There are always some best relatives who are annoying. What is the most annoying relative you have ever met?

I think I can answer this question. My uncles are actually ok, and they have a good relationship with my mother, but I don't know why I didn't like them very much since I was a child, especially my aunts, which is what we call aunts here. They treated my grandmother badly, and my mother argued with them many times about it.

Our house is far away from them. Every time I go, if I don't bring a gift, I'm sorry, you can't even get a cup of hot water. Their faces are all very bad. I remember that although I was thin when I was a child, I could still eat it on my children. After dinner with my uncle's family, it wasn't long before I sat alone in the yard watching the kitten. The youngest cousin came over and whispered in my ear, Sister, my mother said you ate too much and asked you to eat at my uncle's house in the afternoon. His uncle is my big uncle. I didn't tell my parents, but I seldom went to her house afterwards. Every time I visit my relatives in the future, I will subconsciously eat less, just because I think of this sentence, and I am worried that eating too much will be annoying.

I remember that after my sister was abused by her husband, because we were in other provinces and didn't arrive in time, my uncle was not far from her home, so my mother asked him and my aunt to visit. As a result, my uncle used to scold my sister directly, and my aunt didn't help my sister, but apologized to the man. After we arrived, my sister cried with my mother in her arms and asked her if my aunt scolded her for my mother and left her alone. I feel sorry for my sister, but I'm glad I divorced that man, otherwise it might be worse.

Because her family was poor when she was a child, her brothers and sisters were basically brought up by her second child, but they didn't like my mother at all. Instead, they think it is wrong that our family is getting better and better. I really don't want to talk to such relatives, but fortunately, there are very few contacts now, otherwise I can't stand it.