"My brother's home is my home." My sister-in-law took out the real estate license and kicked out her sister-in-law who had lived for three years. what do you think?

"The water spilled by the married daughter", after the daughter got married, she formed her own small family, so it is natural to put family first. Your mother's family is still your home, but only if you take care of your family first. If you can't distinguish between priorities, it's your own fault.

Maybe everyone has seen all kinds of jokes about "brother-in-law" and "sister-in-law" making waves at home. It's not that children shouldn't go home if they have a home, but they should consider priorities and don't dump them at both ends. In this case, their parents and their families will be in a mess.

For example, the daughter at home has already married, and the first place in the family has changed from "maiden" to her own home. As the main member of a new family, the first thing to do is to take care of your family. You can go back to your mother's house, but don't stretch your hand too long and do anything beyond your authority.

As an elder in the family, the role of mother-in-law is also extremely important. For a daughter-in-law, the elder comes first, and then the mother. You can't acquiesce in children's participation in housework just because you spoil them. When a daughter-in-law marries her own family, she should take care of her feelings, not spoil her children at once. Ignore the behavior that affects family harmony and put yourself in the other's shoes. If your daughter is treated like this when she marries someone else's house, it will be chilling for her mother.

In a blink of an eye, Nana got married, her husband worked hard and her mother-in-law was very kind to her. Nana also feels that she has not married the wrong family, and life has always been beautiful, but her sister-in-law is a bit complicated. She is not only arrogant, but also often doesn't treat her as a sister-in-law and often tells her what to do.

Nana has a good temper, thinking that her sister-in-law is the youngest girl in the family since she was a child, and everyone will inevitably accommodate her, so she didn't take her rudeness and arrogance to heart. As a daughter myself, I understand her mother-in-law's feelings. My daughter is married, so I can't stay with her every day, for fear that she won't be taken care of, and I don't feel bad about spoiling her.

Sister-in-law quarreled with her husband and rushed back to her family overnight. It's already 1 1 o'clock in the evening, and my parents-in-law have gone back to their rooms to sleep when they are old. My sister-in-law made countless phone calls on her way back, but no one answered at home. Sister-in-law was furious and went to her door, kicking the door crazily, trying to wake up her family. Unexpectedly, she didn't wake her family, but woke her neighbors. Several neighbors opened the door and accused: "Why are you crazy here if you don't sleep tonight?" Hearing the noise outside, my parents-in-law quickly got dressed and opened the door. When they saw their little daughter standing at the door with tears in her eyes, they hurriedly pulled her in, apologized to their neighbors one by one, and gave up.

The publicist hasn't sat down yet Sister-in-law began to indiscriminately accuse her parents-in-law of not answering the phone, saying that her family no longer regarded her as a daughter. Mother-in-law explained: They go to bed at ten o'clock every day. When they are older, they sleep relatively dead and can't hear the phone ringing. Sister-in-law is still adamant: where is my brother's wife? Why didn't she answer my phone? She can't go to bed as early as you do. I think she just didn't answer my phone on purpose! My mother-in-law quickly explained to me that your sister-in-law caught a cold and fell asleep early in the morning after taking cold medicine. Sister-in-law stopped, and her mother-in-law helped her tidy up the room before going back to sleep.

I don't know if you still remember Su Daqiang in the TV series "Everything is OK". He is the elder of the family, working at home all day and clamoring for hand grinding coffee all day. Nana, the arrogant and wayward sister-in-law, is simply a copy of Su Daqiang. I didn't plan to have children at a young age and stayed at home all day. I haven't gone out to work since graduation. I was raised by my parents and husband at home after I got married.

Idle around all day and don't do housework at home. Sister-in-law's husband not only has to work to earn money to support his family, but also does housework and cooks for her every day. She arrived home an hour late that day because her husband's company had to work overtime. Unexpectedly, she flew into a rage and accused her of not taking herself seriously. Sister-in-law's husband really couldn't stand her unreasonable troubles, so he argued, which led her to go back to her family late at night.

My parents-in-law knew her daughter's temper, but they couldn't beat her, so they had to call her son-in-law to coax her. Who knows that the son-in-law came, but her sister-in-law insisted on not returning. Mother-in-law had no choice but to let her go home first and let her sister-in-law calm down here. Sister-in-law's husband also reluctantly shook his head and said that he would go home first. Nana didn't expect her acquiescence to cause so much trouble later.

Sister-in-law lived here for three years, and Nana discovered the seriousness of the problem only after she settled down. Because there is no job, my sister-in-law stays at home every day, chasing plays and sleeping, so she turns it upside down day and night. At night, everyone fell asleep. It doesn't matter if my sister-in-law watches variety shows and eats snacks alone in the living room. But my sister-in-law laughed louder than the variety show, which made her fall asleep at 3 am.

The next day, I was going to talk to my sister-in-law, only to find that her sister-in-law didn't wake up at all, and there were still snacks left over from yesterday in the living room. Nana sighed and went to work without saying anything. Going home at night, Nana found her sister-in-law watching TV in the living room, and the garbage on the table was still not lost. So she gently suggested to her sister-in-law that the TV should be turned down next time so as not to affect everyone's rest. After all, everyone has to go to work the next day.

Who knows my sister-in-law gave Nana a white look and said, What's it to you that I watch TV? This is my home, so I can do whatever I want. After that, I turned up the TV play. Nana had no choice but to go to the kitchen to prepare cooking. I didn't expect to see the kitchen in a mess when I first entered the kitchen. There was instant noodle residue in the pot, and my sister-in-law didn't wash the rice in the pool at noon. Nana silently cleaned the kitchen and cooked dinner.

When eating, Nana couldn't help but spit out a few words with her mother-in-law. I didn't expect my mother-in-law to be unhappy immediately after hearing it. That's my daughter. What's wrong with staying here for a few days? Have you lost your appetite? Before Nana finished speaking, she dropped the bowl on the table and went back to her room. Nana was speechless for a moment and could only hold back her tears silently.

At ten o'clock in the evening, my sister-in-law is still watching variety shows in the living room. Nana went out and turned down her voice, but she still didn't take Nana's words seriously. After Nana went back to her room, her sister-in-law still didn't turn down her voice. So I pushed my husband aside, let him take care of who knows that my husband told Nana not to go looking for trouble, saying that my sister was like this at home, and asked Nana, a sister-in-law, not to be so stingy, and had no intention of going out and asking her to turn down her voice. She also said that Nana could not hear when she fell asleep. Only then did Nana realize what a wrong decision she had made to let her sister-in-law stay.

Nana doesn't have to go to work on weekends, so she plans to sleep in on weekends. Unexpectedly, at five o'clock in the morning, my sister-in-law knocked on the door of her room outside, saying that she was hungry and asked Nana to cook noodles and send them to her room. Then he went back to his room and lay down. This time, Nana didn't hold back, just opened the door and said, Cook it yourself, or get out.

Sister-in-law immediately jumped up and shouted at Nana: My brother's house is my home, and my parents are here. Why should I leave? If you want to go, you should go Get out and leave our family alone. After hearing this, the mother-in-law not only didn't immediately persuade her daughter to stop, but shouted at Nana's pettiness. Sister-in-law is still arguing with her sister-in-law, saying to herself, I don't know if my son is blind, so why am I looking for such a woman?

Hearing this, Nana realized how ridiculous her once forbearance was at this moment. Turning back to the room, the mother-in-law bowed her head and hurriedly coaxed her daughter to say, don't argue with her. Next time, let your brother drive her directly back to her family. Hardly had I finished when I heard the door open.

Before her sister-in-law could react, Nana threw the real estate license on her, pointed at her and said, open your eyes and see whose name is on this real estate license. this house is mine. You have lived there for three years, but it's none of your business. My sister-in-law never gave up and said that my brother also paid for this house, so it doesn't matter if you say so. Nana said with a smile, if you don't leave today, I will divorce and sell the house, and no one will live. My sister-in-law stayed where she was, and her mother-in-law was afraid that Nana would really divorce her son, so she packed her bags and sent them home overnight.

The ending is wonderful, but there are still many people living in the shadow of "sister-in-law", and the fear of being dominated by her sister-in-law has been lingering. Whether as a married daughter or an elder's mother-in-law, we should first put family first and don't act beyond our authority.

The daughter who marries abroad is her own daughter, and the daughter-in-law who walks in the door is also her own daughter. A bowl of water is flat. You can't treat another "daughter" badly because you love your daughter. To be an elder, you must look like an elder, and don't take the shelf of an elder as an inaction. If the family balance is broken, then the family will only be in a mess.

Although many women have said that they have been married for a long time, their families have become in-laws and they have become outsiders. Actually, it's not. In the eyes of parents, children are always children.

The love of parents will never change. As a junior, we should respect new family members enough, because we are our own relatives when we enter this family. Don't take advantage of our parents' arrogance to bully others. Parental tolerance does not mean that others can tolerate themselves unconditionally. On the other hand, I don't want myself or my children to be treated like this. Therefore, you should have a steelyard in your heart and know what you can and can't do. Life is long, let's be a peaceful and warm person together.