Is it better for children to go abroad or stay with them?

The son of a friend of Dad's, Lao Xu, works in Canada. After talking, Lao Xu said excitedly that he is going through the formalities of going to Canada and will travel later.

Behind my back, another friend of Dad's, Mr. Tian, said disapprovingly that, to tell the truth, he didn't envy him at all, and it was better for the children to stay with him.

Mr. Tian has two sons, one is with him and the other is in Wuhan. After retirement, the old couple live in different places? A son takes care of his grandson. Maybe you have similar life experiences, and you know more about the ups and downs.

Is it better for children to go abroad or stay with them? It varies from person to person, and everyone should have different considerations.

When I was young, influenced by my father, I always felt that my children should study, be successful, and the higher their education, the better. My younger brother and sister used to be proud of their high education. After all, they earned more money than me. Therefore, I always think that I will spare no effort to send my children abroad as long as there is an opportunity.

with the growth of age, the concept has also changed in different ways.

Look at the children of colleagues around us. After most of them graduate from undergraduate courses, if they don't take the postgraduate entrance examination or go abroad, they will take a public examination, get married and have children early, and finish their work and get married early. Without the pressure of economy and life, I lived a full life and entered the second spring life early.

Let's take a look at those who have spent a lot of money studying in Britain, Hong Kong and other places. After all, a few of them have high salaries after work, and most of their children's salaries are not much higher than those of civil servants. Some of them have not even completed their life events at the age of 3, which is really worrying.

In contrast, the pressure of living around is less, and the happiness of life is higher.

tell me more about yourself. After dad's stroke, the highly educated children who once made dad proud lived in other places. Because of the epidemic, they could not go home to visit, so they could only pay some money to express their guilt. Dad may not have thought that it is my daughter with low education who stays around to take care of him for three meals a day.

according to my current thinking, I should let my children stay with me as far as possible. If my children have better development prospects, I will not be a stumbling block to their progress because of my conservative ideas.