Why are some people smart and others stupid? Some people are bad, others are good?

Although it is related to nature, it is not a decisive relationship.

Let's talk about intelligence and stupidity first. Don't count the special population with congenital mental retardation, because that is an example.

Edison is very clever, isn't he? He invented many things, but in the end he said he couldn't understand mathematics. Einstein was dropped out of school by his teacher when he was in primary school, because the teacher thought he was stupid. Whether a person is smart or not lies not in his knowledge, but in his ability to handle things. So there are several factors that affect this.

The first is family, that is, a person grows up from a very young age, and the people who raise him have a great influence on him. For example, people who are in contact with him control children, which is not conducive to their intellectual development. If they are very willing to inspire their children, it will be different. For example, strict parents strictly keep their children away from the ice on the road to avoid falling. However, parents who are good at inspiration will think of some interesting ice first when they see that their children are curious.

Then imagine that children's thinking must be different in such different growth environments. Most of the former are conservative, while the latter are rich in thinking.

I just gave a very small example, but the growing environment and the people who guide the children are absolutely the key, just like the story of "Meng Mu's Three Movements".

However, children who have grown up before cannot change their growth. A lot depends on yourself. First of all, they must have confidence in themselves. You know, they are not worse than those smart children, but also expand their knowledge and enrich themselves. This is one of the ways to open their minds. It can also be said that there was once a school where the principal gave IQ tests to students. A child was said to have the lowest IQ, but they didn't tell him directly. His parents encouraged him to watch more, study more and ask more questions. Later, he won the first prize in the small invention and math contest, which showed that he was better than people with high IQ. This shows that every child is smart when he learns to be good at thinking and observing.

Some children do well in school, others don't, but they like playing games very much. However, when they encounter something, they are often smart. This is the difference in thinking mode, because the game does exercise some reaction ability. Then the best state is to study hard, try to stay focused in class, understand what the teacher said in class, take part in competitive sports to exercise your cerebellum after class, or play some games and read some extracurricular books appropriately.

The strengths and weaknesses of people are similar to the cleverness and stupidity above. Then there is the influence of family environment and the efforts made the day after tomorrow. But the most important thing is to believe in yourself.

Because some optimism, self-confidence, pessimism and inferiority are inseparable from the environment. But the most important thing is to have a correct understanding of yourself the day after tomorrow and know whether you are blindly optimistic or blindly pessimistic. For example, if you know that you are a person who loves inferiority, you should learn to believe in yourself.

Smart and stupid, good and bad, of course, are not born If stupid people think that all smart people are born and their own stupidity is born, isn't that stupid? If people with few advantages think that many advantages are innate, don't they think that they will always have so many shortcomings?

If a fool knows that he is not stupid, believes in himself, tries to broaden his horizons and accumulate common sense knowledge, he will certainly become smart. However, if he has many shortcomings, when he knows his own shortcomings, he should not be afraid to change them, so he will show himself to everyone as a person with many advantages one day.

Therefore, in anything, I am most afraid of "believing in nature and refusing to change". So it has an innate influence, but it is not absolute. But don't be afraid of change and don't lose confidence in yourself. This is the key.