What is it like to fall in love for the first time? Have you ever been injured? Or you've hurt someone else. I've met scum.

Speaking of it, the relationships I had when I was a student were not considered real relationships, at least they were sneaky ones.

So let me tell you about the four relationships I have had after working. I have hurt others, and I have also been hurt.

My first lover was my studio classmate. We had known each other since high school, but we only really got together after graduating from college. Originally, he was a person I hated very much, but because we trained together after graduation, he was so attentive to me. As time passed, I couldn't decide whether it was love or not, so we got together in a daze. Before I was with him, I There was a senior I had been chatting with for several years. He was very nice and humorous, and later on he became successful in his career. He just didn't have the courage to propose being with me, so after I fell in love, I probably made him wait in vain and hurt him. However, I felt uncomfortable being with this annoying person. My best friends and friends all said why I was with such an annoying person, but I still persisted. Later, I found out that he had no friends and had problems with his character. At that time, his family was already looking at houses for us to get married. I was only 24 years old at the time and felt that it was really a pity to marry so early. I hadn’t had enough fun yet (actually I just hadn’t found the right person and I felt unwilling to do so). Later I broke up quickly, which also hurt him, but I can't deceive his feelings, nor can I deceive myself.

The second lover was my colleague. At that time, I fell in love like crazy. My first time was taken away by him. At that time, I felt that it was worth giving it to the person I loved most, but I I didn’t know that, except for me, everyone else in the company knew that he had an inappropriate relationship with a married woman in our department. It was only after I discovered something was wrong little by little and found evidence that I asked a colleague who I thought was better. , that colleague told me everything, and I broke up with him decisively.

The third lover is a turtle, who is from the same hometown as me. I met him on Renren when I was in college. We have known each other for 7 years, but we only chatted enthusiastically in the first year of our acquaintance. After a long time, we lost contact. He contacted me again after he returned to China, and we got together after meeting. However, he works in a different place and can only come back 3-4 times a month. He usually relies on WeChat to keep in touch. I feel like It was still too early to talk about marriage, and I found that this person was generous except when he invited me to dinner (because my employer reimbursed him). At other times, he would not go shopping with me or buy me gifts. As time went by, I gradually discovered that he was not He didn’t tell me to his family. In fact, to be honest, he didn’t have any advantages. He was fat and short. He was 162 and taller than me. He wore height-increasing leather shoes all year round. If the family hadn’t supported him to go abroad, it would have been a problem for him to go to college in China. I It was also because I had known him for a long time and felt that at least I knew him well, but in fact there was a big difference. Later, my colleagues saw that I was depressed because of this relationship and said that I was blind to find such a person, so I made up my mind to leave him. It happened that a big brother I knew from another company wanted to introduce me to someone, so I dumped him.

Then this person finally became my husband. He knew that I was not happy in my previous relationship. I am very satisfied, and he is very considerate. I feel that no one in the world is better than him and cares about me. So after talking for 5 months, we got the certificate naturally. Now the baby is 2 years old.

In fact, the most beautiful thing about being in love is when you are making him laugh. He listens patiently to everything you say and pays attention to all your moods. He will be very happy with what you post on Moments or what you say. She cares, is responsible, has a sense of responsibility, and treats her family and elders in a mature manner, so I always feel that this should be my first love.