How to control children to watch TV and play mobile phones?

As essential electronic products for families, televisions and mobile phones have become indispensable necessities for modern people. Almost all children like watching TV and playing mobile phones. Many children are crazy about TV and mobile phones. Don't let them see, they cry. So can my DuDu. Whenever they see me take out my mobile phone, they will grab it. When they come home from work early, they want to watch TV. So do many children around me. Colleagues and friends say that only watching hands and TV can make children quiet, but we all know that watching TV and playing mobile phones will do a lot of harm to children, such as affecting their eyesight and attention, leading to a decline in their cognitive ability. The younger the child, the more serious it is, but if they are not allowed to watch the child, the child will cry. How to get children to quit mobile phones and TV has become a headache for many parents.

In fact, it is understandable that children like watching TV and mobile phones, and it is difficult for adults to quit mobile phones, because mobile phones and TV are too attractive, flashing pictures, attractive music and great attention make people's brains unable to extricate themselves from excitement. Professor Wang Dawei from Public Security University said in a TV program that his children used to like playing games very much. He said it many times, but the child still couldn't change. In order to understand why children are so obsessed with games, he deliberately tried it. He said that the game is so attractive that adults will be attracted, let alone children.

My DuDu is over two years old. He has been a fan of TV and mobile phones since he was over one year old. In order to prevent Dudu from watching mobile TV or using these electronic products moderately, I have thought of many ways and made many attempts, and the effect is OK. Share it with everyone.

First of all, parents should set an example by not watching TV and using mobile phones in front of their children.

A child is actually a blank sheet of paper. What kind of picture to draw and what color to dye on this piece of white paper are all decided by parents in their infancy. If parents often watch TV and play mobile phones, it is almost inevitable that children will fall in love with them.

If parents often watch TV and play mobile phones in front of their children, it will be unconvincing and attract them to watch. A child who has not been exposed to TV and mobile phones will not be born to directly like foreign TV and mobile phones. So if you don't want children to watch TV and play mobile phones, then adults should not watch TV and play mobile phones in front of children.

The TV in my house is usually off, and my husband and I hardly watch TV, but when the nanny takes care of the children, the nanny likes watching TV very much, and sometimes she lets the children watch cartoons. In the past, my husband used to play mobile phones in front of children when he was not paying attention, so I made an agreement with him not to play mobile phones in front of children. When he comes home from work, he puts his mobile phone where the children can't see it, and he won't take the initiative to find it.

Need to remind you in particular, don't put the TV in the bedroom, because many children will put the TV in the bedroom with their parents before they are 3 years old, which will involuntarily increase the time of watching TV. A foreign study found that children with TV in the bedroom were 8 points worse than other children in Chinese and mathematics on average. Will you be surprised to see this?

Second, make an appointment with your child and get into the habit.

In modern society, it is almost impossible for children to completely eliminate electronic products, but we can control the time when children use electronic products, thus reducing the impact. When a child asks to watch TV and play mobile phone, I will tell him that we will only watch it for a short time. After having a child, we can't watch it any more, not more than 20 minutes.

He has understood this passage since he was a child, so every time he wants to watch TV and mobile phone, he will say "later, later" himself. It means to watch it for a while, and then stop watching it for a certain time. Reluctant as it is, it is acceptable. If you are crying and want to continue watching, then resolutely turn off the TV or take away the mobile phone. After getting into the habit, my DuDu will be very cooperative most of the time, saying that it is ok to stop and turn around and play something else.

Our family stipulates that the TV must be turned off before eating, so when we say "eat" when we are ready to eat, he will take the initiative to say "don't look".

Letting a two-year-old child turn off his favorite TV is not self-control, but habit.

Children under 3 years old watch TV and mobile phones for no more than 15 minutes at a time, and sometimes for no more than 20 minutes at home. In fact, a recent study has proved that children who use mobile phones from an early age have more flexible hand movements.

Third, and most importantly, parents should accompany their children with high quality.

If there are more interesting things, children will forget TV and mobile phones. If parents accompany their children to read books and play games, children's attention will certainly not be on TV and mobile phones. If parents just want to save trouble and don't want their children to disturb themselves, don't blame their children for being addicted to TV, mobile phones and tablets.

When you are with your children, you can read picture books, play toys or role-playing games. Even if it is just to play with children, it is also a very happy parent-child time.

My family Dudu likes to let me hold him and read picture books. He often takes the initiative to say "Miss, Leg (he can read ten)". He said he would sit on my lap and let me read to him. In fact, he didn't see it completely either. He saw it and asked him to draw. Because he likes reading Peggy's cartoons, he often borrows Peggy's picture books from the picture book library. He has some habits such as brushing his teeth. When he doesn't want to brush, he says Peggy and George brush their teeth, and he will cooperate.

Because he was tired of playing with toys at home, he wanted to watch TV one night. I pour the beans at home into a storage bucket. He played happily all night and didn't want to put them down before going to bed. I played with mung beans for two days, and then I played with soybeans. More fun than playing with toys. Children like to play with sand and dirt, but they don't have any at home. Playing with these beans is like playing with sand. I buried the little toy and found it. I put peanut beans in mung beans and let him find them. I am very happy.

We can also use our daily necessities to play some creative games. When children are happy, they will naturally stop thinking about watching TV and mobile phones.

Parents participate in it, interact with children, take up children's time, let children swim in games and reading, which naturally reduces children's interest in electronic products.

A three-year-old child, you expect him to be conscious, isn't it a bit overwhelming? Don't say that a three-year-old child, even a thirty-year-old adult, won't stop watching a favorite program.

Therefore, the best way to control children to watch TV and play mobile phones is:

1, try to delay children's exposure to these electronic products. The later the contact, the better.

Contact as little as possible before the age of 3, or no contact, 3-6 years old, watch TV for no more than 20 minutes at a time, 10 years old after playing mobile phones.

Less exposure to electronic products is not only good for children's eyesight, but also good for children's brain development.

2. Parents should also set an example, use less electronic products, and consult with their mothers. A 4-year-old child can't live without a mobile phone. Take it away and cry?

I asked, how do children get in touch with mobile phones? Do you know it's fun?

The mother said that it may be that she and her husband are playing mobile games hand in hand, and the children think it is fun and have to play.

This tells the crux of the problem. If parents use electronic products too much at home, or even have a good time, they can't do without it. How can you make your children not interested in electronic products?

You know, children learn by imitating adults.

Parents are so happy to play with their mobile phones. Of course, children think mobile phones are fun, and of course they want to play. Finally, they can't live without them.

Therefore, in order to keep children away from electronic products and have self-control over electronic products, parents should first set an example, stay away from electronic products and not indulge in mobile phones.

Almost every child likes watching TV. They like cartoons and are always attracted by the colorful pictures and lovely sounds on TV. Many parents are relieved that their children can be quiet when watching TV. Most parents know that watching TV is not good for their children, but they always feel that watching a little TV will have no effect. In fact, staying in front of TV for more than half an hour will reduce people's metabolic function and vitality, and even affect IQ. Let's take a look at the harm of watching TV to children:

1. Affect children's personality

Children watching TV is a one-way information reception. He can't interact with characters on TV. In the long run, children will feel that they have no sense of existence. In this way, the child's personality will become extreme, violent and hostile, and his sense of existence will be highlighted in this way. In addition, some children lack normal emotional communication, and they will become emotionally fragile and indifferent. They just want to live in their own world and are unwilling to communicate with the outside world.

2. Affect children's imagination

Children's imagination is very rich. They have all kinds of fantastic ideas and great creativity, which far exceeds that of adults. However, watching TV will affect children's imagination. Because they sit in front of the TV and constantly receive image information, they can get images without thinking at all, so the characteristics of imagination are obliterated.

3. Affect self-cognitive ability

The development and growth of children's mind can not be separated from daily reflection. If a child watches TV every day, his heart will be filled with images and stories on TV, and he will lose the time and opportunity to think and reflect on himself every day, and he will not be able to digest his daily experiences. Such children often lack self-awareness ability, feel no self, and often feel depressed or overburdened. Self-cognitive ability is very important for human development. Only with this ability can the child's heart be truly strong.

4. Affect children's reading ability

Watching TV is mainly about receiving picture information. Children who watch TV often will not be used to reading fonts, which will affect their reading thinking and ability. You need to move your eyes when reading a book, and just set your eyes at a certain point when watching TV. If you form this habit, your reading ability will not be exercised.

5. Affect your health

Watching TV is an action without any activity. They don't use any physical functions. However, children especially want to move when they are stimulated by images, which may not be shown when watching TV, but once the TV is turned off, the energy brought by this stimulation will be released aimlessly. And children need normal exercise to develop physically and mentally.

Children like watching TV, so do adults. It doesn't have to be completely eliminated. Sometimes you can learn knowledge from good cartoons. My son is now 4 years old and is allowed to watch for 20-30 minutes every day. Let me talk about my suggestion:

1. Help him develop good living habits, such as coming home from school every day, doing homework at five o'clock, eating at six o'clock, watching TV at six thirty, playing puzzle games at seven o'clock, studying extracurricular knowledge at eight o'clock, washing and sleeping at eight thirty. Developing regular living habits every day helps children plan their work and rest time reasonably.

2. Appropriate rewards can be used to guide him to develop good living habits. It's not necessarily a material reward, such as eating pizza for three days or going to a place you want to go.

3. Help children choose a good animation theme, and watching animation properly will also help children socialize. The spirit of courage, adventure and friendship in the story is also worth learning.

Adults should not watch TV except children's TV time. Set an example. Our family just waits for the children to fall asleep before turning on the TV to watch the news and follow the drama.

5. I gave my son 10 minutes to live a blind life. Tell him that watching more TV is harmful to his eyesight and health. He can feel the importance of eyes more intuitively through the mode of experience.

If you want to control your baby to spend a lot of time on TV and mobile phone, you must arrange other games that are more attractive to her.

First, provide children with picture books and story books. While telling stories to children, parents can add more interactive links, such as asking "Where are the words mentioned?" "Is this it?" "Mom doesn't understand here. What are you talking about? " Or extend some other little knowledge, let the story be spent in laughter and chat, and give children emotional communication and interaction.

Second, play with other babies. Playing with several babies not only helps to exercise the baby's social skills, but also can exercise the baby's physique and improve his physical fitness.

Third, take the baby out to visit the park or climb the mountain to get close to nature. Red flowers and green leaves in nature, each bright color can arouse the baby's interest, and parents can also take the opportunity to give the baby a vivid natural lesson to make the baby fall in love with outdoor sports.

With the high-quality companionship of parents, the baby can realize that there are more interesting things than watching TV and mobile phones, and can stay away from mobile TV and become a healthy baby.

How to control children to watch TV and play mobile phones?

Children generally have poor self-control and need the correct guidance of their parents.

Before answering the question, let me talk about my childhood, because it used to be a problem that bothered my parents. When I was a child, I also had the habit of watching TV and playing computer, which led me to indulge in computer education, only in junior high school. At that time, I turned on the computer to play games as soon as school was over. The first game I played was QQ Speeding. I played after school and put my homework aside, which made my parents really worry about me all day. As for me, my academic performance is predictable. This state lasted until I graduated from junior high school. Playing games made me lose interest in everything. When I was admitted, I went to the internet cafe to play games because I knew I couldn't pass the exam. It fully shows how fascinated I am with games, and I want to play games on such a big day.

I really regret it now. I regret entering the society so early. I regret that my education is very low and there are not many tall jobs for you. This is the result of playing games too much when I was a child.

Back to the question, how to control children to watch TV and play mobile phones, I think parents are also in an extremely important position.

You can't just limit children's entertainment time. You should plan your children's time and let them play when they should. Don't restrict them blindly. Too many restrictions are the beginning of children's rebellion. At this point, it is too late. Children won't listen to anything you say. As parents, we should guide our children's concept of time correctly and seriously. Spending more time with children can also help.

It is really difficult for a three-year-old child to have self-control. Because even adults can't help playing mobile phones for a day.

Develop regular living habits

Television and mobile phones are not a scourge, but they can also learn knowledge, broaden their horizons and exercise children's hand-eye coordination. You can fix a period of "TV time" every day, and you must make other arrangements then.

Make an appointment to watch TV.

You can make an agreement with your child and teach him to fulfill his promise. Say half an hour, never say 40 minutes.

Take the children and be obedient.

Parents are the best teachers for children. If parents only watch mobile phones all day, children will definitely follow suit. After making rules with children, adults should also control themselves. Read more books and play games with children, so that children can focus on things other than mobile TV and enjoy their parent-child time.

It's almost time for the children to have a winter vacation. At this time, mothers are always nervous. The main reason is that the children have a holiday and no one is in charge at home. Going to bed early and getting up early, reading and studying on time, and going to bed on time at noon have all been forgotten. Of course, there is another headache for mothers, and that is watching TV. Now is an electronic society, children have been exposed to these electronic products for a long time, such as mobile phones, televisions, tablets and so on. For children, the temptation brought by TV is irresistible. If you don't go to special discipline and let them watch TV by themselves, it is estimated that they will not rest for a day and a night. Therefore, children must control watching TV and playing mobile phones.

How to control children to watch TV and play mobile phones? Parents should understand that no matter what they do, it is impossible to completely stop their children from watching TV. After all, watching TV also has its positive factors, such as helping children to better understand the world, such as enabling children to learn more. What parents need to do more is how to make their children not "addicted" to TV.

Happy dad recommends three methods here:

The first is the power of parents as role models. For children, the role model of parents is very important. Happy dad has met many parents. As soon as he got home, he sat on the sofa, holding his mobile phone, brushing and brushing, and could play for hours. If mom and dad are like this themselves, how can you let the children watch TV for a while and then stop watching it?

As the saying goes, "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you". Isn't this a fact? Only when you do it yourself can you ask others well, and so can children. As soon as mom and dad get home, they take the initiative to read books and stay away from electronic products. Over time, children will naturally learn this from their parents.

The second is to stipulate the time for rewards and punishments. For children watching TV, the method of blocking is really not as good as sparse. Mom and dad can make it clear to their children that you can't watch TV for more than 2 hours every day. You can choose by yourself, for example, use up all the time at once, or watch it in several periods. But as long as the time runs out, I can't continue watching today.

This method requires the prior consent of the child. Judge the performance of this week's children every weekend. If you just follow the plan, there will be no reward or punishment. Children can be rewarded if they watch TV less than the prescribed time this week. And if the total time of watching TV is longer than the specified time, the time will need to be reduced accordingly next week.

There are rules, rewards and punishments, which are very helpful to reduce the time for children to watch TV.

In addition, Happy Dad and Happy Dad supervise each other. If you see Happy Dad watching TV for a long time, you will punish Happy Dad and reward Happy Dad on weekends. In this way, a large part of his own interest in watching TV has been transferred to the supervision of happy dad, and the actual use effect is also very good.

Finally, take children to do something meaningful, whether adults or children, when they feel idle and bored, they will naturally choose to watch TV to pass the time. Therefore, parents should take their children to do more meaningful things, such as doing some parent-child crafts, playing parent-child games, or going out to experience nature more.

Reducing children's free time naturally reduces their time to watch TV.

Personally, I think that children are indifferent to children's eyes when watching TV and playing mobile phones, which is almost the knowledge of parents. However, noisy and colorful cartoons and mobile games are very popular with children and are sharp tools to coax them every day. Electronic devices have become an indispensable part of many children's lives. In fact, watching TV and playing mobile games is not completely harmful to children. Some educational programs are also beneficial to the intellectual development of babies. I think there are advantages and disadvantages.

Children like watching TV and playing mobile phones when they are young, because they are very interested in playing and full of curiosity about these things.

I used to be an education consultant, and I know something about children's psychology. They are eager to be the top students in their class and study hard, but their control is weak and they need help from their parents.

How to control children to play mobile phones and watch TV, the key lies in control, not control. The wrong way to deal with it will make children rebellious. As adults, we can't even control playing, let alone being children. Therefore, in order to grasp the children's time schedule, our parents should set an example.

First of all, help children plan their time, strike a balance between study and play, and ask children to finish their homework if they want to watch TV. This is a hard requirement and cannot be met.

Second, set an example. Don't let us play with mobile phones, but ask our children to learn. Of course, children won't believe it. And they will always be low-headed, spend much less time with their children, and their children will suffer from autism. Therefore, only by studying, reading and interacting with children can families be harmonious and children have a happy childhood.