How to treat a son and think his mother is ugly?

This is a manifestation of excessive vanity, and many children will have this kind of psychology in adolescence.

We all know that sons don't think their mothers are ugly, and dogs don't think their families are poor, but some children think their mothers are ugly, just to hold parent-teacher meetings for themselves and not let their mothers come to school. I met such a classmate. I don't know what she thinks, but I can understand her inner feelings. I seem to have some such psychology. Of course, I have grown up now, perhaps because I was too naive at that time.

inferiority complex

People's hearts are particularly strange, especially before people's values have been cultivated. It seems that there is a very difficult road to struggle. When a child is rebellious, he will feel that his mother is ugly. This kind of emotion mostly happens to those children who are relatively inferior. But strangely, their inferiority and excessive self-esteem are intertwined and become a particularly vain mentality. They are particularly insecure about their own things and always want to find approval from others.

Seeing this question, I thought of a TV series I once watched called My Ugly Mother. Is it true that I don't think my mother is ugly? Actually, not necessarily. Some people are vain, and such vain people will think that their mother is ugly and make them lose face. They are particularly afraid that their mother will lose face. This kind of person is very irritating and makes me want to hit people.

The reason of selfish psychology

Most of such children are selfish. He only considers his own feelings and puts himself in other people's shoes. Does his mother know how hard it will be for him to think so? Is it easy to raise a child? After all they have done for us, this love can't be returned. However, he felt that the appearance of such a mother embarrassed him and made people look bad.