Old classmates often send me WeChat messages recently, and their words are quite ambiguous. What does this mean?

My old classmates often send me WeChat messages recently, and their words are quite ambiguous. What does this mean?

My old classmates have been sending you WeChat messages frequently recently, and the words are quite ambiguous. It is very possible that they like you and want to pursue you. But judging from the word "recently", it means that the two of you were not close before, and can even be described as alienated. This person said some ambiguous words, indicating that you are of the opposite sex. If it is the opposite sex that you are not familiar with and you are still a little resistant, it is obvious that you have no extra thoughts about this person at all. I am also very anxious about how to deal with the relationship between the two of them. Because they are old classmates and we have to take into account the other person's face, I don't know how to deal with it.

1. Regardless of whether this person can still be friends in the future, your attitude must be clear. Once there is any ambiguity with you, as long as it makes you uncomfortable, you can raise it directly and tell the other party carefully and clearly. Please speak nicely and maintain a sense of boundaries. If you have something to say, if you have nothing to do, don't bother. You have your own relationship to deal with, and you don't want to cause unnecessary trouble; help the other person find boundaries;

2. Treat him coldly. Once you see signs of abnormality in the message sent by the other party in WeChat, you can simply not reply or read it to satisfy the other party. As time goes by, more often than not, people with a little self-awareness will not continue to find you unless they really have something to say;

3. Delete and block. This is the most decisive way to deal with it, and it also proves that there will be no subsequent complicated interpersonal communication needs based on the other party. The person you don't like is definitely not the same person as you. No matter what state of mind this person is in, you can express your attitude directly. Deleting or blocking is also a way to show your attitude. If you are not that kind of person, no matter how you get along, accept or withdraw, you will never be able to become a person in the end.

Put your own feelings first and take your emotions seriously. If you're really a good person, you won't be treated in such a shaky way. After all, people of the bright side don’t speak secretly.