What are the advantages and disadvantages of having a new moon?

Nowadays, after the birth of a child, more and more families choose to ask for a month for the child and the mother. After giving birth to the baby, I also asked for a new moon. After working in my home for two months, I have a deep understanding of the pros and cons.

Advantages and disadvantages of Chinese New Year holiday.

Let's talk about profit first

1

Experienced, novice mothers benefit a lot.

At present, most women in the market have a low education level, but their training, years of practical operation and exchanges between peers have made them have rich nursing experience. Novice mothers have no practical experience except getting some knowledge of maternal and child care from books. Although the old people at home have experience in raising children, some have forgotten and some concepts are out of date. With Yue Yuexian's familiar operation, novice mothers can rest assured and learn a lot of modern neonatal nursing knowledge, which has benefited a lot.

Advantages and disadvantages of Chinese New Year holiday.

2

24-hour responsibility system, maternity rest is fully guaranteed.

Yueyue usually works 24 hours a day, which is very hard. Thanks to their efforts, the postpartum rest of pregnant women has been fully guaranteed. It will be much easier for novice mothers to take time out to learn some parenting knowledge in the second month and write a growth log for their children.

three

Sharing housework makes it easy for the elderly.

Besides taking care of mother and baby, Yue Yue also does some housework in her spare time, such as cleaning the room, mopping the floor, washing vegetables and washing dishes. Of course, there are two prerequisites for this. One is that Yueyue is more dedicated, and the other is that children are better to take care of. When I invited the Lunar New Year, my mother was responsible for three meals a day for the whole family, plus my snacks. After Yue Yue shared the housework, my mother was much more relaxed. She not only took a nap, but also took time out to knit sweaters for her children.

Advantages and disadvantages of Chinese New Year holiday.

Talk about disadvantages again

If you work freely, your professional skills will not be improved.

Many people will work in subsidiaries at the beginning of the Chinese New Year holiday, and when their wings are hard, they will go out to work by themselves, so that they don't have to share with the company, and all the money they earn will go into their pockets. Freedom is freedom, but all kinds of training organized by the company have been missed. I have worked in my employer's house for a long time, seldom communicating with my peers, and naturally I get less new information. Coupled with the low level of education and limited self-conscious learning ability, professional skills are likely to be limited by conservatism and cannot be improved.

Strong situation, the main employment against.

Because Yue Yue has expertise in neonatal care, they always have a strong feeling at home: "I am a professional and must listen to me." Of course, my family kept a low profile during the Lunar New Year, and we respected our opinions when it happened, but she resigned early because her employer didn't listen to her opinions before. It is a common phenomenon that the new moon is strong in front of the parturient.

The nurses we hired in the hospital always ordered us to do things in an unquestionable tone. For example, our baby products are often rejected by her in a tough tone: "This can't be used, go and return it!" "This won't work, buy it again!" I often have the illusion that we are employed by her.

Advantages and disadvantages of Chinese New Year holiday.

Being actively controlled, mothers tend to be superstitious.

This stems from the second point. It is precisely because of the strong situation created intentionally or unintentionally by Yue Yue and the inexperience of primiparas that they were actively controlled and superstitious about Yue Yue's opinions. In fact, Yue Yue's on-the-job training is very simple, basically there are two pieces: bathing and stroking the baby and massaging the breast for the parturient, and it only takes one week before and after. As for the baby's psychological needs, how to deal with the baby crying at night and other issues, Yue Yue said that it was handled by feeling and experience.

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Strong sense of responsibility, holding the baby and refusing to let go.

A strong sense of responsibility is a good thing, but a strong sense of responsibility is not necessarily a good thing. My family likes to hold the baby in the second month and thinks it is her duty. We often remind her not to hold her all the time, which will spoil her, but such a reminder doesn't work. The direct consequence of this is that the baby is not only spoiled, but also covered with prickly heat.

Everything has advantages and disadvantages. If we can make good use of our advantages and deal with our shortcomings effectively, then we will be handy when using the new moon.