Everything you want to know about jealousy in love is here

Everything you want to know about jealousy in love is here

Couples in love have a destructive devil: it is called "jealousy", and its other name is also "jealousy" ". Talking about jealousy, the discomfort in the heart, the ensuing quarrels and the damage to the relationship, I believe couples who are in love know this, and it can be seen.

6. What kind of person would seduce other people’s partners.

1. People who are accustomed to being a third party are often lustful and extroverted people. What you may be more curious about is, what kind of person would seduce other people's partners? This is also a very interesting question.

Generally speaking, third parties are those who are lustful and extroverted. They are generally low in agreeableness and conscientiousness, and they approve of unfaithful sexual behavior. They also don't care about trust and intimacy with others. The more attractive the third party is, the easier it is for seduction to succeed.

2. Female third parties show off their looks and sexual openness; men show off their power and resources. Female third parties will show off their good looks and sexual openness; male third parties will show off their power and resources. People who can be seduced by a third party often have similar characteristics to the third party. We call this like birds of a feather flock together. They also appear to be extroverted, lustful, open-minded people who do not value these concepts of fidelity.

So although it seems that the seduction of a third party may successfully win over the opposite sex you like at a small cost, think about it, it really doesn’t cost much, right, and you can successfully win over that person. snatched away. But in the long run, this will not do them any good. Everything has pros and cons.

3. People who cheat will continue to cheat, and their wives/husbands will also be seduced away by others. An intimate relationship based on seducing someone else's partner carries with it the original sin of betrayal from the very beginning. Therefore, this relationship is also extremely unstable: once you meet a better fourth person, the seduced partner may turn around and leave.

Because the partner I seduced in the first place fell in love with someone else because a better person of the opposite sex appeared, right? In fact, these unfaithful partners never stop looking for a better partner. This is what we say, people who cheat will always move forward on the road of cheating, and people who seduce other people's wives or husbands will also be seduced by others to take away their own wives or husbands.

7. Which behaviors are more likely to arouse our jealousy.

1. Men fear that their wives will cheat on them physically; women fear that their husbands will cheat on them mentally. After talking about people, let’s talk about specific behaviors. In fact, this has a lot to do with our gender.

The thought of a partner’s sexual infidelity (physical infidelity) in men will arouse the strongest jealousy; in women, the thought of their partner’s emotional infidelity (emotional infidelity) will arouse the strongest jealousy . Emotional infidelity here refers to women believing that their partner is in love with another woman. This is what we usually call mental infidelity.

2. Men care more about reproducing their own offspring.

For men, having a partner fall in love with someone else does not pose much of a threat to their successful reproduction. Sexual intercourse may lead to bad consequences, that is, the child may not be one's own. This means that he will no longer be able to complete his instinctive task of extending his life. Therefore, for men, women's sexual behavior intersects with other boys, which makes him feel even more frightened.

3. Women care more about whether men have provided themselves with sufficient survival resources. But for women, that's not the case. It's not scary for a partner to have sex with other people. Because a partner has sex with someone else, it also guarantees that the child is theirs, right? As long as the man can continue to provide his partner with the necessary resources for survival, even if he makes another woman pregnant, it doesn't matter. Because it does not affect the growth of your children.

But if the husband falls in love with another woman, it will be troublesome. This means that the man will give his resources to other women, and the growth of himself and his children will be very difficult. Maybe after hearing this, you can understand why the marriage basically ends when a woman cheats, but when a man cheats, the woman can continue to live her life, but the prerequisite is that the man must have resources. Of course, this is not absolute, but in most cases, it is roughly the development trend.

8. After men and women become jealous, their behaviors are completely different.

1. When men become jealous, a common behavior is to maintain their self-esteem by confronting their romantic rivals or finding other women. When men become jealous, they will work hard to maintain their self-esteem. Confront or threaten your lover. Of course, it is more likely to regain self-esteem by pursuing other women, while also arousing jealousy in the partner and achieving revenge.

2. When women become jealous, they will become more attractive to their partners and try to outshine their love rivals.

After women become jealous, they will try to improve their intimate relationship with their partner to cope with the threat from their love rival. They will pretend to be indifferent but make themselves more attractive to their partner in an attempt to outshine their romantic rival. So this kind of plot is not uncommon in TV dramas.

Also in this situation, some men will also enjoy the great satisfaction and pleasure brought by this kind of two women seeking husbands. Therefore, it is quite shameful for men to enjoy this process sometimes, and of course it is also shameful.

3. Women are more likely to arouse jealousy in their partners.

Women are actually more likely than men to try to arouse jealousy in their partners. They usually exaggerate their attraction to other men, and even deliberately show some flirting and dating behaviors with other men to arouse the jealousy of their partners. What's the purpose? The purpose is to examine the strength of their intimate relationship.

To put it simply, I want to know how much my partner cares about me. Women hope that their partners will work hard to maintain and maintain the intimate relationship by improving the relationship after jealousy occurs, such as paying attention and showing loyalty. But as we just introduced, if men don’t think so, things will backfire.

Men are men after all, and men will only deal with jealousy in a man’s way. As mentioned just now, men are more likely to find new women to regain their self-esteem. It turns out that when girls test their partners in this way, the intimate relationship eventually breaks down faster. This is called nozuonodie! If you don’t seek death, you won’t die, that’s probably what it means

9. How to deal with jealousy in intimate relationships.

Finally, let’s talk about how to deal with jealousy, especially how to deal with it positively. If you don’t want to be dominated by jealous emotions all the time, or worry about impulsive behaviors that scare you. Then I think you can try the following methods to control the scope of your jealousy. You must know that jealousy damages a person's self-esteem, and our strategy is also proposed from the perspective of restoring self-esteem. What are there.

1. Question your own unreasonable perceptions. The most effective way to reduce those tragic and absurd thoughts is to question yourself: you have to keep asking yourself five words - "Do I have evidence?" Just five words.

So, how can you prove that your partner is having an affair with someone else? If you are worried that it will be too late by the time you get the evidence, then tell yourself that it is in your best interest to get the evidence. Because this allows for more effective confrontation. If your true partner behaves unfaithfully, then let me tell you, it will only be a matter of time before the person shows up.

2. Improve self-worth. If the first method is to prevent mediocrity from disturbing others and pretending to be superior to others, then the second method is to improve your self-esteem by improving your own value. I think this is the most effective method. When there is no value gap, jealousy is less likely to occur.

Men need to strive for more resources and status, while women should not forget to maintain the attractiveness of their appearance and figure at all times. So we say that men should improve themselves, and women should improve themselves even more.

What advice would you give especially to women? Don't think that you don't have to put on makeup after you get married. After you get married, you need to put on makeup, buy clothes to dress yourself up, and know how to invest in yourself. From the uncle's point of view, if you save money and don't invest it in yourself, if your partner or your man invests the money you saved in other women, then the gain will outweigh the loss. Are you right?

3. Improve communication skills.

If you have doubts about your partner, don’t test it, but ask directly. I have doubts about you. I want to ask why? During the inquiry process, you should pay attention to the methods and methods, so as to achieve the purpose without irritating the other party.

In fact, jealousy often arises from poor communication. I misunderstand the other party’s behavior and I am not willing to ask. The more I speculate, the more I speculate and become jealous. The more there are, the more dissatisfaction and suspicion will arise, leading to cracks in the intimate relationship, which is not what we want.

4. Increase the satisfaction and fairness of intimate relationships. Be more satisfied with your partner and less picky. Not only will you not feel jealous, you can also effectively prevent your partner from feeling jealous. More importantly, there can be no double standards in marriage. Especially men. You cannot just allow yourself to date the opposite sex but not allow your partner to talk to the opposite sex. In this unfair state, the quality of marriage will be affected by jealousy.