How to cultivate children's boldness

Eight ways to cultivate children's courage are as follows:

1, let nature take its course and don't rush it.

Children's timid bad psychological behavior is gradually developed with the growth of age under the influence of environment and education. We can't expect to overcome it overnight. We must follow the principle of gradual progress and guide patiently.

If children are afraid to go shopping by themselves, parents can take their children shopping together first; Tell your child the general process of shopping, accompany your child to the same store next time, and encourage you to buy as much as you want. At first, children may be afraid to talk. Parents can help him start and then let the child go on. After several times, after the children get familiar with this store, parents can watch their children go shopping by themselves from a distance, and then let them go to other stores alone.

2. Don't blame and humiliate children in public.

This will only increase the pressure and frustration of the child and make him more timid and retreat. When a child refuses to call someone, don't force him to call in front of the guests, and don't say such scolding and humiliating words as "no one can call". Wait until the guests leave before patiently educating and encouraging the child.

3. Create conditions to expand children's contact range.

Parents should consciously let their children contact the society, guide them to contact others, and let them unconsciously participate in games, shopping, receiving guests and other activities. For children who are afraid to play with others, take them to see other children's games first. When he is impressed by the joy of others, let other children invite him and encourage him to take an active part.

4. Let go of your child.

Dare to let go and let children temper in the ocean of life. Some parents always treat their children as children, or they are afraid that their children can't stand being beaten, so they always say "you can't" and "you are still young". Parents' arranged substitution will cultivate children's timid character, lack independent spirit and adaptability, and once they leave their parents, they will appear flustered and at a loss. Moderate setbacks and hardships are indispensable wealth for children's growth. Parents should never deprive them easily, but should let their children play freely. Children especially like to play with sand and mud, so parents should try not to interfere with how he plays.

Step 5 set a positive example

Tell children heroic stories often, or guide them to watch some movies and films that reflect heroic figures, and buy some books and periodicals in this field for them, so that the heroic words and deeds of the characters in the stories can influence them subtly.

Give the child positive psychological hints and list some brave behaviors, such as not crying after hitting someone, or just crying for a little while, being able to speak loudly and admit his mistakes, etc.

We should also pay attention to the influence of father on the boy's character. Fathers often joke and play with children, and pay more attention to talking about fathers with children, so that the image and behavior of fathers can be clearly left in children's minds.

6. Encourage your baby to communicate with others.

When the baby is very young, try to guide him to get used to strange environments and strangers. You can often take him to visit or go to the park, but parents should be full of love and make him feel safe. In life, encourage babies to participate in various social activities and provide more opportunities to interact and play with children.

7. Cultivate your baby's expressiveness by playing games.

Games are children's nature, and every child likes to blend into the game situation. You can use the tone of the game to encourage your baby to perform various performances at home.

Let the baby show it to his parents first, so that he won't feel shy. The program performed by the baby can be any subject he likes and is familiar with, such as a children's song, a Tang poem, a dance and so on. Parents should praise and encourage more to increase their baby's self-confidence.

8. Treat your baby's withdrawal behavior correctly.

When you find that your baby is shrinking, don't compare him with those sociable children, but be considerate of his mood; Don't be rude because of impatience, which will make the baby more afraid and afraid to contact people. Especially not to say "I am a timid child" in front of outsiders. You should actively strengthen the baby's bright spot and encourage him to do everything possible to overcome the difficulties encountered.