Why don't you praise others suddenly?

Praising others is a virtue, but suddenly praising others will make others feel hypocritical and even cause embarrassment. So how to praise others skillfully without appearing abrupt? ?

First of all, we should have a sincere heart, a pair of wise eyes, be good at discovering each other's advantages, praise from the heart, speak to the point, and avoid exaggerating, especially for some strangers with good relations, which will be considered as a joke. ?

Let's talk about what I experienced personally. I hope everyone can learn from it. During the summer vacation of Grade Two, I want to do some summer jobs during the vacation, so that I can have enough pocket money to do what I want. I went to a hotel to interview a waiter. I interviewed an elder sister in her thirties, and later learned that she was the boss's own sister. From the bottom of my heart, this sister is really ordinary, ordinary can no longer be ordinary, and looks very unfriendly. This is the premise. ?

There was also a girl who was interviewing with me at that time. She asked the girl two questions coldly as usual, and then said, go back and wait for our call first. Because when I was talking to them, I had enough time to observe and found that the aunt had ordinary five senses except her nose, so I knew what to say. After she sent the girl in front away, I immediately went over to her and said, sister, your nose is really beautiful, and the bridge of your nose is straight and straight.

The elder sister immediately had a smile on her face and asked me softly, really? Seriously, it's really nice. Then I asked two questions, and she told me to get ready and come to work tomorrow morning. In all fairness, the author thinks that compared with the girl in front, she is similar or even slightly inferior in figure and appearance. ?

Through this incident, we can find that no matter who she is, she will have a good-looking point or side, which will also make her feel satisfied and hope to be praised by others. Being good at discovering the advantages of others and praising others skillfully will often have unexpected results. ?

Also, at work, praising others' work is also an art. When praising others, you should be sincere, and then send your blessings in time, otherwise you will be jealous if you are not careful.

For example, I was rated as advanced in one year's work, and a colleague came over and said, not bad, I have been advanced in just two years, and my future is bright. I've been working for five years and haven't taken it once. At that time, I felt very uncomfortable after listening to it, and I couldn't say anything. After all, we are all colleagues. ?

From these two examples, we can see that praise must be sincere and sincere. At least let others think that you are sincere, or you might as well not boast.