Six characteristics of good people

The six characteristics of a good man, in life, many small partners hope that they can have a good home, especially women, all hope that they can meet someone who is good to themselves and worthy of entrusting. Below I have sorted out six characteristics of a good man.

Six characteristics of a good man 1 0 1, responsibility

Goethe once said: responsibility is to have a love for what you ask to do.

An irresponsible man, without moral and conscience constraints, may not be responsible for you, and it is difficult to be single-minded about his feelings. For example, those men who are entangled with the opposite sex in love and after marriage, or even derailed, are almost all caused by a strong sense of responsibility, and of course there are other ingredients mixed in.

Of course, it is not only this kind of man who has no sense of responsibility, but also another kind of man who has not taken on the actions and responsibilities that a man should have. They are incompetent and grumpy. They do nothing at home all day, and the burden of supporting their families falls on women. Such a man is shameful.

It is true that women's happiness, as well as the level of happiness, are mostly closely related to a man with a strong sense of responsibility. If you don't believe it, then you can find an irresponsible man and try to have sex, and you will think this statement is true.

02. Etiquette

Some people say that if a man can get married, take him to dinner, and when ordering, you can draw a conclusion by looking at his attitude towards the waiter.

Indeed, this is also a way. A man who can be very polite to waiters will not be bad in character and have a low education. Because many people think they are superior, such people look down on service personnel.

This basic sense of respect and politeness is latent, and can't be faked at once.

If a man doesn't even have the most basic etiquette, and he is still waiting for the upbringing of others, do you think this man is worth loving? Even if you like this man very much, his behavior will lead to the estrangement between you, and his percentage in your heart will drop involuntarily.

Actually, there are many ways to judge a man's behavior. You don't need anyone to teach you. As long as you observe carefully, you will know that some women deceive themselves into thinking that they will get better in the future and that they will change. How many people are satisfied with the final result?

03. His family

As the saying goes: "fish begins to stink at the head"

There is another saying: "Children born of dragons, dragons, phoenixes and mice can make holes."

It's not that a family doesn't enter the house and doesn't know all aspects of a man. His family is the best mirror. He can see some essential problems from his growing environment that you have never seen clearly.

After all, most people are from a family, and family background has a great influence on a person. For example, see if her mother is strong, her father is responsible, violent and so on.

In short, people who can observe should try to understand. Although not all families of origin will have a bad influence on children, it cannot be ruled out that there is no such phenomenon.

04, three views

Many people say that they want to find a person with three views, but our living environment is different and our personalities are naturally different. Therefore, it is not easy to find a person with the same three views.

But when different people come together, it is particularly easy to have many differences. For example, if you give a beggar 10 yuan in the street, in his eyes, you are just stupid, and the beggar may be faking it. For you, you just can't bear to be so embarrassed by a kind old man and do something from the heart.

A person who has roughly the same world outlook as you will not think you are stupid, on the contrary, she will think this woman is kind-hearted. Life is particularly prone to all kinds of contradictions, and serious ones will involve all kinds of strange little things.

For another example, men with incorrect views will think that women are attached to men, and women should stay at home to educate their children and take care of their parents. This is an obvious misunderstanding. Men can also do these things.

Some tiny ideas can fully show a man's three views. Living with a man with an incorrect outlook on life will not only make you tired, but also make it difficult to get happiness.

Six characteristics of a good man II. Control emotion

There is a good saying: "Being with others ultimately depends on the lowest point of character."

Whether a man can commit himself to life depends on his attitude towards you when he is in the worst mood.

Cousin's marriage has always been very happy. She is still a treasure in her husband's hands and a flower in her eyes. As long as his cousin likes it, he will try his best to spoil her.

But 20 years ago, my cousin's marriage was not optimistic, and most people in the family chose to oppose it.

At that time, my cousin urged everyone to marry her for the simple reason that this man knew how to love her, how to make her happy and how to spoil her.

Cousin is the only child in the family. She has been spoiled since childhood and has her own way. I have had several boyfriends, all of whom ran away because they couldn't stand her "miss" temper.

Only this man can see his cousin's willful frankness and persistence, and he also knows the unguarded intimacy in this relationship. No matter how his cousin played tricks on her, he let her go.

Obviously, sometimes I am angry enough, but after a short silence, I will greet my cousin with a smile and make him happy in another way.

In his own words, it is: "The person you like will be favored and unwilling to make her angry."

People who live in love will really become gentle. Later cousin, sweet and lovely, was completely different.

But in fact, my cousin never refused to suffer indignities outside. She just spoiled her wayward cousin for more than 20 years and always threatened to spoil it.

Jiang Yang once asked Qian Zhongshu, "Why do you let me go every time we quarrel?" ? Sometimes reflection is my fault. "

Qian Zhongshu replied with a smile: "Because you are mine, even if the quarrel wins, what can you do?" If I win the truth, lose my feelings and lose you, I will lose my whole life. There must always be jokes, smiles, quarrels and quarrels in the world of two people. "

Home is a harbor full of love, not a place to reason.

If you love someone, you can't help but be patient and tolerant and want to give her the best things in the world.

If there is a man who loves you, dotes on you and is willing to control your emotions, please cherish it.

Grasp the discretion

Mr. Zhou once said: "Appropriate limits are a sign of mature love, and interpersonal communication should know how to keep the necessary distance between people."

Distance is not only suitable for family and friendship, but also the boundary between the opposite sex and the stabilizer of love.

The first half of my life is a worrying TV series. Good Tang Jing was betrayed by her boyfriend and best friend.

The audience can't help cursing He Han and Luo Zijun, but is it really because He Han and Luo Zijun are inhuman?

On the contrary, it is precisely because they are laymen and have all the vulgar desires of laymen that the story will develop like that.

People are emotional animals, and it is inevitable that there will be contradictions when they get along for a long time.

The emotional entanglement between the three of them is not the fault of one person, but the fault is that there is no sense of boundaries.

Knowing how to measure, Luo Zijun will not rely on He Han without a bottom line; He Han will not ignore Tang Jing's feelings; Tang Jing will never let He Han take care of Zijun himself.

Emotion is not static, it will change quietly with the environment and mood.

Everything was done unconsciously, and when it was discovered, it was already deeply involved.

Just like He Han, he thought he had found someone he really liked, but he didn't realize that Tang Jing was still his favorite as long as he didn't cross the line.

There is a good saying on the Internet: "We women are going to marry the man who ignores all women."

Every woman wants to be unique in each other's hearts.

A woman in Zhejiang once almost committed suicide because her husband shared an umbrella with another woman. Maybe her behavior is a little extreme, but she feels the same as a woman.

Not knowing the boundaries is enough to ruin a person's sense of security.

A man's proper limit is a woman's sense of security. In this world, the only thing you can't share with others is love.

Therefore, a man who can keep a proper distance from the opposite sex other than his lover and do things in a measured way can give a woman a sense of security and is her best arm.

Attention to detail.

Philosopher Voltaire once said, "What really makes me tired is not the long road, but a grain of sand in my shoe."

What really drags women down is not the hardship of life, but the triviality of family.

In the movie The Troubled Family, Wen Jinhui and Pan are a pair of happy old people in the eyes of outsiders, it runs in the family.

Surprisingly, Pan Su, who is over 60 years old, proposed to divorce his wife.

The reason is: Wen Jinhui drinks until midnight every day and burps himself when he comes back; Rinse your mouth in the morning, blow your nose loudly and fart; Take off your pants and throw socks casually every day. ...

Obviously there is an ashtray next to it, I still dust the orchid.

On my birthday, my friends remember to send flowers, but as a husband, I have long forgotten that I have worked hard to serve him all my life and have never heard a thank you.

It sounds like trivial things in life, but it is these trivial details that make Pan Su hate Wen Jinhui more and more.

A man who doesn't pay attention to the details of life and doesn't do housework is doomed to suffer more hardships and tiredness.

I can't help but think of an 86-year-old Vietnamese woman's divorce case that was hotly debated on the Internet a few years ago. The old man also chose to leave because he couldn't stand her husband's male chauvinism.

Six characteristics of a good man 3 1, can do housework.

No one is born to do housework, so a man who forgets everything by saying "I can't do housework" must be an irresponsible man and won't feel bad for his wife. Now many women have to go to work, and there are a lot of housework waiting for her when she comes home from work. A man who loves his wife will of course take the initiative to participate. A man who does housework must be the most handsome in a woman's heart.

2, go out to eat must be reported.

Nowadays, many men take socializing for granted. At dinner, my wife called, then hurriedly said "eat out" and hung up the phone, but I didn't know that the person on the other end of the phone had been waiting for you for an hour and the food was cold. It is also polite to go out to eat and report.

I also make a phone call every day when I am on a business trip.

After more than 20 years of marriage, parents are still as sweet as first love. Even if my father is on a business trip, he must call every day. When my mother giggled in the living room, I knew it must be my father. A good man will take care of his wife and take good care of it.

I will spend time with my children every week.

Zaler Xu is a lawyer. He is very busy at work on weekdays. Sometimes he works overtime until five in the morning. However, he will spare two days to accompany his daughter sweetly. Sometimes the family will go to the movies together, or have a picnic in the park, or carefully prepare a loving dinner. The children and his wife must be very touched. A good man must put his family first and his career second. After all, money can never be earned, but his family is unique and needs careful care.

5, will give his wife a massage

Tang Yifei can't sleep well. Ling Xiao Su massages her every night so that she can fall asleep. Massage every day, it is difficult for people who have no patience and perseverance to persist. Most people may give up in three days at most, but a man who can really persist must love his wife very much and put her first, so no matter how troublesome things are, he is willing to repeat them.

6. A wife is always right

Zaler Xu is an all-powerful lawyer outside, even the boss wants him to score three points, but at home, Zaler Xu becomes a little sheep, and his wife is uncompromising and angry. Zaler Xu also tried to make his wife happy, buying bags and cosmetics. In Zaler Xu's mind, the wife is used to coax, and the wife is always right, so now the wife is still spoiled like a little princess.