Why is my heart hurting but there are no tears when my loved ones are gone?

When people face some sadness and pain, most people choose to shed tears to vent their emotions. Facing the departure of their loved ones, most people will cry loudly, crying when the sky is dark and the earth is dark, and the sun is dark. The moon is not bright, it really makes the listener sad and the listener shed tears. And some people did stare blankly in silence without any expression or tears in the corners of their eyes, but does this really mean that they are not sad? No, because the tears of sad people have dried up in their hearts, and they are so sad that they are speechless.

People will always experience life and death, ups and downs, and those are inevitable. Facing the departure of a loved one, the real sadness and real care are not to cry bitterly and shed tears in front of his spiritual throne. Wow, what really cares is to put your loved ones at ease, the kind of longing that you don’t often think about after they pass away, the kind of longing that is unforgettable and heartbreaking.

I still remember that when my grandfather passed away, I was in my third year of high school. The third year of high school was a dark time for most students. My grandfather passed away at that time. When my family came to pick me up from school, I When I heard the tragic news, I didn’t shed any tears. I just sat in the car quietly with my head empty. It took me a while to realize that my grandpa had passed away. I had lost my grandpa, and the tears flowed out silently. , I went home and knelt in front of my grandpa’s mourning hall. I didn’t cry, I just knelt silently all night. Everyone tried to persuade me, but to no avail. Later, it was my father who picked me up.

Being ruthless does not necessarily mean you are a hero, you are a man who is passionate. Don’t suppress your feelings, and don’t doubt your feelings. When facing all things, all you have to do is let nature take its course, just like facing your loved ones. , what we have to do is to treat them sincerely and emotionally in life, to do our best to care for them, and try not to leave any regrets. When one day they leave, we can have a clear conscience. The dead have passed away, so why mourn the living? The departure of each person is just the end of his or her life. They just change a way to live with us.