To be a layman, you only have money in your eyes.

The word "vulgar" always sounds less pleasing. After all, we were told from an early age that people should live an outstanding life, elegant and exquisite.

The more I grow up, the more I feel that I live a "vulgar" life, which is actually not bad.

"People+Valley" is common.

Anyone who eats whole grains is a layman.

You don't have to pursue "being tall" in everything, just face life simply and truly.

It is human nature to be greedy for money and afraid of death, and it is also the normal state of life.

No need to hide, no need to whitewash the image, feel at ease.

Be a layman and openly love money.

I saw a little video online:

A young man from a poor family went to a rich family to apply for a job as a driver. He didn't flinch in the face of the doorman's indifference.

After seeing the master, the young man modestly complimented him, and his tongue was covered with lotus flowers.

Being laughed at by others for flattery, he came from a humble background, and he endured everything and continued to sell himself plausibly. Finally, I was recognized by my master's degree and successfully applied.

Some netizens commented: "I will never be so humble for work and money again!"

Another netizen replied to him:

In the world of adults, you have to face the pressure of life when you open your eyes every day, and you can't be willful or melodramatic.

Lofty in front of money, because there is still a way out, I have not been driven into despair by life.

In the news, a taxi driver was seriously ill in hospital, but insisted on not taking oxygen, just to spend 4 yuan less an hour and save money for his daughter who had just entered the society.

A single mother with a small income in Wuhan cried bitterly because her child lost 5 yuan, which is the food for one day. ...

It hurts, but this is the reality.

Talking about money is vulgar, but these pieces of money will make people feel trapped in a state they don't like and become something they don't like.

As Mao Mu wrote in the shackles of human nature:

Money is a person's courage and the foundation of a family.

It can solve 90% of the troubles in life, smooth the folds of life, block the wind and rain of life, and make you live calmly and decently.

There is nothing wrong with being a layman, loving money aboveboard and trying to live truly.

To be a layman, you have to be timid.

In the variety show "Mother-in-law", when asked whether to go paragliding, Qin Hao resolutely refused: "I don't want to play, I gave my life to a paraglider, and my brain was kicked by a donkey."

Qin's mother half-jokingly disliked her son's cowardice.

Qin Hao said seriously, "Of course, spare my life. Something's going to happen to me. What can I do with rice? "

Before, I would think that Qin Hao was a man and too timid.

I didn't understand it until I became a parent. Sometimes I'm scared, because I know I have a great responsibility. Your life is no longer your own, it is related to the stability and happiness of your family.

My cousin used to be a senior extreme athlete, racing, bungee jumping, skydiving, omnipotent and heroic.

My style has changed a lot since I became a father. I don't drive fast, and I don't do dangerous sports.

I have never seen him at a late-night party again, but whenever I feel a little sick, I go to the hospital for examination, for I am afraid that a minor illness will drag on to a serious illness.

Friends laughed at him for being too timid and vulgar when they saw him wearing cotton-padded clothes and trousers and soaking Lycium barbarum in a thermos cup.

Cousin didn't care and said frankly, "After having children, I am really afraid of death and want to take good care of myself. What will the family do if there is an accident? If they are helpless, it will be as painful as it is. "

He used to be brave and live as he pleases, but now he is timid and cautious.

On the surface, it has changed, become tacky and not brave enough, but in fact, it is just more cautious in the bones, and more heavy responsibilities and deep concerns in my heart.

Liao Yimei once wrote in amber:

Middle-aged people should be timid.

Timid, because you love deeply, take good care of yourself, so that the person you love can be stable in this world.

Knowing how to cherish life is a sign of a person's true maturity.

Be a layman, relaxed and free.

In the second season of the reality show "Exciting Proposal", Lawrence Wang, who graduated from Stanford University, was ridiculed for being too "Versailles".

In the program, the cups and T-shirts he used all had a big Stanford logo, and even the mobile phone case and badge chain were replaced by Stanford, which made people ignore his "famous family" all the time.

Obviously, he has passed the domestic law examination, but he said that he is "not familiar with domestic law";

I will also interrupt others at will, and I like to mix Chinese and English when communicating with colleagues. ...

All kinds of performances make the audience call "Lawrence Wang is too superior", which makes people uncomfortable.

There is no difference between people except knowledge and character.

Paying too much attention to identity and trying to be superior often makes people look down on themselves.

People with a transparent heart never put on airs, and their lives are particularly peaceful. This is their accomplishment and their charm.

Think of Mr. Ji Xianlin's little funny story.

Ji Lao has the habit of keeping a diary. When he was studying in Tsinghua, he often recorded some daily emotions:

1932.09.11My manuscript has not been published yet.

1932.09.23 I just sat in the class this morning, and it hurts to sit up.

1933.04.29 I went to see the girls' dormitory specially because it was open. More than half of them are not in the house.

……

Later, when the publishing house was preparing to publish Tsinghua Campus Diary, it saw these details and felt that it was detrimental to the image of the master of Chinese studies, and suggested deleting them appropriately.

Ji Xianlin replied: "I thought about it and decided not to delete it. It is still the case. I was not a saint 70 years ago, I am not a saint today, and I will not be a saint in the future. "

Exposing such a true side does not damage the image of Ji Lao, but makes people feel that he is open-minded and lovely.

People who try their best to become extraordinary often appear tacky.

It's not bad to accept ordinary people frankly.

Forrest Gump said:

Life is what you feel, not what others see.

Fame and vanity are fleeting. If you care too much, you will only live a hard life.

Instead of trying to shape yourself so perfectly, it is better to be a grounded "laity", be a normal person, do things honestly and enjoy the present happiness.

There is a good saying:

Ordinary is the background of life.

Accepting your ordinary life and really settling down is the greatest extraordinary thing.

If one day, you find that what you think becomes tacky, don't sell yourself short. Maybe you have grown up and are getting closer to the truth of life.

For the rest of my life, I just want to be a layman, do what I want and live the life I want.

I have money in my hand, I am not sick, I have nothing in my heart, and every day is dull.

Simple, down-to-earth

So, good.

Light up the "praise" at the end of the article, share the article with more people, the rest of my life is long, and persuade myself to be a simple and happy layman.

Author: flame burning