I found an ambiguous chat record between my husband and colleagues.

Feelings are serious, and marriage is not allowed to involve others. Emotion, whether in reality or on the Internet, is his inner alienation and betrayal of marriage. Since he can have an affair with his female colleagues online, he can also have an affair in reality and even have a substantive relationship.

Obviously, he can't tell you the truth. Why is derailment called derailment? It's sneaky. If you are calm, it is not cheating. Since it is cheating, he must be covering it up.

Of course, men are also proud, and they should be given some private space when appropriate. Otherwise, if you are too strict, he will think that you have become his bondage, and of course it will have a certain impact on your marriage.

Marriage needs management. If the management is not good, it will easily lead to the deviation of one party and the breakdown of marriage. For your husband's behavior, if he really has no substantive relationship with the other party in reality, it is already a precursor to cheating, because if your relationship is very harmonious, he will focus on you instead of playing with colleagues online. "If there is delicious food at home, you won't go out to eat in a restaurant." If he has a substantial relationship in reality, then this problem is more serious, so we must deal with it in time to ensure that your marriage will not break down. You now find that his behavior is very timely. As long as you find the contradiction between you in time and then solve it through effective methods, your husband can put an end to this ambiguous behavior. This will ensure the stable and long-term development of your marriage. Your family will still be very happy in this way.

The management and maintenance of marriage is very important. Your husband's ambiguity has nothing to do with his colleagues outside, but mainly your husband and wife themselves. Flies don't bite seamless eggs. As long as you solve the contradiction between husband and wife, everything will be solved. The key is to use the right method.