What's it like to have a mother who prefers boys to girls?

It should be particularly sad for a girl to have a mother who prefers boys to girls. After all, every child wants all the love of his parents, and if the mother prefers boys to girls, there must be some deviation between boys and girls, which may be reflected in food, clothing, housing and transportation. In today's society, the phenomenon of son preference has not been eliminated. After all, it existed a long time ago and is deeply rooted. Mothers who prefer boys to girls may prefer boys. Boys may be responsive, and if they want something, they can get it by telling their mothers, but girls can't.

China has been unfair to women since ancient times. Girls can't go to school, girls can't go to ancestral temples, and even men like three-inch golden lotus, so it is a kind of self-harm for women to bind their feet. At that time, people thought that only boys could carry on the family line, so the role of women was only to have children. Even in the 2 1 century when equality between men and women was advocated everywhere, girls were not treated completely equally. However, people's ideas have changed. No longer a son, but a precious daughter. On the contrary, daughters are more filial than sons, which makes many families want to have a daughter.

It is precisely because most families no longer have the concept of son preference, so the existence of individual families is naturally very happy for boys, but it is a bit sad for girls. My high school classmate has two children at home, and there is a younger brother below her, who is in junior high school this year. Her mother is a bit patriarchal and will reveal a little when chatting with us on weekdays. Later, I heard a little hearsay from my mother, and I was very angry at her mother's preference for boys. She is a resident student. She usually lives on campus and doesn't go home until weekends. Generally speaking, mom must be delicious and delicious.

When she goes home on weekends, her mother never buys food, only when her brother wants to eat. Later, she failed in the college entrance examination and wanted to repeat her studies for another year. Her father didn't object, but her mother just didn't agree. At that time, she cried badly, stayed at our classmate's house for a few days and went out to work part-time. She didn't contact us all summer. Later, she said that the tuition and living expenses were paid by herself, and her mother agreed. At first, she objected because her brother wanted money for school, so her mother didn't want to study for her.