My mother-in-law is in a hurry to bring her grandchildren, and my daughter-in-law has to let her own mother bring them. Husband: I don't know if I am blessed. what do you think?

Taking care of children is a difficult problem, and so is who takes care of children. Nowadays, life is stressful, and many couples are mainly working. Only enough income can give children a better future.

Therefore, many mother-in-law will help to take care of the children and reduce the pressure on both husband and wife. Because of different concepts, many problems of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are caused by children.

Daughter-in-law will think that her mother-in-law's method of raising children is unscientific, and her mother-in-law will think that she has experienced and is rich in experience. Zhang Xuan insisted that her mother-in-law should not take care of her children. Her mother-in-law advised her and her husband enlightened her, but Zhang Xuan did not compromise.

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Zhang Xuan's child is 3 years old and can go to kindergarten. When the child was born, Natalie quit her job and planned to stay at home as a housewife for the time being, take care of the child with peace of mind and accompany the child through the most critical period.

Now the child can go to kindergarten, and she can stay at home during the day. It is also a good thing to find a job and earn some money to support the family. Her husband Daewoo is also very supportive.

Natalie found several jobs and wanted to have the same school hours as kindergarten, so that she could pick up and drop off the children, but she didn't meet the right person. But she has made up her mind to go out to work, otherwise her circle will become smaller and smaller.

Later, Zhang Xuan and Daewoo discussed that it would be very troublesome for her parents-in-law to pick up the children. Let the mother-in-law take care of the children in case of overtime.

Zhang Xuan disagreed and said that her mother would take care of it. Her mother usually does manual work at home, so don't bother her mother-in-law.

Daewoo and her mother said this, and her mother was a little unhappy: "son, do you think my daughter-in-law doesn't trust me?" I raised you so much. Are you unhealthy? Your mother is an experienced woman. Maybe I ate my grandson? " Tell your daughter-in-law again that I'll take care of her children. "

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Daewoo later felt that what his mother said was also reasonable. After all, in life, my mother-in-law helps to take care of the children, and there is no mother-in-law to take care of the children. Daewoo decided to persuade his wife.

Daewoo said, "Wife, don't bother your mother about taking care of the children. My mother's ability is completely ok. "

Zhang Xuan said: "Your mother and my mother are the same. When your mother wants to meet the children, she can come at any time! "

Daewoo said, "You really don't know how happy my mother is with your children. How many mothers-in-law don't want to bring their grandchildren? Do you know that?/You know what? If you have to let your mother bring it, it will chill your mother's heart. "

Zhang Xuan said, "Dear, let me tell you the truth. I'm just afraid of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Times are different now, and the way to take care of children is different. Your mother will be unhappy if I say a few words about her, but my mother won't remember when I say my mother. I'm really afraid of meeting the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and finally making you embarrassed. "

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Daewoo thought about it, and what his wife said was reasonable. At the beginning of pregnancy, her mother tried her best to make her wife take more supplements and drink all kinds of Chinese medicine. Natalie didn't suffer less for this, but his health became worse and worse. I didn't know until I saw a doctor. It's too much.

Daewoo and his mother said, "Mom, don't worry about the children, just let her mother-in-law take care of them. People have more free time than you, so it is convenient to pick up and drop off children from school. Now that the child is older, it is very naughty. "

Zhang Xuan said to her mother-in-law, "Mom, Daewoo is right. Besides, your waist is not good enough to withstand the children's tossing, and your grandson can't stand it. If you miss your children, come and play at home. I'll make you something to eat, and you can play with your grandson. My mother has a stronger temper than you, and she is good at dealing with naughty children. Don't worry. "

Seeing her son and daughter-in-law say so, her mother-in-law didn't say much.

Zhang Xuan said to her husband privately, "Husband, thank you very much for understanding me and speaking for me in front of your mother. I believe we made the right decision this time. Let's cheer together. "

Zhang Xuan's hanging heart is relieved, and now he can work with peace of mind.

Many people want to be Zhang Xuan, with her husband's understanding and support to do everything. It can be seen that in marriage, the husband's position is very critical, and he connects the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Whether a man is good or not depends on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law at home. Many women, like Natalie, are afraid to get along with their mother-in-law and worry about conflicts. In fact, my mother-in-law is not as bad as people think. You respect her for three points, she will treat you for a few points.