What little thing can make you think that your mother-in-law is not your mother?

For example, cooking, she always asks my husband what to eat, but never asks me.

In fact, at first I believed that my mother-in-law could treat me as a mother, but from the time she asked my husband what he wanted to eat every time she cooked, I understood that my mother-in-law was not a mother, and she could never care about me like her mother.

Then my dirty clothes. No matter how long I leave it, no one will wash it for me, but my husband's clothes, no matter where they are, will be found out by his mother-in-law and washed for him.

Then my laundry hung there. Even if I hang up for a month, no one will give it to me. Even if I did, I would throw a lot on my bed. Then the husband's clothes were taken away by his mother-in-law, and then neatly folded and put in his closet.

Finally, my mother-in-law never cleans my room when my husband is working outside. No matter how dirty and messy my room is, no one will clean it. But after my husband came back, my mother-in-law quickly changed the quilt, then swept the floor and cleaned up our room.

So there is really no comparison. Thinking too much will only hurt myself, so I have to think nothing.