How do you feel when your parents give you money after you get married?

My parents were born and raised in the countryside and never went to school. They raised the four of us by farming and doing odd jobs. And helped me finish college for three years.

Years are like songs, and the past is like smoke. In a blink of an eye, my parents are over 60 years old, and our four brothers and sisters are all middle-aged and have their own families and children.

Although I am not rich, I live a quiet life. Parents are alive and brother and sister are in harmony, which is the greatest happiness of our family.

We are all working hard to earn more money and live a better life. But after all, our ability and manpower are limited, and every family will have some difficulties. As parents, even if they have nothing, they are willing to give everything for their children.

I just want the children to live a better life and work less. Being a parent is a child's lifelong concern.

With the constant changes of national policies and the government's help to rural areas, the lives of rural people are getting better and better, and the elderly over 60 have corresponding financial and material subsidies, and our village is getting better and better.

Different trees have been planted on the land planted by my parents, which makes the environment in our village more and more beautiful. At the same time, some compensation will be given every year because it occupies the land where farmers grow crops.

And my parents, who have collected money now, have saved some money themselves and will send it to our brother and sister on average during the Chinese New Year. Looking at that pile of money, I really don't feel good.

Ten thousand yuan is not much for others, but for my parents, it is pocket money saved in one year. When we were children, we gave money to our parents, but they never asked for it. Finally, I had to give money to my children, and my heart was really full of Ma Benteng.

Do you need money? I really want to, but how can we take our parents' money? They are reluctant to eat and wear, and the money saved is squandered for us. How can I be willing to spend?

Since I became a mother, I know that it is not easy or hard for my parents. As a woman, I can't do anything now, even simple companionship. What about filial piety? I feel guilty and ashamed. I feel ashamed that my parents are children in front of them, no matter how old they are. Because of this, they never grew up in front of their parents, which broke their hearts.

Every parent can do everything for their children, but children do little for their parents. Parents never care about this imbalance between giving and getting. Ironically, we are still complaining.

How long has it been since you spent your parents' money, or how much help did you get from your parents? How much love have you given yourself and how much care have you given your parents?

Love needs to be shouted all the time, and love needs to be reflected in parents!