The most embarrassing thing, let's talk about it

I haven't done the most embarrassing thing in front of the person I love most, but I want to share with you how to get along with my lover!

First of all, we should take responsibility.

One of the measures of true love is to promote the growth of sense of responsibility. Learn to care about each other's needs, but don't interfere with each other too much and don't plan your life for each other. Being brave in taking responsibility and selflessly dedicating yourself is a person's excellent moral character and cultivation, and it is also the foundation of love.

Second, get to know each other better.

To understand many aspects of each other, we should not only look at the advantages, but also look at the disadvantages. Understand each other's feelings, thoughts and essence. Love that sees only the advantages but not the disadvantages is blind and cannot last long. Because, we can't just be attracted by each other's bright spots. When the other party exposes some shortcomings, we will find that the other party's shortcomings are intolerable, which will only destroy our feelings.

Third, we should fully trust each other.

Believe and accept each other's care and love, believe in each other's love, will not be abandoned, and can show your true self in front of each other. Create a relaxed and happy atmosphere for yourself and each other. No one pursues love just for restraint. Mutual trust is a symbol of self-confidence. Mutual trust is also the cornerstone of love. If there is no basis for mutual trust, it will only affect the development of love.

Fourth, we should encourage each other.

Encourage outward development and establish other interpersonal relationships. We can't let love limit each other, because everyone needs some private space and develop some social relations. There is no need to tie two people together completely. It is hypocritical and selfish to tie your lover to your side and not give him time and space for development.

Fifth, mutual tolerance.

True love means not only sharing happiness, but also sharing pain. Because there are warm memories and expectations for the future. Loving each other not only means having the advantages they like, but also tolerating each other's shortcomings. True love doesn't mean perfection. True love doesn't exist until you become a perfect person or the person expected by the other person. True love is not conditional, but unconditional.