Why is the culture of "comparison" prevalent in society?

Humans are social animals and social beings. In the process of getting along with each other, they inevitably make various comparisons with each other. It's just that some people like to compare, and some people don't like comparison very much.

There is nothing wrong with comparing things with others. Only when you compare can you see the differences.

It is a good thing if you find your own shortcomings through comparison and then work hard to improve and make up for your shortcomings. However, if after comparison, you see the gap between yourself and instead of trying to narrow the gap and catch up, you become jealous and slander others everywhere, that is not a good thing.

People hate that some people like to compare, maybe because they hate the comparison or the jealousy that comes from it.

There are always some people in life who like to compare, in terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation, and everything with others. Once they find that they are doing better than others in some aspects, they become complacent and think that they are superior to others. It seems that I am the best in the world and arrogant. If you find that you are not as good as others in some areas, you will feel inexplicable jealousy, make irresponsible remarks behind your back, or even make baseless slanders. This is a quality problem.

Therefore, comparison has two sides, good and bad, and needs to be viewed dialectically. Normal comparison can encourage a person to actively face his own problems, and then learn from others who are better than himself in all aspects. Abnormal comparisons can make a person mentally unbalanced, thinking that all the things about others that are better than themselves should not be like this, and that they should be like that.

There are no two identical people in the world. There will always be differences between people no matter what. We must maintain a peaceful mind, face up to this difference, and believe that we are irreplaceable. Blind comparison will make people fall into comparison, and comparison can never achieve a psychological balance.

Comparison allows a person to discover where he or she is better or worse than others, thereby improving one's self-confidence or further working to make oneself better, rather than by comparing with others. , making yourself miserable.