Middle-aged people should understand that it is really useless to send their children to various interest classes. what do you think?

Middle-aged people should understand that it is really useless to send their children to various interest classes. Shouxiang didn't think so. Interest classes can cultivate children's interests. Middle-aged people should cultivate and develop their children's hobbies according to their own conditions, but remember to be moderate.

Interest classes can cultivate children's interests. In society, there are many interest classes. Although most interest classes rely on marketing to make profits, it is undeniable that interest classes can cultivate children's interest, let children receive training in a certain professional field, and let children have a skill.

Middle-aged people should understand the difference between major and interest. The purpose of sending children to the training class is to cultivate and develop their hobbies, rather than insisting that children must rely on this major to eat, unless they are gifted in some way, they are rare talents.

Cultivate and develop children's hobbies according to their own conditions. Every child is different and has his own good aspects and unique conditions. Parents should fully understand their children, observe their advantages and send them to the corresponding interest classes for formal training according to their own conditions.

For example, children with soft bones who like dancing can be sent to formal training schools to learn dance. After practicing for a period of time, people around you will find that their figure and temperament have changed to some extent.

Some parents send their children to interest classes to make up for shortcomings. For example, if parents are tone deaf, they will choose to send their children to music interest classes to make up for the congenital deficiency of music cells because their children's performance in music is not the worst.

Send children to interest classes, remember to be moderate. Many parents arrange their children's courses to be full and rush from one interest class to another like rushing to the scene. Too many interest classes will make children lose their original hobbies, which is not only not conducive to cultivating and developing hobbies, but also has a negative impact on children's body and mind.

As we all know, the tuition and miscellaneous fees of interest classes are very expensive, which is not a small expense for families. Too many interest classes will cause a heavy financial burden on families. At the same time, children's energy is limited, and their ability to accept new things is limited. Too many interest classes will make children very tired.

To sum up, interest classes can cultivate children's hobbies. Middle-aged people should cultivate and develop their children's hobbies according to their own conditions, but remember to be moderate.

I won't send it to any of you, but I will send it anyway. Don't ask me why, because I am the beneficiary. I will definitely let my children learn their specialties now.

I am also an insider of the children's interest class. In particular, it is necessary to objectively and calmly analyze the key to solving this problem. I think a person must have a strong point in his life and will benefit from it in the end. Life is miserable without a skill. But I am not interested in versatility, although art is not limited to many skills and specialties; Multiple advantages and opportunities; Multiple opportunities, multiple paths; But we should also do what we can.

First, you must consider talent when you go to an interest class. Talent determines height, and diligence determines length. You can't touch the sky without talent.

Second, interest classes must start with interest. Don't object to cultivating interest, but don't persist if you are not interested. Because interest is the best teacher.

Third, you must have enough financial resources to attend interest classes. It is not advisable to scrimp and save on interest classes, because few children are lang lang.

Fourth, you should consider energy when you go to an interest class. Don't think that the more interest classes you attend, the more miscellaneous the better. In fact, life is limited and learning is limited. It is unwise to pursue unlimited interests with limited life. Everything you know, everything you can say. People with art have a place anywhere.

Fifth, the interest is backup. If it can't be a tool to make a living, it can be a pleasure to adjust life.

Therefore, it is necessary to attend an interest class, but it is not necessary.

I still think interest is very important. Children will have their own interests when they are very young. As parents, you can be good at discovering and cultivating. Take myself as an example. I went to my mother's office after school in grade one, next to the teaching building for foreign students. I ran in and drew with chalk. Later, I became the mascot of international students. Some middle-aged people come to learn Chinese, and their children play with me. There was no English class in grade one at that time. As a result, I can express myself in English in half a year. All the children are more fluent in Chinese than their parents. This is a true story. Because there are many children in Korea, I will speak a little Korean in the future ... but I forgot it later.

Later, my mother said, then you should study English well and talk to them later. I think it makes sense. Later, I fell in love with some foreign singers and wanted to understand them without subtitles. I have been studying English very seriously.

However, I haven't understood the subject, predicate and object yet. ...

Anyway, it will not affect the college entrance examination 136 ...

In retrospect, I saved a lot of money.

If you have a child in the future, you just want to sign up for a cooking class, but you don't find him or her interested.

Because his or her mother's cooking is really terrible ... I have no talent for cooking, I can't learn ... I don't expect to be so lucky to find a husband who can cook in the future. ...

I think my children will want to learn, after all, they won't learn on an empty stomach ... otherwise, we will keep cooking vegetables together ... and it is healthy. ...

Back to the topic, I think I will consider this in my interest class:

Discovering/cultivating interests-interest classes-continuous encouragement in the process-monitoring the results, asking children's opinions-considering whether to persist.

In short, extracurricular classes are like overtime for children and adults. Do not encourage blind overtime and blind remedial classes.

Anyway, happiness is the most important thing.

This statement is not correct.

There is nothing wrong with putting all your hopes on your children when you reach middle age. It is our ardent hope that our children will become dragons, let them carry hope and future, and let them become national talents as soon as possible. It should also be the future goal of our children's motherland. The country is strong when young people are strong, and the country is rich when young people are rich. Parents work hard for their children and think of some ways. Since childhood, it has been the responsibility of our family. In a great sense, this is responsible for the country.

If children want to be successful, they can't simply stay in words. We should do some help and practical things for them

Sending children to interest classes is undoubtedly a common means for our parents. If children want to become talents, not only families have to pay, but also school education and social education have to work together.

Children can learn things that they can't learn in class when they attend interest classes. It not only broadens our horizons, but also increases our knowledge and improves our comprehensive ability. Therefore, sending children to suitable interest classes that children like can give them another pair of successful wings.

But we should pay attention to two points: first, don't let children take too many interest classes. Too much pressure, too much burden, and it will be counterproductive. Second, children should not be allowed to enter training courses with insufficient qualifications and low level. Because that would only be a loss of wife and soldiers, which would cost money and harm the children.

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Interest, to put it bluntly, is that children think it is fun. If interest can be cultivated, so can academic performance.

My nephew is in the sixth grade this year, in a calligraphy writing class. This is a little helpful for writing.

Since the first grade, I have taken percussion classes, Go classes and table tennis interest classes.

Learning percussion, under the teacher's bluff, I bought more than 10 thousand percussion instruments, and after playing for a year, the children didn't want to play. A large number of musical instruments occupy a large area of the hall. It piled up there and became garbage.

In the sixth grade, the teacher told me to concentrate on junior high school, so I stopped going and playing table tennis. Billiard tables piled up like mountains, and dozens of ping-pong bats were thrown everywhere.

From Grade One to Grade Three, there are more than 80 students in the class, ranking more than 60. From grade four to grade five, there are more than 60 students, ranking more than 30. In the sixth grade, the remedial class stopped, and the class ranking of 54 people was 13.

After attending so many remedial classes, it seems that there is no effect except grades.

Of course, other people's children go to remedial classes and learn this and that. We can only envy them.

I don't object to other people's children attending remedial classes, but from our experience, my children will not go.

My daughter has gone to college now. As a child's father, like many parents, she has had the experience of sending her children to various interest classes. Your sentence "really useless" is a bit absolute, but it makes sense. The problem that really causes what you said is that when children attend interest classes, parents are often "interested" rather than children, so this interest class is useless; If children are really interested, I think they should be placed in an interest class.

Tell me about my daughter's experience in the interest class.

Let's talk about the Olympic math class first. Zhejiang has a good education, and the first place in the college entrance examination in Zhejiang is in a middle school in this district where my family is located almost every year. The number one in the college entrance examination is not without reason, but the overall quality of education in our district from primary school is very good. Different schools have their own special education besides compulsory education. My daughter's primary school is a school specializing in Olympiad Education. She often wins grand prizes in world-wide Olympic competitions. Every child who enters this school must learn Olympiad, and it is free.

What I want to say is that my daughter is really not this material! Every day's Olympic homework is a kind of torture for her (I believe this is not a case of my daughter alone, there are many children like my daughter). After a year of persistence, I asked my daughter's class teacher, does the child learn Olympic Mathematics? The class teacher is frank, saying that this is not coercion and can voluntarily quit. Therefore, my daughter was the first in the class to drop out of the Olympic Mathematics study. After my daughter graduated from primary school, this decision proved to be wise. As far as I know, only four people in a class have been studying Olympic Mathematics until she graduated from the sixth grade, and everyone else dropped out of school. What I want to say here is that it is not a child's specialty, and it is useless to learn it.

The second thing is that my daughter is taking a composition class in a famous off-campus training institution. Usually the child's mother is in charge of her remedial class. I have been studying for more than half a year. One day, I looked at my daughter's training homework. Since the first training, there have been more than 20 compositions, each of which is almost five-star, but the quality of my daughter's composition is very average. From this, I realized a truth. In fact, training institutions are well versed in management. As long as the children's parents are happy, how many soldiers the children really learned is not the most important thing. A four-star article needs one more star to become a five-star article. For teachers, one second at most, but this second is very heavy and parents are very happy. This star also shows that the training institutions are very powerful.

Remember: the ultimate goal of off-campus training institutions is to make money, not for your child's success!

Sketch class: Drawing is my daughter's hobby. She began to learn sketch in the fourth grade of primary school and never gave up. Until now, she has gone to college and is still asking the teacher to learn. The achievement is that from the beginning of junior high school submission, I began to earn money to get the manuscript fee, and some works were also adopted by some institutions.

From my daughter's interest class experience, I have come to a conclusion that the class that children are interested in is worth attending; If parents like it and children don't, don't force it.

Children's learning is children's, not for parents' face-remember!

# It's better to break one finger than ten #

Regarding this friend's question, my personal opinion is that ten fingers are not as good as one finger. Or to put it another way, it is better to master every line than to master every line.

A neighbor has a little son. The parents of this family not only met their son's requirements in life, but also successfully raised his son into a little fat man. Moreover, the couple spent all their time trying their best. No matter whether their son was happy or not, no matter whether they had any talent in this field, they did not hesitate to spend a lot of money to enroll their baby son in martial arts classes, drum classes, art classes, English classes and so on.

So many classes not only deprive children of their spare time to play, but also have little time to finish the homework assigned by the school teacher on Saturday and Sunday, which makes children very tired. Two adults, apart from going to work, take their children home, just like stars. When they go to this class and that class, they often come out of this training class and jog to another training class. Adults are not idle and too tired.

In this way, the family rushed to the training class with their children, and the money was spent, but after several years, the results were minimal. Martial arts class, drum set class, etc. Few people can get it. To this end, the couple also had a big fight.

In fact, there are not a few such parents, and children are of course important. Every parent wants to succeed. Besides studying, he also wants children to master more talents and develop their interpersonal relationships after entering the society. These are all understandable.

But in fact, no matter what you do, you should do what you can according to your own situation, choose interest classes based on the principle that ten fingers are not as good as one finger, and ask your children's opinions carefully to see if they like it or not. Don't ignore the children's opinions and go your own way, so as not to spend the glistening money to make the children tired, and learn nothing well, which is not worth the candle.

If a child really likes it and has a certain talent, we can try our best to cultivate it. It is worthwhile to spend some money. I believe that children will definitely learn something, and there will definitely be no such result as the chubby friend I mentioned above.

Dear friends, what do you think of this problem? Welcome to communicate with me.

Sending children to various interest classes can play a certain role in their future study.

My son's junior high school and senior high school have been in junior high school. If you don't take shortcuts, it is difficult to get into a relatively ideal school.

In order to go to school after graduating from high school, he was given saxophone training according to his interest. Bought a alto saxophone for more than 2000 yuan. Later, when I took the graduation exam, I bought another 8000-yuan high-pitched saxophone.

From the first year of high school, I have two classes a week, each class is 80 yuan. After graduating from high school, I changed two teachers.

High school graduation examination, successfully passed saxophone professional examination, combined with cultural points, was admitted to a professional normal undergraduate school in Henan.

When choosing teachers in interest classes, we must pay attention to choosing some prestigious local teachers, so that children will be more confident in the entrance examination.

In addition, we should pay attention to balancing the contradiction between cultural studies and interest studies, giving consideration to both, and not neglecting one thing.

Different students have different views on whether it is useful to attend interest classes. Welcome to pay attention to communication.

When people reach middle age, I use the growth process of children to answer this question. My family is a girl, and now I am a sophomore. I haven't given her any cram schools or interest classes since I was a child. When I was in primary school, I formed a good habit of studying and reading for her. After she consciously finished her homework, she watched her favorite cartoon Tom and Jerry for an hour. I never gave her an outline at night. I arrange my time freely, painting Chinese paintings, playing clay sculptures and playing chess with her father. I like listening to guzheng music. As a result, she wanted to learn guzheng herself and went to class on Sunday. I didn't take it seriously. I didn't expect to be admitted to 10 grade before I graduated from primary school, but it was just a hobby of the little girl. I was a monitor from primary school to high school. I didn't let my parents worry about my studies, and I was successfully admitted to universities and graduate students.

If the child is really talented, or is particularly interested in something, you might as well cultivate it, so that the child is interested and willing to learn, and the parents are not tired. Why not?