There are four trends in extramarital affairs, one of which is charming.

There is a kind of person who is very charming.

In any relationship, the more rational the party, the more attractive it is and the ability to lead the relationship to a benign development, which is particularly important in marriage, normal love and workplace interpersonal.

"You are not suitable for addiction, but you are lost step by step." Extramarital affairs, want to leave, want to be free, can't earn. Your yearning for freedom cannot surpass your greed for love itself, and you can't leave. You need a more rational person to save you. His rational alienation and indifference is an opportunity for you to save enough disappointment. That's why I sang this sentence: "I want to thank him for his final decision."

People who have extramarital affairs describe this relationship as beautiful and unique, rising to soul mate. In the final analysis, hormones determine the mind, and the mind is smooth with hormones.

As long as the hormonal energy is not exhausted, it is impossible for people not to miss the happiness brought by dopamine.

In the past six years, my thoughts have shuttled through more than 6,000 stories, and there are no joys and sorrows that I can't understand. Seeing 95% extramarital affairs on and off;

About 10% people ended their extramarital affairs rationally and began to settle down and think about the meaning of life, the true nature of marriage and the values of introspection. Through the understanding of these two years, she (he) is getting better and better.

About 20% of the results are that family members know that external forces will put out the "beautiful" bubble outside marriage. It takes a long time to mend marriages and feelings.

Another 20% broke up because they couldn't get along or he found another lover. This seems to be as risky as a normal relationship.

You must ask, what about 50%?

Still in emotional dependence, each takes the necessary pull, on and off. One side needs more, and the other side is indifferent. The initial excitement and happiness were replaced by complaints and anxiety. Split up when you are apart, heal when you meet, and save yourself when you cooperate. I survived eight years and ten years unconsciously, and there were many people.

No matter how sober a person is, once he has a sense of intimacy, it is hard to give up. Only 10% people choose to put it down voluntarily.

People who are led by reason at critical moments are always the best in the crowd, and they are also drunk and charming.

If a person is not polished by the world, reason is just a drunken card that she (he) throws when she (he) has no choice. Reason, as a kind of thing, is put into use and discarded, and the more it is used, the smoother it is, until it becomes a subconscious judgment in the mind and has no coercive force; The more you escape, the more confused you are, the more you deceive yourself and the more cowardly you are, and this card will be destroyed.

Please don't underestimate your growth. Precious time and feelings should not be wasted on this matter. Only by training rationality, not afraid of losing. Not only that.

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