The day after giving birth, should my husband accompany me to bed?

I can't help but vomit this question.

"I gave birth to a child, and my husband thinks that my mother should accompany me, but I hope he will accompany me."

The question is simple. Did your mother get you pregnant?

Is the other half of this child's DNA your mother's?

Does this child have your mother's surname?

Is your mother the legal guardian of this child?

Do your mother and you have marital obligations to fulfill?

When people grow up, they will leave their parents and mingle with their partners. This is an inevitable part of life. Parents can walk through the initial stage of our life and the road behind us alone, but if we find a partner, we have obligations and responsibilities to each other.

A woman should be accompanied by her spouse at such an important moment of pregnancy and childbirth. Because, this means that your home is now upgraded to a triangle, with children as the link and a father, a mother and a child as the standard human family model.

When a woman is physically and mentally weak and most in need of comfort from her partner, what? He's absent?

Besides, when you have given hope, he still wants to escape?

In other words, you are not ready to be a woman's husband and a crying baby's father. Are you getting married? Why did you get a woman pregnant?

Reproductive benefits-children, ready to accept, but ready to escape the efforts for this achievement? This is so unreal, isn't it?

When a woman doesn't accompany her when she gives birth, when can she expect him to do anything?

Then you might as well go to the sperm bank to buy a sperm. What do you want him to do?

In addition to the mother's need for companionship and comfort, the newborn is also the most critical period for establishing feelings with his father. How can he escape?

There is nothing wrong with this kind of thing. Look at the feelings between your husband and wife, but also look at the conditions of the hospital.

Gave birth to a baby, caesarean section. Yue Yue takes care of me and my children and takes good care of them. My husband can hardly help. So he stayed in the hospital for a few days and was not in the hospital all day.

That doesn't mean he doesn't care about me and the children.

There is only one escort bed in the hospital, which is used for rest at night. My husband has no place to rest and can't sleep on the ground.

But the patient in a room, whose home is from other places, is accompanied by her mother-in-law and her husband to the hospital, and accompanied in the hospital at night. It's hard to sleep in the corridor without a place to rest. But they persisted until they were discharged from the hospital.

Under normal circumstances, after a woman gives birth to a child, her husband will stay with her. Because at this time, women need their husbands' care and love most.

In fact, there is nothing to do or not to do. Let's be considerate of each other. Your husband asked your mother to accompany you, probably thinking that he took care of you by himself and didn't need your mother to take care of you And you want your husband to spend more time with you emotionally. You just gave birth to your two children and you want him to stay and take care of you. This is normal. You should communicate your thoughts with your husband and tell him how you feel. The word empathy is easier said than done. Many men think it's normal for women to have children. So many women give birth without looking at what others are doing, so they can't understand the fragile psychology of women who have just given birth. Communication becomes the only way for you to understand each other's thoughts.

You don't have to discuss with him who will accompany you after giving birth online. It means how you feel. You just gave birth to a baby, and you are very weak and need psychological comfort. I hope he can stay with you and spend this moment with you. Don't be unreasonable, just say it. I believe that when your husband understands your thoughts, he will be happy to be with you and your children.

The mother thinks that her husband should accompany her. I think a large part of the reason is emotion. Because it is very hard to have children, women are emotionally vulnerable at this time. I hope that my husband will accompany me, which is an emotional sustenance and understandable.

The husband thinks that the mother should accompany the mother, should give more consideration to her health, and should let her mother-in-law take better care of her. I may not be qualified for such a job. It is also possible to feel hard, which is impossible to judge.

I think if a pregnant woman really wants her husband to accompany her, she can communicate clearly with her husband and tell him that what you want is more emotional support from him, and physical care may be less important to you.

In fact, accompanying the bed is an important part of the emotional communication between husband and wife. I was born at that time, and in the hospital, my husband lay alone in bed for three whole days. Therefore, every time I think about it, I will be very grateful to him.

Communication is the most important thing. Maybe the husband is also thinking about his mother, but he doesn't know her real needs.

First of all, I'm glad to answer this question. Tell me my own opinion.

We had a caesarean section. We have chosen the date of caesarean section, but it is advanced, and there is no sign before it starts. We slept on the sofa until the afternoon when our water broke. My parents were in Guangzhou, and I came back immediately after giving birth, so my husband, my aunt and my grandmother accompanied me. I don't care much about this kind of thing. Actually, I think my husband has to take care of both children and adults. By the way, I need someone who can take care of children and adults. I had a catheter inserted by caesarean section, and my husband didn't even know to turn it on and off. I still remember the first time my husband didn't know how to have a baby. I think it's best to have a husband around, mainly someone who will take care of the baby and you.

Personally, I hope my answer will help you.

Personally, I don't think this should be. It depends on your idea. Who do you think is the best to accompany you? There is no certain standard.

Both my children were delivered by caesarean section. To tell the truth, my husband and my mother were by my side the day I gave birth, and my heart was particularly solid. Judging from your description, you haven't given birth to a baby, have you? Then I suggest you discuss it with your husband. Since you want your husband to accompany you, you should try your best to persuade him and have a heart-to-heart talk with him. You should tell him your innermost thoughts.

Most people always think of the most important person to her at their important moments, which shows that your husband still occupies a particularly important position in your heart. I think if you tell your husband from this angle, your husband will be very happy to accept it. In addition, as you are the first parents, you should take care of each other and take care of your little baby.

I think it's nothing. I don't think so. Let's watch this couple negotiate for themselves.

I was just talking about myself.

He was admitted to the hospital on Monday and was born on Tuesday night. Since I was admitted to the hospital on Monday, my husband has been with me except for going home to get something once or twice.

I stayed in the hospital for two or three nights after the baby was born. My husband stayed with me at night and my baby slept next to me. During the day, my mother will deliver meals and my mother-in-law will be responsible for cooking at home.

Many people leave their children with their husbands and mother-in-law after giving birth.

I think anything will do. Anyway, some people can take care of themselves and others can take care of the children.

I think this question should be changed to: "Before and after giving birth, the husband must accompany the bed". Why does your husband think your mother should accompany you? what does he want to do? Don't tell me he went home to sleep. He won't be killed.

For maternity, the greatest sense of security comes from the husband, because the child you are going to have is yours, so the risk must be shared by both of you. As the father of the child, he must accompany you in the hospital, which is his unshirkable responsibility.

Unless your husband has a big task for him to complete, what is more important than his wife having children? If your husband really doesn't accompany you, I think you can consider changing someone else. What can you expect from such an irresponsible person?

You have suffered all the pain of giving birth to a child. As long as he is by your side, feeding you or taking care of the child, what reason does he have not to be with you? I really can't think of any reason. I suggest you have a good talk with your husband and let him know that what you want most at this time is his company, and it is not contradictory or conflicting to accompany your mother!

Of course, accompany the bed. Women are pregnant in October, and all kinds of hardships are not mentioned during this period. When a child is born, it is also a ghost gate. Especially on the second day after giving birth, the husband should stay with him, not to mention the mother-in-law, mother-in-law and so on. They are far from replacing their husbands. Let's talk about it. That's what people do. Kiss someone when you are tired, form good habits at first, and then naturally take care of you and the baby. Don't ask me why, I've been there too, cover your face, cover your face!

My husband will definitely accompany me to bed on the day of giving birth, because my husband is so overbearing that my mother-in-law doesn't care what help you need. Mother-in-law only cares about whether her grandchildren are hungry, not whether you live or die. Women are weak after giving birth. At this time, she needs her husband most, both physically and psychologically. Therefore, there must be a child and her husband.