Why did Yu Xiuhua, a poet with cerebral palsy, divorce her husband after he became famous?

"In her heart, there are no high walls, no bronze locks and dogs, and even no fences. You can walk in easily. "

The first time I saw a photo of Yu Xiuhua, I believe many people didn't think she looked like a poet. Appearance aside, what she said was shocking. She is a famous poet who enjoys a high reputation in the whole country, but she doesn't care about the eyes of the outside world at all. Dare to say and do, try to break free from the shackles of the world and be a free person.

Yu Xiuhua, who hasn't seen Keyboard Man for a long time, boarded the hot search "Yu Xiuhua-Keyboard Man Nemesis". In the entertainment circle, many stars have suffered cyber violence from Keyboard Man, and Yu Xiuhua is no exception. But unlike most stars who only gently clarify or cry in front of the camera, Yu Xiuhua directly talked about this matter.

As we all know, Yu Xiuhua likes Li Jian. Because of this unrequited love, she wrote many love poems about Li Jian, and the language was explicit and straightforward, which naturally aroused the dissatisfaction of Li Jian fans. They focused their firepower on reprimanding Yu Xiuhua for being "shameless" and "not reserved by women", but Yu Xiuhua bluntly said, "What's wrong with me?"

Of course, the power of Keyboard Man does not stop there. They insulted Yu Xiuhua with a bunch of nasty words. They thought they would make Yu Xiuhua stop, but the reality was surprising. In the face of waves of abuse, Yu Xiuhua also ignored his celebrity status, bluntly replied on social platforms, exposing the evil of human nature.

As long as you dare to scold, she will dare to fight back. Keyboard man's bad methods of attacking other stars have no effect here in Yu Xiuhua, and the so-called "moral kidnapping" can't restrain her. Whenever, in pursuit of physical and mental freedom, Yu Xiuhua never compromised, even for her husband.

Nightmare Marriage When Yu Xiuhua was born, he suffered from cerebral palsy due to lack of oxygen. So far, he can't move or speak clearly. Such a "disabled person" in the eyes of the public is full of his own ideals and pursuits. Growing up, she was laughed at by her classmates too many times, but she never stopped learning.

In elementary school, junior high school and senior high school, her father carried her to and from school, giving her a chance to see the outside world through books. But no amount of effort can make up for the natural defects. Graduated from high school, 19 years old at home. My parents are ordinary rural people and there is only one child at home, so I have been worried about what my daughter will do in the future.

It was not until my parents met Yin Shiping that I suddenly had a plan. With the help of her mother, Yu Xiuhua was forced to marry this man 12 years older than herself, and this man became their son-in-law. At that time, Yu Xiuhua never understood the true meaning of marriage, but because of this man, she hated marriage.

As a door-to-door son-in-law, Yin Shiping will naturally help with housework. He seems to be diligent in farming and cleaning the house, and his parents also think that his daughter married the right person. But for Yu Xiuhua, this marriage is a nightmare, and she can't wake up for a long time. The future life she wants must not be like this.

For a long time, Yu Xiuhua was clumsy and often fell down. But the man saw that he had fallen, but he refused to come and give her a hand, and stood by and looked at her embarrassment coldly. He and his friends once laughed at Yu Xiuhua's clumsiness in front of her. The whole person is like a joke, there are no women.

Even though Yin Shiping is merciless, he is diligent and very popular with his parents. A few years after their marriage, they had their own son, and the family of three looked quite happy. However, Yu Xiuhua wants to escape from this marriage every day. Even with children, parents don't agree. But the inequality of two people's ideological realms became her greatest pain.

10.5 million yuan after the free autumn harvest season passed, Yin Shiping, who was idle at home, wanted to go out to work and earn money, so he went to other places alone. Yu Xiuhua thinks it's good for both of us. "He always watches me write poems in front of the computer. I don't like him there." . You can go home on holiday, and when they meet, they quarrel, and my mother can't stop them.

At that time, in order to be self-reliant and show her parents that she could be self-reliant, she learned to beg from beggars on the overpass. She walked into the street with a broken bowl, but the pride in her bones made her unable to kneel down and had to make plans. In fact, she also wrote poetry at that time, but no one appreciated it.

Such a deformed marriage lasted for 20 years inexplicably. 20 15, Yu Xiuhua's poems became popular. There are still many people who like the song "Sleeping with You Most of China". Not only because of vulgar words, but also because of writing most of the voices that dare to think and dare not say.

This year, Yu Xiuhua's extraordinary career was achieved. She can finally tell her parents that she can earn a lot of money by herself. After becoming famous, the first thing she did was to ask Yin Shiping for a divorce, but the other party refused. Finally, Yu Xiuhua gave all the 6.5438+0.5 million earned by writing poems to Yin Shiping, and they divorced Meimei.

But by this time, my mother was in the terminal stage of cancer. It's very painful to watch the two divorce, and I can't figure out why my daughter ruined a beautiful home. In an interview with a reporter, my mother told everyone that "she is very famous and makes money now, but I don't admire her." If a person's family is harmonious and good, then I admire it. "

But after all, the two ended up like this. Yin Shiping left with the money, and their son went to college and was away from home all the year round. The next year, my mother died of cancer. Who else around Yu Xiuhua can take care of her? Maybe, as she thought, she was really free.

Will love come again? After her mother left, she published several poems in succession, but most of them were about love. In the first half of her life, she lived what her mother called a good life and had a miserable life. Although I have never seen imaginary love, Yu Xiuhua never stopped looking forward to it. Even in a mess, there will be a prince riding a white horse all the way, just for himself.

In 20/0/6, Kloc won the "Farmers' Literature Award", and her poetry collection Moonlight on the Left Hand also became the best-selling poetry collection in China, winning a prize of 654.38+10,000 yuan. Besides books, she also stepped onto the stage. In programs such as Lu Yu has something to say, Readers and Three Faces of Deng Yongqiang, she talked to the audience about her outlook on life.

Originally living like this, Yu Xiuhua earned more than enough money for his own pension. But since I released my solo album On Earth, I have never seen Yu Xiuhua continue her literary creation. When a reporter interviewed her, she said: "In this life, if I still write, I may win many awards, but it doesn't mean anything to me. I want to be with someone, which is very meaningful. "

Yu Xiuhua is 44 years old, but she still hasn't waited for the imaginary love. She trumpeted her love for Li Jian on the Internet and was abused by many fans, but only to express her love. "My confession is for Li Jian, not for Li Jian, but for the people I love. I dare not mention his name. What if he is affected? " But Li Jian is different. She is a public figure. Anyone can express her feelings, so can I.

It's just that the person you love through the internet can't escape the helplessness of reality after all. The other party hates her disability, and so does Yu Xiuhua. She can be born, and she wants to live a wonderful life. Even if there are many regrets in this life because of disability, you should still live well in this life.

Conclusion Many people give up on themselves because of their disabilities, and some even complain about their looks and height, but who wants to try and see? As the saying goes, "When God closes a door for you, he will leave a window". Having succumbed to the tragic fate, have you ever tried to break away from the shackles of tragedy like Yu Xiuhua and take the initiative in life by yourself? Success is not just talk, but action is the key.