I haven't seen my parents for too long. How can I get familiar with them quickly?

Even if we haven't seen each other for a long time, blood is thicker than water, and this kind of affection cannot be abandoned. Just take out your previous attitude towards them and get along naturally. There is no need to do anything deliberately, but it will make the other party more embarrassed.

1, a warm hug.

Because of work, I can only go home once a year, but every time I go home, my parents will look forward to it at the door. You don't have to say anything when you meet the first person. Give them a big hug first, and express your enthusiasm and ideas with practical actions, which will instantly eliminate barriers and distances. Holding dad's hand and mom's shoulder, we walked into the house happily together. This intimate physical contact will bring estranged hearts closer together.

2. The whole family cooks together.

When the children come home, parents will prepare a good table carefully. Watching them busy in the kitchen, do you have the heart to sit on the sofa and eat melon seeds alone? Stand up and help directly, even if your mother throws you out, you will consciously choose to wash the dishes to help. During this period, we can talk about which dish my mother cooked is the best, some interesting things that happened when I was a child and so on. And use memories to heat the field. This topic is also easy to communicate.

3. Talk to your parents about the recent situation.

Children are worried for thousands of miles. What they want to know most is whether you are doing well outside. So after dinner, the whole family sat together, watched TV and chatted. Talk about how work is going, what interesting things have happened outside these years, and of course talk about your love life, which is also the most concerned issue for parents.

4. Care about parents' life.

Love is mutual. Parents care about you, so you should care about them. Ask parents about their health, what they are busy with every day, whether they eat and take medicine on time, and so on. When chatting, you can rub your parents' shoulders, press leg press and be filial.

The alienation from parents is only temporary. You just haven't adapted to the family atmosphere yet. Stay a few more days, this embarrassing feeling will naturally disappear, and you will find the warmth and comfort that once belonged to your home.