Girlfriend took someone else's dowry. Tell me about it.

I know a girl who is 24 or 5 years old.

Although she is very cold, I have to say that she is really beautiful, naturally beautiful and charming. There are many suitors behind such girls.

But among her many suitors, only one looks at an honest boy, which makes her feel a little good.

In order to please her, boys often give gifts. Without exception, she accepts them every time. After a long wait, she finally felt something was wrong.

Because at first, it can be said that boys didn't even have the courage to look up at her. They are always nervous, careful and serious. Then what becomes more and more casual, bold and presumptuous.

Girls don't know what the problem is, but they think it's their charm.

One day, the boy formally confessed to her, hoping that she could become his girlfriend. Although she looks serious, she didn't respect, love and care about herself at first.

No accidents. The boy's confession was rejected by the girl, but what the girl didn't expect was that. The boy immediately changed his face and insulted her angrily: "What is purity? It's just a xx! " "

Anger turned into anger, and the girl realized that he regarded himself as a casual material person.

Just because he received a lot of gifts, he felt that he was a frivolous and vain person, and then he looked down on himself more and more, not as enthusiastic as he was at the beginning. Even if he was rejected, he didn't feel so sad.

Of course, no boy wants his confession to be rejected.

Especially when a man already thinks that the woman he professes is such a person, he wants to be with her more, but this kind of being with her is not because of love and like, but because he wants something in return.

Men are rational and will not let themselves suffer. After spending so much money and time, they still need something from women to feel fair.

Accept gifts from the opposite sex casually, and you will pay the price in the end. Remind women.

02

Fortunately, when two people are not together, some things can still be counted clearly.

Imagine that once two people are formally together, it is the beginning of real pain, because later, that man no longer respects you and only thinks that he is chasing you with a gift.

Or, if you think you are coveting his gift, come on.

Even if you like each other and intend to accept their feelings, don't ask for gifts. Accept his precious gift happily and feel that you should. In that case, your feelings will no longer be pure, and there will be some copper smell.

Because it is difficult to maintain an equal relationship and emotional balance.

If you want a high-quality love, you must be self-respecting, self-reliant and self-respecting, not greedy and cheap, and know how to pay for yourself.

In today's society, girls are very popular, so many girls begin to collapse after tasting some sweetness.

When her living expenses are not enough, or her income can't meet her daily expenses, she doesn't want to struggle, and she doesn't want to work hard, but asks for a man under the banner of feelings.

Let your boyfriend or suitor take you to eat what you want, take yourself on a trip and give you the gifts you need.

Uncle Yi said:

"It is impossible to rely on others in life, and it is impossible to hope to be respected by others."

Have you ever thought that this is not the worst case? It's a trivial matter to settle accounts with you and ask you to pay back the money when you meet a despicable person. If you embellish it outside, it will have a great impact.

At least have your own principles. If we don't like it, we shouldn't accept any gifts from others.

Even if it is good, if it is needed again, it must have backbone and ambition, be unmoved and not bow to it. This kind of thing is like bribery. If you accept it for the first time, you won't hesitate next time.

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Get something for nothing You should know that the person you give is not unconditional.

Gifts are like stepping stones between men and women. Accepting gifts from others will only give the giver an illusion that you have accepted my feelings.

I received a letter from my friend.

She also received gifts from several suitors before, which made her feel that you accepted my gift and naturally accepted my feelings.

Just like in the end, after a friend refused the suitor's confession, people asked, "Since you don't like me, why did you accept my gift before?"

Although there are enough pieces of paper that are not broken, no one says who they like.

But it turns out that we like giving gifts, and not everyone knows it. It is natural for people to have such doubts.

Rejecting other people's gifts is tantamount to clarifying your attitude.

If you don't like it, you have to hang someone else. No feelings, only gifts. What's the difference between that and love rat? Wasting other people's feelings? Not without self-knowledge, but because of your acceptance, the truth will make people have an illusion.

As the saying goes, eating people has a soft mouth and taking people with a short mouth.

Once you take someone else's things, others make some unreasonable demands later, even if you can refuse, it is too ungrateful and cruel.

I felt better afterwards, but why did I leave early and why didn't I want to accept the benefits of others?

People should be confident, but not arrogant. No one doesn't want to be a person with a bottom line. But at that time, it may not be as easy as you think.

All those who lose the bottom line do not lose the bottom line at once, but gradually lose the bottom line in repeated temptations.

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Advise women not to accept gifts from the opposite sex, especially when getting married!

There is pure friendship between men and women, but it does not mean that all men and women are pure friendship. And men are rational, why should they spend money to give you gifts?

Money is very important to everyone, unless he wants something, he gives you a gift for a purpose.

As for the purpose, obviously, it is needless to say here. In short, it's a trap designed to drag you into the water. If you are not careful, you will really fall in.

Don't think that inviting you to dinner is simply inviting you to dinner. You really don't know what is behind you?

The best reserve is to show your principles and refuse all kinds of temptations in life. Don't think about getting something for nothing. The more free things are, the more expensive they are.

1% of the people in the world take advantage of small losses, and 99% take advantage of small losses and suffer big losses.

Gifts should not be collected indiscriminately, and cheap ones should not be taken indiscriminately.

Realize your sense of value and existence through your own ability, never consume and overdraw your dignity because you are not a woman, and be a respected person.

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