Knowing that she didn't go to see her mother-in-law with her husband, her husband was very angry.

This is your fault. Can a daughter-in-law compare with a daughter-in-law? Can you stand it when your mother loves her daughter-in-law and doesn't love you? What your mother-in-law does is what every mother would do. After all, it's her own meat. Even if she is tired, you can't blame her if she is willing to help the child herself. She didn't bother you either, did she? It's none of your business that she stays in the shop. You don't have to go because you are pregnant. But you have passed, which is commendable, but you can't bear a grudge against the old man for it. It's your choice. If you are unhappy, you don't have to do it, but you blame others after you do it. This is a bit wrong. It is inappropriate for you to lose your temper later. Because you never show it, others don't know your forbearance and resentment. It's normal for you to feel that losing your temper is the accumulation of dissatisfaction, but for others, they can't see your forbearance, and they will only feel that you suddenly have such a big contrast, which is inexplicable and unresponsive. I suggest you talk to your husband calmly and tell him your grievance. I said that I knew it was not easy for my mother-in-law, so I kept putting up with it, but now there are irreconcilable contradictions that must be solved. I didn't do it for myself, but for my family. Put yourself in the other's shoes and understand the great righteousness. Your husband will listen.