Why do you say that you don’t slap someone in the face when you hit someone, and you don’t curse your mother when you scold someone?

1. Don’t slap someone in the face.

Everyone is born and raised by parents. We must have our own measures in doing things. Don't be impulsive. But no one is omnipotent, and everyone has their own emotions. Many times when faced with sudden insults from others, it is difficult to calm down and not think about it. After all, people's hearts are made of flesh. If you are good to me, I will be good to you. However, if both parties have a dispute, they must not slap each other in the face. If so, things will get out of hand.

People’s faces represent dignity. When two people are arguing, things are not that complicated, but if they start fighting, things will get worse. But when faced with insults from others, different people have different reactions. People with high emotional intelligence will keep themselves very calm, while those with low emotional intelligence will definitely not be able to escape a fight. The situation at this time is very dangerous. The old man said that it is okay to joke around, but you must not hit others in the face. The face is the first impression of a person. If your impression is ruined by others, then they will not fight you.

2. Swearing without exposing one's shortcomings

In life, it is inevitable that you will encounter various difficulties and make many mistakes. When we are in contact with others, the relationship between the two of us is particularly good, and there are no secrets between the two of us. However, if the two of us have a conflict and quarrel, we must be merciful and never reveal all the shortcomings of the other person. If this is the case, the emotions between the two people will never be the same again. We must stay rational when swearing and never do anything we regret.

There is another way of saying that if a person has a stain, or he is a thief or a disabled person. These are a person's shortcomings. These things are beyond our control, and we don’t have to laugh at others or talk about others behind their backs. But there are some people who have extremely long mouths, like a long-tongued woman who talks about this person's shortcomings or that person's shortcomings every day. For such a person, many people don't like her, and they will also hate her. Everyone has shortcomings, and we must never expose them in front of others.