People cannot be domineering, as domineering has no friends; the heart cannot be selfish, as selfishness will make you sleepy. Good morning

1. People cannot be overbearing, as being overbearing has no friends; the heart cannot be selfish, as selfishness will make you sleepy. It's easy to meet, but it's not easy to get along, but you can do it and cherish it. Be kind to every encounter and cherish every good fate. The relationship between people is that you respect me one foot, and I respect you one foot; the communication between heart and heart is that you love me one point, and I love you ten points. If you don't take into account the faults of others, you will only be mourning them; if you don't think about others' kindness, you will feel disgusted if you think about them. If you always think about the rewards when you give, you will inevitably suffer; if you always think about the results when doing things, you will be dissatisfied. People rejoice as circumstances dictate, and the heart praises as it rejoices. The heart is like a lotus, naturally untainted; the character is upright, naturally free from worries. Good morning!

2. Use your own cognition to comment on something, everything is not perfect; use your own mind to judge others, everyone has shortcomings; use your own mind to demand others, everyone None of it matters. The eye is a ruler, measure people first; the heart is a steelyard, weigh others first. If you blame others for their faults, you have your own imperfections; if you blame others for their shortcomings, you have your own flaws. Blindly pressing people step by step will not lead others to a dead end, but will leave you with no way to retreat; always keeping an eye on people's rights and wrongs will not make people lose face, but will make you lose face. Only when there is someone in your eyes can you have a path, and only when you have love in your heart can you have a degree. Good morning!

3. A person's tolerance comes from a heart that treats others well, a person's self-cultivation comes from a heart that respects others, and a person's cultivation comes from a kind heart. Only those who can tolerate others in their eyes can be tolerated by others; only those who know how to respect others can gain the respect of others; a gentle attitude towards others can always be with you and make you peaceful everywhere. Don't judge someone with your own judgment, and don't let your emotions affect others. Everyone is an independent individual and the choices of others should be respected. Good morning!

4. Sit quietly and think about your own mistakes, and don’t talk about others’ faults in small talk. There should be room for doing things, and there should be some moral integrity when speaking. Speaking evil words is not enough to kill one's life, but it is enough to lose one's morality. There is nothing more evil than making false accusations. A person's mouth should speak the truth and kind words, not make things out of thin air and speak nonsense. The mouth is an ax to hurt people, the words are a tongue-cutting knife, the words are measured, and the banter is measured. When you know someone, you don't need to say everything, but leave some words of virtue; when you blame someone, you don't need to be harsh, but leave some room for understanding; when you get reason, you don't need to argue all the time, but leave some tolerance; you don't have to do everything, just leave some room. Ask yourself more and argue less and criticize less; observe your mind and reflect more and criticize less. If you are aware, you will look for problems within yourself; if you are not aware, you will only shoot arrows at others. Good morning!

5. Treat everything you encounter as hard to come by. Falling down is just for getting up stronger; frustration is just for better success. When a friend betrays you, you should be happy, it is better than finding out in the end; when someone tricks you behind your back, don't get angry and expose it, so that you can see the person's true face. Look at things with joy, and everything will be for me; treat others with gratitude, and everyone will be my teacher. Relatives let you know great love, friends let you know gratitude, opponents let you know tolerance, villains let you know clearly. Good morning!

6. A good mood comes from good qualities, and good qualities come from a good attitude. Only with a mind like the sea can you have a life like the sea; only with the tranquility like the sea can you calm the rough waves. Life is like the sea, with ups and downs and calm waves. The heart is broad so it can be received, and the sea is broad so it can be widened. Smiling in the face of hurt is self-cultivation, and ignoring ridicule is tolerance. If you have the clarity of water, you will not be afraid of suspicion; if you have the mind of water, you will not be afraid of rumors; if you have the tranquility of water, you will ignore the disturbance. No fighting, no discrimination, no fear, no fear. Good morning!

7. If you are kind to others, you will be kind to yourself; if you have a way with others, you will have to retreat to yourself. Don’t take into account the faults of others, don’t think twice about kindness to others, love yourself first when you love others, and ask questions before blaming others. If the land is extremely dirty, there will be many living things; if the water is extremely clear, there will often be no fish. You need to be tolerant towards your partner, and you need to be tolerant towards your friends. A gentleman is tolerant of others and will not fight over trivial matters. Everyone is like a chipped cup. As long as you don't look through the gap, the cup is complete. If a friend is upset with you, you should consider whether he or she is in trouble; if someone else brings you trouble, you should face it calmly. Don't be arbitrary when looking at things, don't rush to do things to the fullest, wisdom does not create troubles, and compassion has no enemies. True love is to take care of yourself; true compassion is in your daily words and deeds. Good morning!

8. A fool seeks the environment but not the heart; a wise man seeks the heart but not the environment. Troubles are like wind, arising from no root; sorrow is like snow, coming from no source. Think of others, live for yourself, do things without taking advantage of others, and do not be demanding of others. The road must be measured with heart, and life must be completed by oneself. What you enter is the scenery, what you forgive is tolerance, what you give in is compassion, what you don't dispute is wisdom.

When doing things, you have the skills to recruit and retreat; when you are a person, you have a limitless mind and a measured approach. Look down on troubles, look down on gains and losses, come and go, just be happy with the situation. Fame, fortune and wealth are all fleeting. Don't force yourself if it's not yours. A true gentleman is one who knows there is an opportunity to invest but remains unmoved. To be a human being, don’t ask for a clear conscience; just ask for a clear conscience! Good morning!