There is a saying: Zhu Dexiao comes first, regardless of his heart, the poor family has no dutiful son. What does this mean?

The whole sentence is: "filial piety of all virtues comes first, regardless of traces, and poor families have no filial sons; All evils are the first, no distractions, and there are few people in the world. "

"Wan Dexiao first, all evil as the source. Always filial, nothing in the world can bear to do. " From the modern work "Night Talk Around the Furnace" in the late Qing Dynasty. Filial piety is the first of a hundred lines; It is not difficult for people who want to do evil thoughts together in life!

Filial piety means that children's behavior should not go against the wishes of parents, family elders and grandparents, and it is a manifestation of a stable ethical relationship.

The history of filial piety:

The misinformation that "there are three kinds of unfilial, and no posterity is great".

China has had filial piety since the Western Zhou Dynasty. The most influential is Confucianism represented by Mencius. The most familiar is-"Mencius Li Lou": "There are three kinds of unfilial, and there is no queen." The original text is "Mencius said: there are three kinds of unfilial, and there is no big one." Marry without telling, and there is no queen, and the gentleman thinks that it is still telling. "

It means: "there are three kinds of unfilial, and the responsibility of not guarding future generations is the greatest." Shun married without telling his parents, which is nothing, but the gentleman thinks it is similar to telling him (because Shun is a monk and Yao wants to marry his daughter). "In other words, Mencius' original words have not been misrepresented by the public-not having children is unfilial. However, the most unfilial thing is not fulfilling the responsibility to the elders and future generations. Mencius' original words did not say what the other two kinds of unfilial were.

Later, Zhao Qi wrote notes on the Thirteen Classics. This paper expounds his personal understanding of Mencius' passage: "There are three kinds of unfilial gifts, namely, obedience, injustice and unfilial;" Poor and old-age, not for Lu, unfilial; If you don't get married and have children, you will never worship your ancestors, which is unfilial. Among the three, there is nothing bigger than this. "