How to treat a man washing his wife's feet?

When a man washes his wife's feet, it depends on the weight and voice of both husband and wife in marriage. I mainly summarized the following situations:

If the man has no right to speak in marriage and listens to his wife in everything, he has no right to decide anything, which is mostly timid; If both husband and wife can discuss things and be considerate of each other in marriage, then the man who washes his wife's feet is really considerate ~ if this man takes care of his career and family, it must be a sign of loving his wife and being considerate; But this man will be timid if he can't create the value of marriage in his life and loaf around as a whole.