How did you drift away from your former friends when you grew up?

When I grew up, I drifted away from my former friends, mainly because of the lack of intersection between work and life, as well as differences in ideas.

Why do you drift away from your former friends? Some of them may be caused by the distance. Because they are separated from each other, there is a lack of intersection between their work and life, and the friendship gradually fades. When I was in graduate school, I had an old friend. We talked about everything, and we were similar in temperament and hobbies. We often talk about life and ideals together. But after graduation, because the distance is thousands of miles apart, there was interaction at first, but now it is rare.

In addition, there are some childhood playmates and friends. Because the growth paths of study and work are different, especially after entering the society, their life concepts and hobbies are very different. Both sides are increasingly lacking in the same language and cannot integrate into each other's circles, so they are gradually drifting away.

Of course, there are also problems because of contradictions between them, and they are drifting away without repair. In addition, some people have no time to maintain their friendship because of their busy work and fast social rhythm.

that's my opinion. I hope it will help you. I wish you all the best and a happy life.