerely believed that as long as we thought of solutions, difficulties would never be terrible.

In real life, the difference between people is precisely the attitude towards difficulties.

Some people choose to retreat and retreat in the face of difficulties, while others do not evade difficulties, but actively think about various solutions.

What kind of person we finally become is also our attitude when we face difficulties again and again, which makes us embark on a completely different life path.

(3) If you bypass the difficulties, you will gain by bypassing the difficulties.

Wang Han said that bypassing difficulties does not mean avoiding difficulties, but that when we are not strong enough, we can't solve the problem immediately, but we should solve it slowly through circuitous ways. In other words, when you can't solve this big problem at present, don't spend too much time and energy, bypass the past and solve other problems first, and finally concentrate on "firepower" to solve them comprehensively.

In fact, this is a kind of wisdom to face the difficulties of life.

After all, there are big and small problems that cannot be solved immediately by courage alone, but need scientific and effective solutions.

For example, when we are faced with exams at school, the answering skills taught by teachers are easy to do first and difficult to do later. There are actually two functions in this: first, solving all the easy problems first will enhance your confidence, and you will not shrink back when facing bigger problems in the future; Second, solve the easy problems first, and then you can have more time to concentrate on solving the difficult problems. This is a better way to solve the problem.

Therefore, when we are at a low point or facing a difficult problem, if we can't solve it immediately, we can bypass it first, solve other problems first, and then chew this hard bone a little bit.

This is not giving up, but a coping strategy.

I found that the three methods mentioned by Wang Han are very philosophical and scientific, not just encouraging. We should really accept the problems we encounter, face them from the heart first, and then try to solve them.

Wang Han said, "Whatever God throws at you, you should bear it with your shoulders. No matter how much you throw, carry it first. The purpose is to make your body and mind stronger and your arms stronger. When one day he gives a bigger gift, you can accept it. "

The Analects of Confucius said: "If a worker wants to do a good job, he must first sharpen his tools."

When a person falls into a trough, don't just worry about sadness, but treat it as a heartfelt experience, which is the beginning of taking off again.

If a person has not been tempered by difficulties, has not faced difficulties and has not solved them, then even if great opportunities come, he can't catch them. After all, the test in difficulties is the sign that determines how far a person goes.

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