The woman's parents don't accept me because of my height, saying that I am too short. What should I do?

Appearance is what everyone cares about. If you are good-looking, it is a blessing from God. If you are ugly, you must make up for the lack of appearance by your efforts the day after tomorrow.

Although we can't judge a person by his appearance, who can really care about his face value in this era of looking at his face value? Good image, good temperament, no matter what you do, you will get a lot of points. On the contrary, if you don't have the correct facial features, you will run into a wall when you look for a job, let alone find someone.

Boss Huang, physically disabled but determined.

Huang Changhai is 59 years old and has a pension of 3,800 yuan. He has two houses in Tieling. Now he lives in a house of 90 square meters. People who know Huang Changhai will call him Boss Huang, but his first half life was bumpy, but he never lost heart. In his words, people have to live.

It turns out that Boss Huang has nine brothers and sisters. When he was two or three years old, he was a good-looking type among the sisters. But for some reason, his sisters don't like him very much. They often rob him of food. It is also common for families who are not rich.

Because of frequent starvation, Boss Huang began to lack calcium when she couldn't keep up with nutrition, and then she got rickets, which led to slow growth of her height, so that she often sat in a long pot until she was short of 1.6 meters.

When he was in his early twenties, Boss Huang's parents died one after another. Without a skill, he took over the work of his mother's leather shoes factory. Unfortunately, the good times didn't last long, and he became a laid-off worker because of the poor efficiency of the factory.

After he was laid off, his family just caught up with the demolition, but his brothers and sisters ganged up and began to bully him again, giving him 30 thousand yuan to go wherever he liked.

My parents are here, and there is still a place to live. When my parents are gone, there is only the way home. After my parents left, I saw the attitude of my brothers and sisters Boss Huang was completely chilled. He said to these brothers and sisters who look down on themselves: You wait and see who can laugh last and see if I can afford this house.

From then on, Mr. Huang learned to be a chef by his hobby, and under the guidance of his friends, he opened his own restaurant many years later. At this time he had the title of Mr. Huang.

With hard-working hands, Mr. Huang has accumulated a lot of wealth for himself over the years. He has two suites, and the pension money is enough for him to support the elderly. At the same time, I also proved that I am not worse than others among my brothers and sisters. After all, some of his brothers and sisters can't live in his building.

It was not until last year that Mr. Huang closed the restaurant because of the epidemic. When he is alone at home, he often thinks of his previous experiences and setbacks, especially that long and complicated marriage. He is really timid.

It turns out that Boss Huang and his ex-wife were introduced. Although Boss Huang is ugly and short, his ex-wife is a very capable family. My father is the director of the civil affairs bureau office, and my brother drives the mayor.

Originally, his ex-wife wanted to find a handsome man to marry, but she found it unreliable, so she went to the ugly boss Huang, thinking that being ugly was better for her.

In fact, Boss Huang is really kind to his ex-wife, but his ex-wife has a bad temper. When he is wronged at work, he will come back to lose his temper with Huang Ba and abuse him many times.

I can't help it Boss Huang's body doesn't allow him to beat it. Finally, he filed for divorce with his ex-wife.

However, what people never expected was that when Boss Huang filed for divorce, he was ridiculed by his ex-wife's family: With your style, who can have a crush on you after divorce?

At first, they thought Boss Huang was just talking. He never imagined that Boss Huang was determined to get a divorce this time. In this way, Boss Huang divorced his ex-wife in 2000.

Over the years, many people have introduced him to the hotel. After all, although he is not a big boss, he is somewhat of a small boss, and his economic strength is definitely a bit. However, Boss Huang refused, saying that he wanted to train his children before considering getting married.

Now that the child is old and the restaurant is closed, he has been at home alone for 20 years, so he contacted the matchmaker to introduce him.

Having said that, Mr. Huang still has some regrets. He thinks it's really necessary to find someone early. Perhaps with the blessing of the boss's identity, it is much more effective to find an object with twice the result with half the effort.

I am capable, aren't I?

After learning about the requirements for choosing a spouse, the matchmaker introduced Ye, a 57-year-old widowed aunt, with a pension of 1000 yuan and no housing. I usually work as a nanny in other people's homes, and I can earn 3000 yuan a month.

Aunt Ye's wife just passed away for the third anniversary and wanted to take a step forward. However, Aunt Ye has the same distress, that is, her height is only about 1.5 meters, and she is worried that the other party will dislike her short stature.

In this way, the matchmaker thinks they are more suitable. After all, they are all about the same height, and no one will abandon anyone. Then the matchmaker brought Aunt Ye home from Changchun.

As soon as the two sides met, Aunt Ye felt that the environment of this community was not bad, but she thought that Aunt Ye was a "cow", which meant that she had regular facial features, was small and exquisite, was not good-looking, but was also attractive, especially about the same height, and was a good match.

Boss Huang immediately decided to take Aunt Ye to a local restaurant with distinctive features to enjoy the friendship of the landlord, and Aunt Ye readily accepted.

On the way, I introduced myself to Aunt Ye. He said that the house is 90 square meters, the pension is 3800, and he has to go to work in a few days. He can also open three or four thousand canteens for cooking a month, and seven or eight thousand a month, which is completely enough without any pressure.

At the same time, Mr. Huang also showed his attitude. He said that in the future, Aunt Ye doesn't have to worry about eating and drinking. Everything in life is taken care of by himself, and she can also give Aunt Ye a monthly allowance of 1000 yuan. He didn't want Aunt Yuzryha to go out to work again, so he stayed at home and watched the door.

However, no matter what she said, Aunt Ye kept her head buried and said nothing, and her attitude seemed a little cold. When I arrived at the restaurant, I took Aunt Ye to taste special snacks, but no matter how diligent she was, she was not warmly received by Aunt Ye.

In fact, from the first meeting, Boss Huang knew that Aunt Ye didn't like him, because he had seen too many such cold eyes, plus Aunt Ye's silent and indifferent attitude, which was enough to prove that Aunt Ye didn't like him and didn't like his short stature.

Speaking of this, Aunt Ye also admitted that she is really short, and her ideal type should be about 1.7 meters. If only Boss Huang were a little taller.

Boss Huang quickly explained that his brothers and sisters were hungry when they were young, so they got rickets and delayed their development. Besides, at this age, they don't expect to have children, as long as they enjoy the rest of their lives, and their height is not that important.

But if you don't have a crush on someone, you can find an excuse anyway. Don't say nothing, even more dissatisfied with this aunt Ye. She said she couldn't accept physical illness. In short, she is not suitable for Boss Huang in appearance, height and all aspects.

Water under the bridge. Boss Huang can only helplessly tell Aunt Ye that everything should be well thought out. After this village, there is no such shop. After all, a good man like him is hard to come by. A man is not tall. Although he is not tall, he earns enough money to support his family and let his wife enjoy life. Is it not possible to have the ability?

Unfortunately, eye margin and face value are very important. Aunt Ye still rejected Boss Huang with disdain. In this way, relatives don't look alike, wasting a meal.

I have been divorced twice. Still don't understand marriage?

Aunt Ye was sent away. Soon after, the matchmaker introduced 60-year-old Wang Xiurong to Boss Huang. Aunt Wang is also a nanny. She has no pension and no house. She earns 3200 yuan a month from work.

Actually, Aunt Wang has been divorced twice. For the first time, under the arrangement of her parents, she married someone she didn't love. After marriage, she discovered that although her husband is a rural person, he is not used to doing anything at home, let alone supporting his family. So the marriage ended hastily after seven years.

The second marriage was chosen by Aunt Wang herself. She said that the marriage was actually quite satisfactory, but after a few years, she caught her husband and was not serious, so she sued for divorce. This marriage lasted only seven or eight years.

Aunt Wang was hurt by two failed marriages. She can't understand why her emotional experience is so bumpy. Now that she is old, her only son is married to her ex-husband. After so many years, she didn't contact, so she went to find her wife again. Aunt Wang's request is very specific:

That is, she must have a house, a sense of responsibility and a pension. Because she has no income, she should be given 1000 yuan as pocket money every month. So that she will have a little bottom in her heart.

It's not hard to see that Boss Huang still meets these requirements put forward by Aunt Wang. Later the matchmaker contacted Huang to explain the situation. Boss Huang decided to come to Changchun from Tieling to meet Aunt Wang. Maybe if he takes the initiative, there will be a story.

After running for several hours, Boss Huang finally met Aunt Wang in the park. He introduced himself, his house income, etc. And stiffly, I told Aunt Wang what I just said.

Obviously, Aunt Wang, like Aunt Ye, was silent, with no smile on her face and indifferent attitude.

Finally, Aunt Wang spoke her mind. When she saw Boss Huang, her heart thumped. He is too short and ugly. It may be better to touch one with his eyes closed.

In fact, boss Huang has heard about this for a long time, and he is not sad about it. On the contrary, he also wants to fight for himself: height is not a problem. He is from a leather shoes factory and can order men's high heels, so there won't be much difference in an aisle.

At the same time, Mr. Huang also persuaded Aunt Wang that you have been divorced twice, why don't you understand marriage? It depends on whether you have this kind of life. Talk to the light. If you like, I will treat you well all my life and let you enjoy it. You find a big one of 1.7, people may not be able to take a fancy to you and leave after a while.

Although Boss Huang has made many explanations for himself, Aunt Wang still doesn't like him. In order to end this blind date, Aunt Wang made a final statement, saying that even if Boss Huang gave her 800 treasures, she would never agree.

Speaking of which, Boss Huang no longer insists on anything. Maybe he just wants a wife, but he hasn't thought about what the other half in the future should look like. Without any requirements, he will only make others look down on him.

Everyone has the right to choose, there is no need to follow others everywhere.

Everyone cares about looks. Being ugly makes you feel inferior. Over time, you will compromise yourself and think that it is good for others not to find fault with themselves. You are not qualified to find fault with others.

In fact, everyone has the right to choose. There is no need to obey others everywhere in order to find a wife. The more you compromise, the less you get.

For boss Huang, he is a very sincere person. No matter who he dates, he tells his wife his family background and future plans. However, he made no demands on her and always felt that she would regret not choosing him.

Actually, it's not. You must make demands on your partner. We can't compromise so low. No one likes what you can get easily. Even if someone steals something for free, you won't cherish it after you get it.

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