Compared with before, why don't rural people like to visit other people's homes now?

In the past, many people in the countryside really liked to go shopping. For example, when winter is late and there is nothing to do after dinner, some people will visit other people's homes and get together to talk about the harvest in the field and what to plant next year.

Some people go out to keep warm, and a few people are around a fire. They also talk about family affairs in the countryside, kill time and go home to sleep at noon. There are fewer and fewer visitors now. We hardly see visitors at ordinary times. Even if there is someone at home during the day, the door is always closed, not to mention at night. Unless there is something to do or someone close to you, there are really few people visiting other people's homes.

Then some people will wonder, why? Why did so many people drop in before, but now they don't like dropping in? There are reasons for the lack of material and spiritual life in the past, and there are also reasons why people are getting busy now. Let's talk about it separately.

I: In the past, people lacked spiritual life.

As far as I can remember, when I was a child, there were frequent power outages in the village, almost every night, usually until around 9 o'clock. People have nothing to do after dinner and there is no electricity at home. It's dark and I can't sleep. What are they doing at home?

It's better to find a place to chat with people and go to a crowded house. After going, a few people talked about crops or things in the village, and half an evening passed. It's the same to keep warm outside. If you have nothing to do at home, go out and talk to someone.

Coupled with the underdeveloped communication at that time, there were frequent power outages, not to mention telephone and mobile phones. There's nothing. Communication depends on shouting, and traffic depends on walking.

For example, now, if someone has something wrong, just say it on the phone, send a message and it's over, and then you can video chat, which was unimaginable at that time.

Therefore, if you have something to say at someone else's house, even if it is a small matter, as long as it is a matter, you must go. Rural people are polite, and they can't leave when they go. Too cold, impolite, not good. So, we'll talk later.

This is the main reason for frequenting in the past. After all, people were too idle at that time, and some people might disagree, saying how farmers could be idle. But it's true. At that time, farmers were very idle in winter, and it was nothing if they didn't want to be idle. Unlike now, they don't go home until the end of the year.

Ⅱ: Now people are getting busier and busier.

Now, people want to do one thing, want to inform individuals, contact directly by phone, send a message, and if something happens tomorrow, it will be finished. There's no need to go straight to someone's house.

Besides, people are really getting busy now. At that time, in winter, everyone was at home and doing nothing. Who is idle at home now? I didn't come back until the Spring Festival. Everyone is busy making money and working outside all the year round, and naturally I seldom visit them.

Even if I have a little strength when I come back from the Spring Festival, I might as well watch a movie on my mobile phone or just play a game. What can we talk about when chatting? Talk about harvest? There is really nothing to talk about.

We are really good friends. We haven't seen each other for a year. After the Spring Festival, we got together, but how many people were at home? Going directly to the restaurant is nothing more than drinking and chatting, but it is completely different from the past chat.

Therefore, it is not that people become indifferent, but that people are getting busier and busier, and everyone has their own things to do. Small things are directly contacted by telephone, which is the inevitability and witness of development.

Some people say that people are under more pressure now, which is indisputable. But it is also a personal choice. People who are really diligent will not be idle. Everyone else has gone to work, and he calls at home every day. What do people think? Gossip will drown you, too.

Less visits and more work, this is not to teach others how to do it, it is reality.

ⅲ: Of course, it is understandable that some people will miss visiting each other during that time, but some people can't understand what they miss. What these people miss is not visiting, nor do they like visiting themselves. What they miss is the atmosphere at that time and the living environment without much pressure.

But then again, how scarce was material at that time? We can't enjoy the convenience brought by development and hate the opportunities and pressures brought by development, right?

If you really like visiting, it is not impossible, but it is still possible now. Others go out to work to earn money, you can just look at home, but don't envy others for living better than you. what do you think?