The three children are all daughters. How should I announce the good news to my family?

This question is suitable for me. I also have three children, all of whom are daughters. My third child was born two days ago and was discharged from the hospital yesterday. She is still in confinement with the baby sleeping next to her.

Although I wanted to have both children, when the doctor told me it was my sister, I felt uncomfortable, regretful, and had the idea that I didn’t want this child. It’s really not about favoring boys over girls, who doesn’t want to have everything! The first two daughters were really not too many, but now that I have another daughter, I really feel like they are too much. In fact, I think two daughters are just right. Who knows if the third child is still a daughter? What if God doesn’t give me a son? Just let nature take its course!

It was really sad at first, and I couldn’t help but cry when I came out of the delivery room. But nothing was said. My husband definitely wants a boy, but I think he is more open-minded than me. Seeing that he doesn't have any reaction and doesn't feel unhappy, he still treats me the same as the older two. Sometimes I feel that he is a bit verbose. When I comb my hair, he says that I cannot comb my hair during confinement. I don’t know where he heard this. It's been snowing very heavily these past two days. I went to the window to take a look, but they didn't even allow me to lean against the wall, saying it was too cold. I wanted to pick out my ears with an earpick, but he wouldn't let me do it, saying it was too cold. Even now I play with my mobile phone secretly. When he saw it, he said he couldn’t play because it was bad for the eyes. But I couldn’t help it. I played secretly when he wasn’t around. When I heard the noise, I quickly turned it off and pretended to sleep.

When we gave birth to a boy or girl, everyone immediately asked about the birth of a boy or girl. Almost everyone asked once. You don't have to tell them one by one that she is a girl. My father-in-law and mother-in-law didn’t know whether it was my husband or my eldest aunt who said it. Anyway, I never told my family, it was my husband who told them. When my parents found out that we were still having a daughter, they were worried that I would have a hard time at my husband's house in the future. In fact, there is nothing to worry about. If they can get divorced because of this unhappiness, and their family has the ability to find someone else to live in the next life, what age is this? The key is that nothing is easy. If their family has any ideas, they can only keep it in mind and dare not say anything, because from the beginning to now, I didn’t want to give birth to the baby. It was their family who wanted to have the baby. I also said that it might still be possible. For my daughter, she said she wanted to go to the hospital to see if it was a boy or a girl, but their family didn't go to the hospital. I don't blame them for being nice.

Some people say that we can still have children, and that there are no restrictions now. Haha, that is true, but it is so easy. It’s better not to think too much. Now that you have given birth, let it be what it is!

The three children are all daughters. How should I announce the good news to my family?

Having already had two daughters, this third child must be for a son. Regardless of the gender of the child, having an imported child in the family is definitely something to be happy about. But it’s understandable to feel disappointed and regretful because your wishes have failed. Who doesn’t want to add the word “good” to make his life look more complete?

I know a sister who gave birth to three children a few days ago. The first two of her are also daughters, the eldest is 16 and the second is 10. My husband works in engineering and has been doing well in the past few years and has made some money. At the age of 43, this sister no longer felt safe. She felt that her two daughters could not hold her husband's heart, so she wanted to have a son wholeheartedly. She got pregnant, and after more than three months of ultrasound, she was told it was a boy. The couple were very happy. Later, they did it twice, and they both said it was a boy. When I was 28 weeks old, I was told it was a girl. The whole family didn't believe it. How could it be possible? I went to take pictures twice more, but they were both told it was a girl. The sister's husband was disappointed and the sister was devastated. Because of the sister's drastic change in mood, coupled with her own age and other factors, the child was born prematurely when she was more than 7 months old. The child stayed in the incubator for nearly a month and cost more than 200,000 yuan. The child was brought home the day before yesterday.

So whether you are giving birth to a boy or a girl, whether it meets your wishes or not, as long as the child is born safely and healthily, this is the blessing of being a parent. Therefore, you can completely put aside the gender of the child. When you want to have a third child, you should not go for the son, but go for a healthy child. Then you will not be disappointed and lost.

I myself have two daughters. In my husband's family, every household has boys, but what other people think is their business. As long as my children are healthy, there is no difference between boys and girls!

There are three sisters in my family. In the 1980s, you can imagine that there were three daughters in the family and they lived in a rural area. My mother always felt that she couldn't hold her head high and was ashamed of my father. But since the three of us were admitted to college, my mother really felt proud and proud.

Times are progressing, and women’s status is getting higher and higher. It is no longer the past era when men farmed and women weaved. So first of all, don’t burden yourself with thoughts. You asked this question, which shows that you still don’t really realize the high status of women in this society. After giving birth to three daughters, you will be radiant and you can be confident. There is no need to think too much about the birth of another China Merchants Bank.

The next thing you have to do is to train your three daughters well. No matter whether you have children or daughters, raising them well is the right way. Raise your daughters well so that they can experience true love in this family. Men and women are equal, true love, and daughters need love more. Only in this way can they be happy when they grow up and not feel pressured by being born into a family of three daughters.

I wish you happiness!

Having three children in a row, all of whom are daughters, is it false to say that you are not disappointed at all?

When my two daughters were pregnant, they just went with the flow and never checked whether they were male or female. After giving birth to the second daughter like this, I felt a little disappointed.

Everyone wants to have both children. Nine times out of ten things in the world are not going as they wish, so just raise whatever comes.

As for how to report the good news to relatives and friends, just report it how you want. The child is your own, and you don’t need others to raise or care for you. To be honest, it really has nothing to do with others.

As for those gossips, you should not listen to them. After a long time, no one will be talking nonsense.

Those who give birth to sons may not necessarily live better than those who give birth to daughters. If your daughter is well educated and nurtured, there will be plenty of time for you to enjoy happiness in the future.

Some people say that after giving birth to a son, the New Year and the festivals are very lively, with several members of the family gathered around the parents. This is not the case for those who give birth to a daughter. There is not even a single person at home during the New Year!

In fact, this is just a matter of course.

Don’t you see so many only children around you who go to the bride’s house to celebrate the New Year after getting married?