Mother always asks me for money.

Her fundamental purpose is to help you save money, but in the wrong way. Find an opportunity to communicate calmly, tell the story, and negotiate a mutually acceptable plan. If you really can't do it, take out the expenses of life and work one by one. The last resort is to take advantage of risks (seeking relief and stress). Use the love of "tiger poison does not eat children" to achieve the goal.

I understand your difficulty. If you don't get into trouble and think about her thoughts from another angle, you won't be entangled. In addition, your career planning direction may be a little biased. Why don't you take a long view?