Sentences far away from complex circles

The more circles a person joins, the wider the network on the surface, which is actually a waste of time. As the saying goes, "an inch of time is worth an inch of gold, and an inch of gold can't buy an inch of time." Life is limited, and time is more expensive than gold.

Really excellent people will not join the circle casually, but also dare to "offend people" and stay away from the circle of right and wrong. Unfavorable: stay away from the "five circles" for the rest of your life and learn to be an unsociable person.

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Stay away from the "classmate circle" that is no longer sincere.

It's better to miss each other than to meet! Once, we all stayed in the small yard. At that time, the students studied hard together, discussed how to solve problems together, and went for an outing together on weekends. We helped each other and spent a wonderful youth together. Later, when we step into the society, we will often contact and form a group. No matter who has something to do, we can all speak in the group, and other students will actively help.

For example, if a classmate has difficulties, the students will try their best to help the difficult classmate tide over the difficulties.

Five years ago in winter, my classmate Lao Wu, after divorce, couldn't get over it for a long time and didn't go out to work. At this time, Lao Wu was ill and was admitted to the hospital. It is "the house leaks and it rains all night." The monitor Lao Li took seven or eight students to the hospital to visit Lao Wu. Liu Tongxue, who works in Shenzhen, helped Lao Wu find a job. After leaving the hospital, Lao Wu went to Shenzhen to work and slowly walked out of the trough of his life.

However, in recent years, more and more people think that class reunion is just a show of a few rich people, or that some people with ulterior motives are calculating the interests of others. In class, everyone stopped talking, like strangers. Some students said "innuendo" in the group and even quarreled in the group. Some students quietly dropped out of class and broke off diplomatic relations with their classmates.

Smart people, when they meet classmates who are no longer sincere, quietly quit and stay away from classmates who don't cherish their feelings. It's nice to have a few classmates to talk to, but it doesn't matter if there are none. After the "baptism" of society, many students are no longer the naive teenagers at the beginning, and even infected with many social bad habits, which is not worth socializing with.

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Stay away from the "social circle" of eating and drinking.

When people reach a certain age, they have to admit that they are "going downhill". As the saying goes, "A hundred flowers blossom." A person can't be strong all the time, but he will grow old one day.

Cherish the body, is a person's responsibility, but also a person responsible for the performance of the family. One person is sick, dragging down the whole family. People often complain that they can't afford to get sick. That is the reality. Even if they have a cold, it is difficult to have no money. If they are seriously ill, the situation will really get worse.

Smart people stay away from the "social circle" of eating and drinking. Real connections are not earned by eating, drinking and having fun, but by our own strength and use value. Interpersonal communication, in the final analysis, is a process of "using, helping and cooperating with each other". You have no skill, even if you drink with others every day, it's useless. People simply look down on you and won't help you.