What kind of experience is it to be too far away from friends?

One is that you will feel a lot of pressure. You will feel that your friends are other people's children in the eyes of your parents and are afraid of being compared. This kind of situation is often seen in life, especially when we go out, we no longer call our brothers and sisters, but the age of our aunts and uncles.

Let me start with a situation I encountered. There is a neighbor next door who is about my parents' age, and his son is as old as me. So the two parents often discuss their children's situation together, but it doesn't matter if they don't graduate from college. I felt a lot of pressure as soon as I graduated, because I took care of the children next door and went out to work after graduating from high school. I got married after working for two or three years, and my second child was already able to walk. They work outside. I left my children with my grandparents. As a result, my neighbors and my parents will envy this warm scene of children and grandchildren getting along every day when they see their grandfathers and grandsons next door. As a result, my parents are looking forward to my marriage and having a grandson tomorrow. What I care about now is not how to study, but whether I have a girlfriend, and I will find a girlfriend soon. Everyone in our family is about your age and so on. This is a constant reminder. I even arranged a blind date when I came home for the New Year. I believe many friends of the same age should begin to feel this pressure, especially friends and relatives who are married and have children around you. This comparison will be stronger.

Of course, this kind of pressure, whether it is marriage problems in life, or study and work problems, should also occur. If a friend is too good in a certain respect, there is a big gap when compared with him, he will be eclipsed, and he will be a little annoyed and stressed. Of course, if the gap is not big, or if you are confident that you can make up for it through hard work, you may turn this pressure into motivation, try to catch up, narrow the gap or. Moreover, there are actually many people who have this idea. For example, your friend sings very well, went to a singing program and won an award. Then you must be very proud to be a friend, and maybe you will tell the people next to you that this is my friend and have a good relationship. I hope everyone around me knows that you have such amazing friends, which is really enviable.

So the gap with friends is too big, sometimes it is a stressful thing, and sometimes it is also a happy thing, depending on your attitude.