No matter how good your relatives are, there are three things you don’t get along with. What are the three things you don’t get along with?

First of all, there are relatives who don’t like to make gossips. They are the kind of relatives who laugh and talk well in front of you, but they can say bad things about you when facing another relative. The second is to have relatives who don’t have snobbish relatives. This kind of people treat rich and poor relatives with two different faces. They are courteous to rich relatives and try their best to please them, while they treat poor relatives like Sarcasm and vitriol. Finally, there are the relatives who always borrow money without paying. When you meet a relative in need, it makes sense to help. If you don't make money or pay back the money because of this, then don't bother with it.

In the past, most people's income depended on farming, and the villagers were very harmonious. When villagers need help, everyone will help each other. For example, when the villagers are busy in farming, they all help each other. With the continuous development of society, many people are unwilling to farm in rural areas and have started to go out to work one after another. The purest relationship between people is slowly disappearing. Especially the relationship between relatives. The old people often say, "No matter how good your relatives are, there are always three things that they don't get along with." No matter how good your relatives are, as long as this phenomenon exists, don't interact with them even if they are very close.

In Keigo Higashino's "White Night Journey", there is a classic saying that there are two things in the world that cannot be looked at directly, one is the sun, and the other is the human heart. Relatives in rural areas are complicated. For those relatives in rural areas, if you can handle them well, they will be relatives forever. But if you don't handle them well, they may become passers-by or even your enemies.

It is precisely because of this that everyone is traveling all over the country for their own small families, and they cannot go back home a few times throughout the year. The strong human touch is getting weaker and weaker, and they can only visit every new year. When I go home for the holidays, I will go to some relatives’ houses to walk around.